December 14, 2025

"Mom called what we did 'unschooling'..."

"... a concept championed by the home-schooling pioneer John Holt. She agreed with his assertion that 'schools are bad places for kids,' or at least for a certain kind of kid; my brother Aaron, she decided, was better suited for public school and was sent off on the bus each morning. I, on the other hand, was a 'creative global learner,' and Mom said that she was going to give me a 'free-form education' in order to 'pursue passions.' Other than math, which I began to do by correspondence course, I mostly spent my days with her visiting shops, libraries and restaurants of our rapidly-growing suburb, or else having 'project time' — drawing superheroes, rereading my David Macaulay and Roald Dahl books, or writing short stories.... Mom had been going through a hard time — ever since we’d moved to Plano, Texas, her social life was dim, her career as a children’s magazine editor had been put on hiatus, and her own mother had begun a long decline into dementia — but... 'You are better than any grown-up, Stef. You are more than all I need'...."

Writes the novelist Stefan Merrill Block, in "Home-Schooled Kids Are Not All Right" (NYT).

Here's his memoir, "Homeschooled" (commission earned).

I'm interested in seeing "unschooling" again. I've blogged about it over the years— in 2006, 2016, and 2022 — and even wrote a law school exam about it. Here's my old exam:
In State X, which is facing severe budget problems, people are fascinated by high-tech solutions and intrigued by the concept of unschooling.* After much public debate, a political party promising to end public schools wins a landslide election, takes over the state legislature, and promptly passes legislation ending the state’s compulsory schooling requirement and cutting all funding to local school districts. The idea and intent of this legislation is to cause the local school districts to close all of their public schools, and it is likely that, in this political climate and without any state funding, no locality in the state will retain its public schools. It is well understood that one consequence of this change is the loss of all of the federal spending that is designated for public schools.

Here's what will take the place of public schools. State X already provides free WiFi internet access to all of its citizens, and it will provide laptop computers to all school age children. Pursuant to the philosophy of unschooling, it is believed that the children, facilitated by their parents, will pursue their education via the internet or in whatever other manner they choose, such as by reading books or through work or play.

The state is funding the creation of what should be an excellent, state-of-the-art educational website, with readings, video lectures, lessons, and contact with teachers, that will be freely available to the children who want to use it. The website will also allow students to organize sports and other “real world” activities. A majority of parents, children, and taxpayers in State X are very excited and hopeful about this innovative and cost-effective approach to preparing young people for life as adults in 21st century.

Huge numbers of teachers, administrators, and other public school employees are about to lose their jobs. An organization that represents their interests would like to file a lawsuit in federal court. Its lawyers have a theory that children have a federal constitutional right to free education in public schools. Can the organization file the lawsuit in its own name or should it find particular plaintiffs whose rights are — according to the theory — about to be violated? Can some of the teachers who are about to lose their jobs serve as the plaintiffs? If the new program will not go into effect until 2 years from now, must they wait or can they sue now? Answer these questions in terms of current doctrine, and, once you have done that, discuss whether, given this doctrine, the courts, in this case, will be able to perform the role that properly belongs to courts in our system of separated powers.

Many Americans are shocked at the impending abolition of schools in State X and worried that other states — with their own budget crises — will turn to the high-tech “unschooling” approach. They are putting pressure on Congress to do something to stop this radical experiment and force (or induce) the states to retain traditional public schools. As noted above, the state accepts that it will not receive the federal funding that is offered for public schools, but does that necessarily mean that Congress cannot use the spending power to induce the states to retain its public schools? Can Congress use the commerce power to require the states to have public schools? Answer these questions in terms of current doctrine, and, once you have done that, discuss whether, given this doctrine, Congress, in this instance, will be able to perform the role that properly belongs to it in our system of federalism.

