"The zipless fuck is absolutely pure. It is free of ulterior motives. There is no power game."

"The man is not 'taking' and the woman is not 'giving.' No one is attempting to cuckold a husband or humiliate a wife. No one is trying to prove anything or get anything out of anyone. The zipless fuck is the purest thing there is."

So wrote Erica Jong, in "Fear of Flying," quoted by Kat Rosenfield, in "What the Cornell 7 Texts Reveal" (The Free Press). 

Just over 50 years later, albeit less articulately, another young woman expressed similar sentiments—in a series of disjointed, typo-laden text messages, following a now-infamous incident of drunken, drug-fueled group sex at a Cornell University fraternity house.

“I think we all have a soul bond now cause very few people can say they’ve had an experience like that,” she wrote in one message. In another: “i don’t think we should feel any shame for the part. our body our choice asf”—asf being shorthand for the emphatic as fuck.

The delusion/hope of "a soul bond" is just about the opposite of Jong's "zipless fuck." It's a desire for deep attachment. It's the something more that wrecks the purity Jong envisioned.

"The judiciary should not be abused to politicize a structure designed to unite our nation.... We will continue making the case for this beautiful and fitting monument...."

Said a White House spokesman, quoted in "Kennedys sue to block Trump's arch, arguing it would cast shadow on JFK's grave" (BBC).

I don't know about the legal arguments but:

1. The monument is already political, and its hard to see how it can ever rise above its political origin.

2. Even if it is "designed to unite our nation," which I doubt, it's obviously not uniting us, and it's hard to see how it ever could.

3. It's not "beautiful and fitting" to me and to a lot of us Americans, and it shouldn't be built until there is far more consensus and desire for this immense thing in such a conspicuous and hallowed place. 

"Former Wisconsin Lt. Gov. and gubernatorial candidate Mandela Barnes sued the Milwaukee Journal Sentinel on Tuesday..."

"... alleging the newspaper published a defamatory story about his consensual sex life at a key moment during the Democratic primary for governor that caused great harm to his reputation. The legal complaint includes an explosive charge: that a female political reporter at the newspaper had a past sexual relationship with Barnes and then was involved in the flawed reporting process on his consensual sex life, and that the newspaper learned about the alleged conflict but did not tell readers, instead rushing the story into print."

From "Barnes Charges JS Reporter Who Slept With Him Worked on ‘Defamatory’ Story/Explosive complaint charges conflict of interest in newspaper's story about former Lt. Governor" (Urban Milwaukee).

Here's the Journal's response— "Former Lt. Gov. Mandela Barnes sues Journal Sentinel alleging defamation" — "The story went through our standard editing and legal review, and Mr. Barnes was given the opportunity to respond before publication."

Trump calls in.

Here's the entirety of Trump's bonkers call to C-SPAN, which began with a woman (not Melania) giggling in the background, continued with him going on a fascist diatribe about Venezuela, and ended with the C-SPAN host gently trying to nudge him off the line mid-psychotic rant https://t.co/VBKMwJaxKj

— Aaron Rupar (@atrupar) November 10, 2026

Trump, on Truth Social, says it was all quite normal and anyone who says otherwise is a big fat liar:

But the laughing woman... was that fully planned?

By the way, doesn't the use of the word "apparently" absolve the NYT from the sin of lying?

"Asked whether pursuing the failed impeachment effort had been worth it, Mr. Massie said it 'absolutely' had been, because it provided proof that his party was still in thrall to Mr. Trump."

I'm reading "Republicans Turn Back Effort to Impeach Hegseth/The G.O.P. banded together to shelve impeachment articles against the defense secretary, sparing him from a damaging rebuke and potential ouster" (NYT).

[Republican] Party leaders had also been concerned that low attendance by their members could doom their chances of saving Mr. Hegseth. In the end, though, more Democrats than Republicans missed the vote. 

The 11 Democrats who did not vote were Representatives Julia Brownley, Lou Correa and Nancy Pelosi, all of California; Laura Gillen of New York; Steven Horsford of Nevada; Jonathan L. Jackson of Illinois; Brittany Pettersen of Colorado; Melanie Stansbury of New Mexico; Haley Stevens of Michigan; Marilyn Strickland of Washington; and Frederica Wilson of Florida. 

