"The thing that you learn as an older person too, is that you really don’t love that many things. You think you do, but you don’t."

"You find that out when it’s too late. By that point you have passed up so many of the great things that you wish you had and you accumulated all this stuff that is absolutely worthless."

Said Isaac Mizrahi, quoted in "A New Guide on the Endless Quest for Personal Style/A new book from the RealReal, the secondhand designer retailer, has ideas for how to develop taste that is your own" (NYT).

"So with the first few BMOs I tried, I combined [the bread, butter, and cheese] into a sandwich, and ate quickly and efficiently with both hands."

"'That’s the burger method,' said Mr. Dyrholm, the Politiken critic. Two friends set me straight. 'It’s just, like, very, very important that you eat it like this,' said Emma Toft Kromann, holding it open-faced. 'If you see someone eating it like a burger, you know they’re not from here,' added Ophelia Ernland. A bolle med ost is the elevenses of a city caught between hustle and hygge...."

From a long NYT article that's just about how people in Copenhagen eat bread with butter and some cheese. The headline is "It’s Sliced Cheese on Bread. And It’s Rocking Copenhagen’s World. The Danish capital is obsessed with this stripped-down snack, and the city’s top bakeries won’t stop until they’ve perfected it."

I haven't seen "elevenses" for so long, I almost thought I didn't know the word. I do know it, but I looked it up anyway. Here:

Ha ha. "Fourzes." "Fourzes" does not, like "elevenses," have its own OED entry. (I do think "elevenses" is plural, so that's a quibble with "A bolle med ost is the elevenses.") 

Anyway, bread and butter and cheese. Perfect. Why do we even need to be reminded that it's a thing? There's a particular way that it's a thing — in Copenhagen.

"Would You Listen to A.I. Music? Maybe You Already Do.... If you were to hear A.I. music, would you recognize it as something made by a machine?"

That's a NYT article. It asks you to listen to a song — by "Diane Butler" — that is machine-made out of a million real country songs.

“I listened to it, and I was like, oh, my God, this is my anthem. I’m obsessed with the song,” said Ms. Stamatis, a 38-year-old mother of three in Denver. “I was sending it to all my friends.”

Eventually a message came back from one of those friends: “It’s an A.I. bot. Stop listening right now.” Another texted: “I can’t believe you guys got catfished by an A.I. bot.”

I read that yesterday, but I didn't blog it, because it didn't quite cross my bloggability line. But I'm blogging it now, because Meade just sent me this:

So was he tricked? No, he says he knew it was A.I. He saw it in the middle of the night and wanted to preserve it. He forgets exactly why. 

The NYT article is mostly about whether streaming services ought to have safeguards that exclude A.I. music or at least bonk you over the head with the fact that it is A.I. music. But I think what's really important is that we, the humans, remain engaged in search for truth. It's absurd to ask machines like Spotify to do the work of detecting the work of music-making machines. We end up with a world of machines interacting with machines, and what is left for use to do? Consume the music that one machine or the other has decided is good for us? Well, isn't it good that the bearded cowboy thinks we'd better call our mother before it's too late and we're the ones left crying?

BUT: On the other hand, the machines can make this music so fast and affect emotions so quickly that the streaming service is entirely overrun and we won't use it anymore or, worse, we'll become fools for everything artificial. 

"We don't ride bicycles in Iowa."

Joe Mitchell: "Thank God you're building the ballroom. Thank God you're getting rid of those awful bike lanes. We don't ride bicycles in Iowa." https://t.co/pMkgvYZhv0

— Aaron Rupar (@atrupar) October 23, 2026

Is a ballroom more of a motorcycle thing or a bicycle thing? Seems to me motorcycling and bicycling go together more than either fits into the world of ballrooms. 

The Brewers profess their love for the national anthem.

What will be going through these #Brewers players heads during the National Anthem prior to game 1 of the World Series tomorrow?? https://t.co/jwaaMAl2jn

— Cameron Ezeir (@camezeir) October 22, 2026

Sunrise.

October trees at 7:33 a.m.

"A mum of two died after she crashed her car en route to a hospital after being stabbed at a retirement village."

"Eleanor Barnfield sustained 'puncture wounds' after being attacked at work in Bridgend, South Wales. After being told by the ambulance service that there would be a long wait, the 47-year-old tried to drive herself to hospital, according to eyewitnesses." 

From "Mum of two dies in crash while driving herself to hospital after being stabbed at retirement village" (GBNews).

ADDED: How different is it in America? See "Shot or stabbed? You may not want to call an ambulance/Analysis: Victims more likely to die if transported to the trauma center by EMS" (Philly voice)("For certain types of injury, it might be best to call the police, Uber or a cab – however you can get to the trauma center fastest").