Now, let’s say the courts do not stop State X from embarking on its experiment, and Congress does nothing to stop it. State X — and States Y and Z — go forward with the abolition of public schooling. These states resolve their budget problems, and there is a good deal of evidence that the children are doing reasonably well, especially in one respect: childhood obesity has been entirely eliminated in all three states. Health experts attribute this striking benefit to freedom from the restraints of the classroom and freedom from cafeteria and vending-machine food. Some members of Congress are beginning to think that the State X approach is so good that it should be imposed on all of the states. Analyze the federalism values at stake in this proposal: To what extent is this idea different, in terms of the proper role of Congress in our constitutional system, from the proposal in the previous paragraph?
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* According to Wikipedia, “Unschooling is a range of educational philosophies and practices centered on allowing children to learn through their natural life experiences, including child directed play, game play, household responsibilities, work experience, and social interaction, rather than through a more traditional school curriculum. Unschooling encourages exploration of activities led by the children themselves, facilitated by the adults. Unschooling differs from conventional schooling principally in the thesis that standard curricula and conventional grading methods, as well as other features of traditional schooling, are counterproductive to the goal of maximizing the education of each child.”

52 comments:

Achilles said...

Public schools were specifically designed to prepare kids to work in factories.

They purposely discouraged critical thinking.

They were eventually transformed into giant day cares so that women could go work and the state could raise our kids.

There is no good reason to maintain our public schools. We need mothers at home raising our kids. Not the state.

Saint Croix said...

I went to public schools all my life. It's a one-party state, more or less. Just like the Ivy League. And there's a lot of indoctrination going on. I think a huge amount of the problems with Gen Z is what has been going on in the public schools. And so the home schooling movement is not a surprise, at all.

Republicans ought to do everything they can to bust up the education monopoly by the left, including the indoctrination factories in the public schools. Every Republican ought to favor school choice and empower parents to find the right education for their kids.

narciso said...

They havent been brainwashed with all the mind arson how dare they

Aggie said...

I think school choice is fundamental to getting our kid's education back on track. My sister home-schooled her 3 kids and there were scores of parent organizations that assisted with curriculum, athletics, social interaction, field trips, etc. Now one of her kids is doing the same. The bigger home schooling gets, the bigger and more polished the support systems become. Abolish the Teacher's Union.

Wince said...

In answer to your exam question, you just need to find the right district court judge. A+

JES said...

The Monterssori program is about hands on learning and following your passion.

n.n said...

Homeschooled children are all right.

Joe Bar said...

There is a lot of wasted time in the current educational system. I feel that reasonably intelligent parents could educate their children with much less time devoted to the process. This would give families and children much better bonding opportunities and time to devote to other activities.

There's the rub, though. "Reasonably intelligent.". I suppose that parents incapable of performing this task could form groups where the teaching duties are rotated. I am apprehensive about the success of that.

Also, doesn't society have a responsibility to ensure that children achieve a certain level of competence in certain fields? Not everyone is capable of doing this on their own.

Add that to the current epidemic of single parent households, and I see no easy solution.

Ralph L said...

How many of your students reflexively took the teachers' union side of the argument and ignored the sovereignty of the people in their elected representatives?

Steve Austin Showed Up For Work. said...

Eh, the results of homeschooling depend on the parents, which everyone here knows. That's true of public schooling, too.

This memoir excerpt is clearly saying that the author's mother was using him as a friend substitute, a common phenomenon with single mothers and their children. The homeschooling was an excuse. Children can be adultified, given adult responsibilities too soon, with exposure to adult anxieties. It's bad parenting.

Don't dump your adult problems on kids. Go find a friend.

Achilles said...

Joe Bar said...

There's the rub, though. "Reasonably intelligent.". I suppose that parents incapable of performing this task could form groups where the teaching duties are rotated. I am apprehensive about the success of that.

A dead cat would do a better job educating kids than our public education system does.

Achilles said...

How many kids get done with "Constitutional Law" class and think the right to an abortion is in the US Constitution somewhere?

It takes active programming to achieve this.