The Republicans who did not record a position were Representatives Monica De La Cruz of Texas; Neal Dunn of Florida; Russell Fry of South Carolina; Julia Letlow of Louisiana; Tom Tiffany and Derrick Van Orden, both of Wisconsin; and Rudy Yakym III of Indiana."

Thanks to the Democrats who participated — albeit passively — in saving us from the misguided impeachment ordeal. You won the big election. Do something constructive with it. Something sane. 

Sunrise.

Axios portrays DeSantis and Rubio as "alligator people."

 

Link. 

There's no reason to refer to them as "alligator people" other than that they're Floridian. Axios has a quote from somebody else, somebody nameless: "'The alligator people are stirring,' said one national Republican consultant with extensive Florida experience, referring to the Sunshine State's official reptile."

You know the alligator is also the official reptile of Mississippi, and its scientific name is Alligator mississippiensis. And I await the day when New York politicians are called snapping turtles.

"Dear Joe, Coming to work every day in the Oval Office is a blessing beyond imagination. History resounds from every wall, every statue, every beautiful painting..."

"... and every corner of this magical place. Each staircase, hallway, and door leads to yet another door and memory, another inflection point in the glorious story of America. I hope you take a moment every single day to take stock of where you are and the people who came before you, the titans who shaped the course of human events. You now have the opportunity to choose your place in history, and I know you will be true to yourself and the American people. Many presidents have come and gone who simply governed as Republicans or Democrats. Largely, they did not change history, they were just swept along in its relentless tide. This will not happen to you because I know how much you love the American people...."

Wrote Donald Trump, in the letter he left in the Oval Office for Joe Biden, quoted in "'I Know How Much You Love the American People,' Trump Told Biden in 2021 Letter/The letter, which former President Joseph R. Biden Jr. details in a new book, is remarkable for a warm tone starkly at odds with his predecessor’s public comments" (NYT).

It's a warm letter. I wonder who drafted it. It doesn't sound like Trump, and I'm not saying that because I don't think Trump can be warm. And some of it does sound a lot like Trump. He's interested in architecture, interior design, and the profundities of history. I'm saying it doesn't sound like Trump because he used the phrase "inflection point."

In August 2020, I blogged about "inflection point" in a post that begins with a quote from Kamala Harris's convention speech:  

A walk in the woods.

Late afternoon, yesterday.

"Pete Hegseth gets an 'A' PLUS, PLUS, PLUS for his defense against a disgruntled, angry, defeated, former Congressman, Thomas Massie, a TOTAL LOSER!"

Signed "President DJT" at Truth Social.

Here's the entire press conference, 25 minutes long:

"Well, uh, good morning. I'll get right to it. What one disgruntled and defeated congressman is attempting is not oversight and it's not accountability. It's a political spectacle, a personal manifesto driven by ego and resentment. Time for one man's final days in Congress to try to do damage to this president, this country, and most irresponsibly the warriors who defend it. It's a farce, and it's a stunt, and everybody knows it.

"Shere Hite? Even those who remember her influential book 'The Hite Report,' a crowdsourced account of female sexuality..."

"... published 50 years ago [last] month, are not 100 percent sure how to pronounce her first name: like Sherry but without the 'y.'... The original 'Hite Report' was compiled from around 3,000 responses to anonymous survey questions printed in 'rainbow ink on pastel-colored scrap paper and offcuts of old Bingo cards' and adorned — prefiguring Instagram — 'with love hearts, cupid bows and arrows, and starbursts.' Were her returns questioned for statistical bias toward the dissatisfied? Sure. But it’s not like that white-coated Harvard-Yale study about women over 40 having less than a 2 percent chance of marrying, so loudly trumpeted in Newsweek in 1986, held up to scrutiny. Published first by Macmillan, 'The Hite Report' was perhaps the peak in a wave of literature exploring women’s libido that included Nancy Friday’s 'My Secret Garden' (1973), a collection of increasingly outré fantasies; and 'The Sensuous Woman' (1969), by 'J,' a.k.a Terry Garrity, which was more on the Cosmopolitan man-pleasing, Saran Wrap continuum.... Hite’s book was reviewed in these pages by Erica Jong, whose novel 'Fear of Flying” was itself a sensation...."