"That was great. Man. Wow. Man. I love that. I watched that. I saw that. That was incredible."

Trump said “Man, I loved that,” after a man allegedly punched a protester during a midterm rally in South Carolina. https://t.co/A9efIOdxEG

— The Mirror (@DailyMirror) October 22, 2026

"Did Elon Musk decide by personal fiat to cut off Ukraine's access to vital communications?"

Memeorandum organizes the links about Starlink:

 Paul Krugman:

It's Time to Take Starlink Away from Elon Musk  —  Americans did not give him the right to make national security policy  —  Did Elon Musk decide by personal fiat to cut off Ukraine's access to vital communications?  Although Musk claims that the decision was made by Trump … 

Discussion: No More Mister Nice Blog and twitchy.com

RELATED:

 The Hill:NEW!

Rubio, Hegseth point finger at Musk in Starlink slowdown  —  Top Trump administration officials are starting to point fingers squarely at SpaceX founder Elon Musk for the decision to slow down his company's Starlink satellite internet services and its military counterpart Starshield for Ukraine … 

Discussion: CNBC, Reuters, Ars Technica, The Daily Wire, Forbes, Stars & Stripes, Breitbart, Bloomberg, NewsMax.com, Mediaite and Mercury News

 Michael A. Cohen / MS NOW:
Elon Musk is trying to make himself more powerful than the government

Discussion: Townhall, Atlantic Council and Mediaite

The future, as envisioned in the past.

I'm just stumbling into the idea of "Blog fiction" I had back in 2004:

Good fiction blogging would involve several fictional characters, each with their own blog, linking to each other, discussing various fictional events in their lives, perhaps along with interesting other commentary on real world events. It would have to go on for years, like a comic strip that you read daily, and would contain thousands of entries.

Such tiny grandiosity, 22 years ago. 

Isn't the WNBA trying to build its audience?

That's my question as I'm reading "Atlanta Dream and Golden State Valkyries skip national anthem for third straight WNBA Finals game/The Atlanta Dream and Golden State Valkyries jogged off the court before the anthem in all three games of the series" (Fox News).

@ClayTravis While Pat Murphy’s rule with the Brewers is - miss the anthem, miss the game. It’s pretty simple.

— Matt Schaefer (@mschaef02) October 20, 2026

"is the man a lefty or is the woman?"

That's what I asked Grok after viewing this chaos:

The best 1:44 of tv you’ll ever see https://t.co/Nbs5jqtRCP

— Jake Wallis Simons (@JakeWSimons) October 21, 2026

Grok's answer here. Short answer: The man is the lefty.

For background on the controversy, see "BBC forced into embarrassing climbdown after civil servants caught working for 'fact-checking unit'/The Corporation confirmed those currently on secondment will not be involved in the publication of news while the scheme is under review" (GBNews).

"And I said, Sundar, I'm thinking of the Atlantic Ocean. Can you handle it?

Trump: I called Google Maps to change the name of the Atlantic Ocean to Trump Ocean. Sundar said, “No, no, no. This time I'm not doing it.” He said, “Oceans are different, sir. They cover a lot of countries. Please don't ask us to do that.” https://t.co/mfK2ugKs38

— The_Real_Fly (@The_Real_Fly) October 22, 2026

It's almost like he's saying he was always joking, and sometimes they do what he tells them to do.

Sunrise.

"I won’t normalize somebody who has said that my childhood is something I’m just complaining about."

Said Amy Acton, explaining why she won't debate Vivek Ramaswamy, quoted in "Attack Ad Featuring Candidate’s Mother Turns Ohio Governor’s Race Even Uglier/A Republican ad features Amy Acton’s estranged mother calling her daughter a liar. The two have not spoken since Dr. Acton’s mother backed her husband after his arrest on rape charges" (NYT).

You've probably seen the ad with Acton's mother, the worst ad I've seen in a long time. It's an ad in a unique category of badness. 

Here's a response from Acton's brother.

ADDED: Trump spoke out: "I hear the mother went very rogue on the daughter, doesn’t have a lot of respect for the daughter, and I think the mother is a witness to things, so who knows? It’s a very unusual situation to have a mother hate a daughter that much, but I don’t think that has anything to do with Vivek."

That was after J.D. Vance had said: "I’m a little bit disgusted when I see Republicans across the country who are whining more about that advertisement than they are about what the congressional Democrats and other Democrats want to do to the United States of America. So I would say to Ohio Republicans, do you actually think that Amy Acton is unfit to serve as governor of the state of Ohio? I do."

I got the quotes from this NYT article.