Mike (MJB Wolf) said...

Her experience is atypical. Homeschooled and non-schooled children do better at standardized testing than those in government indoctrination camps. Er schools.

n.n said...

Parenting is the hardest job you will ever love.

The special and peculiar interests to keep women affordable, available, reusable, and taxable has been an exploitation of women and a burden on children.

Michael said...



Local woman told me, "I'm not homeschool mom, I'm running an elite educational institution"

Nice way of phrasing it.

gspencer said...

Again with the bashing of home-schooling. For the vast majority of kids it's the way to go. Teachers' unions are poison to real learning. "When students pay union dues, then we'll pay attention to students' needs."

planetgeo said...

I'm "Pro-Choice" on this one. But I like the entire premise of the posed Althouse class assignment, and not just for the legal issues that it generates.

One of the great things about nature of our country is that we have the possibility of having individual states act as an R&D test case for alternative policies and lifestyles. If you like it, go live there. If you don't, go live in another state that's better aligned with your preferences. And evidently, that's exactly what's happening in the U.S. right now. The Great Inner Migration.

tommyesq said...

Bear in mind that inner city teens in many places are effectively unaschooled, and end up running feral in gangs

Yancey Ward said...

Perhaps Althouse can also give us an A answer and a D or F answer from the exam cohort.

I am of the opinion that the federal courts have no power at all in the hypothetical and, if Congress passed a law mandating the state retain its present public school system, that would also be unconstitutional. Additionally, Congress would also be barred from using the withholding non-school funds as a way to coerce compliance with its diktats.

Of course, Wince's answer above is what would happen inside of one hour of a suit being filed.

bagoh20 said...

Despite the huge expense and hassle (you often have to contribute time), I know middle class people including public school teachers who refuse to send their kids to the very public school system they work in. That's a ringing endorsement.

Jamie said...

I support homeschooling... while confessing to a suspicion that some percentage of those doing it aren't doing much at all, or are doing it poorly. This is not an evidence-based suspicion, per se; it's more just an acknowledgment that half the population exists on the bottom half of the bell curve. I hate when that comes up - I'd love to believe that everyone is smart enough to live independently in the modern world - but I don't think that's true.

Old and slow said...

When my son was in 6th grade he made to the final pair in the Yavapai county regional spelling bee. He was bested by a homeschooled girl was was nominally in the 3rd grade. She went on to win regionals 5 years in a row, and won statewide one year, lovely little girl. He was robbed, even though she probably would have won anyway. They gave him a Spanish word, and not one that is a crossover word at all.

pious agnostic said...

The prisons groan with young men who follow their "natural life experiences, including child directed play, game play, household responsibilities, work experience, and social interactions."

Kathy said...

What is currently meant by "school choice" really amounts to government funding of homeschools and private schools. Government funding always comes with strings, eventually. California's generous school choice has almost eliminated independent homeschooling, and now the state is adding regulations to those who take the money that many families homeschooled to avoid. But at this point, the independent infrastructure that supports homeschooling is gone, so rejecting the state's money now will be difficult. Also, because of the state money, the cost of local services to homeschoolers has risen, so families who opt out may not be able to afford them.

I support freedom of choice for educating your children. I do not support "school choixe."

Kathy said...

*choice

Achilles said...

Kathy said...

But at this point, the independent infrastructure that supports homeschooling is gone, so rejecting the state's money now will be difficult.

This is absolutely wrong.

Every year there is a home school conference here that has hundreds of booths.

There are well built frameworks for student progress tracking to get your home school kids diplomas.

There are large cooperatives where parents can teach a class 1 or 2 days a week and other parents can sign their kids up for classes.

stlcdr said...

with regards to the unschooling definition, cant you do both? it seemed like I did all those things growing up, as well as go to school.

john mosby said...