I'm reading "50 Years Later, a Hit Book on Women’s Sexuality Deserves Some Love/Its author became a pop culture celebrity, and sometimes punchline, but 'The Hite Report' helped make way for frank discussions about pleasure" (NYT).

I like to blog articles about "The Hite Report," because I was part of the crowd in that crowd source, one of the 3,000 respondents, though I don't remember any strange rainbow-ink printing or "love hearts." It was a normal multi-page stapled xerox. I think!

"After the death of his wife, Diana, the retired Notre Dame professor and poet John Matthias wrote a long letter to friends and family. "

"He detailed the uniquely devastating circumstances of his wife’s decline, as well as the events that led to his own disorienting commitment to a psychiatric ward. He was surprised to learn that a colleague had submitted the letter for consideration to a major national publication, which published it...."

Writes Stephen P. Neary who animated the story, at the NYT.

That's a gift link, so please don't miss the beautifully drawn animation called "Living With a Visionary."

"It’s easy to assume that we sit at the pinnacle of human knowledge and achievement. Zettabytes of information are just a click away..."

"... we jet halfway across the world in hours; we talk to anyone, anywhere, all while satellites circle the globe, DNA is sequenced and spliced and small packets of electrochemical energy hum with power at our disposal. And yet archaeology consistently turns up hints of ancient accomplishments, buried for centuries. Just this year, researchers have discovered poisons used by early Homo sapiens, wooden tools carved by early hominins, well-engineered Maya plazas, terraces and other architectural feats and a centuries-old board game...."

From "How Did Greek Fire Work? And 6 Other Lost Inventions" (NYT)(a gift link, like all NYT links now).

I think I'm seeing "zettabytes" for the first time. What is a zettabyte?

"I felt completely alienated from the other students and underappreciated in general."

"Recently I came upon a programme I saved for a 1956 run of Henrik Ibsen’s Peer Gynt at the Playhouse’s West Balcony Theatre in Pasadena. I remember desperately wanting to play Peer Gynt, but I was cast in two small parts: 'slave' and 'ugly boy'.... Besides [me and Gene Hackman], the people at the Playhouse were all beautiful. These tall, perfect blond guys like Robert Redford, 'walking surfboards,' as the actor and screenwriter Buck Henry used to say, the kind of guys who’d get cast on Bonanza. They were always wearing fake guns in holsters in the hallway at school, and they would practise drawing their weapons. That was a leading man. We were character actors, and that was just fine with us. To be frank, we were snobs...."

Writes Dustin Hoffman, in "Dustin Hoffman: Duvall, Hackman and our wild 1960s in New York/In 1958, a terrified Hoffman arrived in Manhattan to try and make it as an actor. In an extract from his new memoir, he recounts a thrilling decade of odd jobs, partying with Robert Duvall and sleeping on Gene Hackman’s kitchen floor" (London Times).

Sunrise.

Asked about UFOs, Trump raves about handsome pilots.

"I'm not too much of a believer, but I sat in the Oval Office, first term and a little bit second term, meeting with Air Force pilots that are really good, solid people. These are not people that you would say are conspiracy theorists. They don't even know what it means. But they're great, great pilots. Young, handsome. They have beautiful, nice flat tops. I'd like to have a haircut just like them. They look perfect, like Tom Cruise. … They're thin, you know, very thin and very everything. And… they're the real deal. And they've told me things that are very strange."

Quoted in "10 takeaways from Trump's 60 Minutes interview: Why GOP lost the midterms, what went wrong on immigration and more" (CBS).

I just want to know if the aliens are good-looking. And which A-list celebrity they most resemble. I'm on a Nicolas Cage kick this month, so I hope they look like Nicolas Cage....