Achilles: "Every year there is a home school conference here that has hundreds of booths.There are well built frameworks for student progress tracking to get your home school kids diplomas. There are large cooperatives where parents can teach a class 1 or 2 days a week and other parents can sign their kids up for classes."

Wow - it's starting to sound like....locally controlled community schools! What a concept! CC, JSM

john mosby said...

I still think individualized AI instruction will be the real answer. Once the price comes down, you can take away the kid's video game or iPhone, slap on an AI instructional headset, and he's "at school" right there next to you. CC, JSM

TosaGuy said...

25 percent of the kids in my school district homeschool. My neighbors did it with their kids. They have a defined curriculum of required subjects and do useful homework and get together with other homeschool kids frequently because some parents teach certain things better.

My neighbors kids are all productive young adults.

mccullough said...

Public schools are primarily a jobs program and are secondarily an indoctrination camp. Individual Constitutional rights are freedom from government. The states or local governments don’t have to provide schools, police departments, or fire departments. They don’t have to build or maintain roads or prisons.

Lazarus said...

If the question is that long I dread reading the answers.

The article author generalizes based on his own experience. I guess that's all he has to generalize with, but there are a lot of home-schooling success stories, generally when it's not left up to a parent who is drowning in her own psychological issues. "School schooled" kids aren't always alright either.

Jupiter said...

He writes pretty well for a person who never received an education.

gspencer said...

mccullough takes the hammer and hits the nail on the head, "Individual Constitutional rights are freedom from government."

That's exactly what the Founders and Framers meant by freedom - freedom from government. Leftists throughout history, today's Democrats included, want total government and then want you to understand that that's freedom.

Yancey Ward said...

"If the question is that long I dread reading the answers."

The question might have been trying to foreclose any attempts at trying to answer a different question more convenient for the student.

Dust Bunny Queen said...

The American Public School Industry is an abject failure. Indoctrination instead of teaching actual subjects. Grouping everyone in the same levels based on age instead of skill or capability. Unionization was the beginning of the death knell for education.

However, while home schooling is a great idea, it is not always great in practice. While some parents have the academic skills, patience and time to home school.....many others are not able. I was raised in a family that valued education, learning and individual intellectual exploration. Other families are barely literate or even skilled in mathematics, history, language etc. Potentially bright students can be stunted if they don't have adequate teachers (sorry parents 🙄). Socialization deficiencies of isolated at home students is also an issue The movie Gifted is an excellent examination of the difficult decisions that need to be made to create a balanced young person.

There are publications, books, curriculum that home schooling parents can use. They can also pool their resources and have groups of children taught at home. This is what most in my geographical area are doing. In addition, being a rural and small town area...there are many organized activities for all children. Sports teams, horseback riding clubs, hiking, biking, golfing and Rodeo!! 4-H to teach other skills...home , business principles and agricultural,. Motor clubs that take on interested kids to learn auto mechanics

gadfly said...

Achilles said...
Public schools were specifically designed to prepare kids to work in factories.

Even if that were true, we need factory workers. But don't high schools have curricula designed to prepare students for college, unless, of course, we unschool college as well.

effinayright said...
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effinayright said...

Per Yancey:
"Additionally, Congress would also be barred from using the withholding non-school funds as a way to coerce compliance with its diktats."
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* How did one law you find unconstitutional transmogrify into multiple unidentified "diktats"?

* Money is fungible, so requiring the feds to fund non-educational programs frees up state funds for education, and thus subsidizes the latter. Why does Congress have to pump federal money indirectly into a state education system it can't (according to you) control? Where does the Constitution compel them to do so?

And have you not noticed Trump busily dismantling the Dept. of Education?

RCOCEAN II said...

Homeschooling should be a choice. Freedom is always in danger when the Left thinks they'll lose their gravy train or their monopoly to propagandize the young.

Our daughter wanted to go to school to be with her friends. I'm sure a lot of kids are like that.

Aggie said...

I said before, 'Abolish the Teacher's Union'. Think a little bit about what will happen when School Choice becomes more or less ubiquitous. In the states that have a history of school choice, with time there will be 3 options: Public School, Home school, Charter School. What happens when Public School becomes the second ranked choice in large, stable communities? If you follow this line of reasoning, you will soon conclude that the capital investments required by a school district will be turning into under-utilized resources. Wise city councils will see this happening and begin to make their space available to - Guess who? Their taxpayers - the ones that choose to send their kids to charter schools, or home school them.

Our public school spaces will remain educational facilities, but will be opened up to students begin taught curricula from other teaching modes. The smart city councils will get out in front of this and expand their programming horizons.

MikeD said...

I finished K-12 in 1960 and everything I see and/or read about public education today is mostly unexamined indoctrination.

Yancey Ward said...

Effing,

Not sure what your issue there was with my comment- all I wrote was that in Althouse's hypothetical the federal government wouldn't be able to, for example, withhold transportation funds to a state that eliminated public schools as they exist today.

Yancey Ward said...

"But don't high schools have curricula designed to prepare students for college"

Well, theoretically, this might be correct.

Josephbleau said...

If the author wants to complain about being damaged as a child, he should show some damage, he seems ok, but bitter. His mom would have been the same regardless of schooling. And how did his brother who went to public school end up? That would be a good anecdotal contrast.

Josephbleau said...

Block graduated from Brown and got a Columbia mfa, so by the standards of elitism in the year 2000 he must have been very well educated in the high school curriculum, and got good SAT scores.

Kai Akker said...

We once had much higher expectations for children's abilities and capacities. All you have to do is look at the wonderful series "My Bookhouse," edited around 1920 by Olive Beaupre Miller, to see it. I'm looking at volume 4 at this moment; its contents include poems by Robert Browning, Longfellow, Keats, Tennyson and Byron; stories from Hans Christian Andersen to Louisa May Alcott, Charles Dickens to Theodore Roosevelt; the story of Daniel in the Lions' Den; The Adventures of Perseus, and The Labors of Hercules; Norse myths, Russian folk tales; and George Eliot and Leo Tolstoy. Plus some biography and some Arabian Nights.

In a different volume, last night I read a shortened Beowulf.

There is so much pointless pablum put out for kids now, I am reading and rereading from these great old volumes with great pleasure for myself and finding a few tales I can read to a certain 3-year-old.

Will this pendulum of intellectual excitement and the love of history and literature swing back? Or are we doomed to disappear under the ravages of a hungrier nation, like China? The kids who read books like these had a lot of preparation for anything.

Kai Akker said...

Just fyi from Wikipedia..... Does this manifesto not sound good?

In 1919 Miller established a company, The Book House for Children, to publish popular children’s literature edited by herself to meet her standards:

"First,--To be well equipped for life, to have ideas and the ability to express them, the child needs a broad background of familiarity with the best in literature.
"Second,--His stories and rhymes must be selected with care that he may absorb no distorted view of life and its actual values, but may grow up to be mentally clear about values and emotionally impelled to seek what is truly desirable and worthwhile in human living.
"Third,--The stories and rhymes selected must be graded to the child's understanding at different periods of his growth, graded as to vocabulary, as to subject matter and as to complexity of structure and plot." [1]
The first volume of The Book House series was published in 1920. The series would eventually include twelve volumes.[1]

Mr. T. said...

Abolish the teacher unions (and all governent unions), bring back the independent tutors.

In our country's early history, teachers would rely on the magnanimonity of the community, not on extortion and corrupt malignant property redistribution. If you weren't any good, then you starved.

Survival based on community value? Sounds like that Yay socalist socialism! (TM) that the left always wants. Fine! Let's start by implementing that on the teacher unions first. How do you like them apples??? (assuming anyone gives them any)

wildswan said...

When the Constitution was written and for more than a hundred years after, there was no system of universal free public education throughout the United States with children required to attend school. Laws requiring such a system were only passed in 1918. So I think the system could be changed. And I totally support parents teaching their children. But if you have a group of homeschooling parents you know that some children do better in regular schools. Boys in conflict with their mother as a teacher is common. At present, there's an organized alternative - regular public schools. Yet these are increasingly toxic, especially for boys.
What I'm saying is that it wouldn't be unconstitutional to get rid of the public school system we know but homeschooling is an alternative only for children of educated parents - and not all of them. We saw this with Covid. A free school is the only way the children of the uneducated can cross over into being educated and the only way some people with educated parents can be educated. So I think it's a moral requirement that there should be some free schools in every community. The difficulty comes when we see children openly not learning as will happen if we partially dismantle the present system. Again, we saw this with Covid. It's my opinion that we should stop pretending everyone is learning and stop masking the pretence with social promotions. That's not particularly moral. A good basic education would be better than a fake high school diploma. Probably, various types of schools adapted to different circumstances would spring up to achieve that goal.

JK Brown said...

Schooling has long been known to damage real learning in children and to condition them to learn how to hack the teacher/test to get good grades. Students are rewarded for regurgitation not ratiocination or retention.

See this video on a discovery Richard Feyman made about the best and brightest students, those achieving high marks in Physics.
"The Day Feynman Realized Students Knew NOTHING (Brazil Lecture, 1952)". https://youtu.be/T1PuGEsE4po

Or this from 1909
"How docile young people are, after all, in intellectual matters! They lack the courage to resent neglect in class, to acknowledge that they do not understand, and to ask questions; they lose their pression, initiative and even independent power to think, when in the presence of teachers; and they ignore their own experience in favor of print. They are so bent on satisfying others that they suppress their own inner promptings. In doing this they seem to confuse moral with intellectual qualities, acting as though the sacrifice of self in study was equally virtuous with its sacrifice in a moral way."
...
"The evil is most serious with young children because of their youth. Many of them, while making good progress in the three R's, outgrow their tendency to ask questions and to raise objections, in other words lose their mental boldness or originality, by the time they have attended school four years. But all along, from the kindergarten to the college, there is almost a likelihood that the self will be undermined while acquiring knowledge, and that, in consequence, one will become permanently weakened while supposedly being educated. In this respect it is dangerous to attend a school of any grade."

—McMurry, Frank M. ( Morton). How to Study and Teaching How to Study, 1909

Or this from 1886:
"The superintendent begins to distrust his own system of abstract instruction, and resolves to test the acquirements of certain classes of pupils ranging from ten to twelve years of age. He submits a series of questions in number, which are promptly solved either orally or in chalk on the black-board, showing a complete mastery of the subject from the abstract side, or point of view. To test the practical value of the knowledge thus exhibited the superintendent repeats his series of questions, applying them to things. For example : He passes six cards to a pupil, and requests that one-half of them be returned. This question having been promptly and correctly answered by the return of three of them, and the six cards being again placed in the hands of the pupil, the second question is propounded, namely, " Please give me one -third of one -half of the cards in your hand." The pupil is puzzled ; he fumbles the cards nervously, blushes, and returns a wrong number or becomes entirely helpless and "gives it up." This question, or some other question of similar general import, is submitted to each member of the class with a like unfavorable result in eight or nine cases in a total of ten cases. The superintendent is astonished ; he is more than astonished, he is deeply chagrined ; for he knows that the kindergarten child of six or seven years of age, with the blocks, would answer his series of questions correctly eight or nine times in a total of ten."

The question is, if students were broken to the classroom by 3rd grade, what might they achieve by having guidance in their learning instead of hectoring and dependence by a teacher.

I do hope some of the best and brightest of our future are escaping the classroom school system. Of course, that we are condemning the majority of students to conditioning to labels instead of thought, a task that AI is far better at than humans does not bode well for their lives in the AI future.

Craig Mc said...

Having stayed in Plano, I can see how she felt.

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