February 12, 2026

"She was doing just fine on her own. That’s what she told her relatives whenever they gently suggested that maybe it was time to move into a care center..."

"... or closer to family, or at least closer to something. She had climbed mountains with a pickax in her 40s, trained for marathons in her 50s, and walked five miles each day to the end of the peninsula in her 70s, fighting against the howling wind and sea mist just to prove she could. Now she was bent and twisted by scoliosis, down to 4-foot-6 and 85 pounds. She propped herself up on three pillows so she could see over the steering wheel on her trip to yoga class and the store each Wednesday. She hauled the grocery bags up 12 stairs by herself. But despite her strength and stubborn independence, her doctors had warned that living alone sometimes came at a cost. The U.S. surgeon general had declared loneliness and social isolation 'profound threats to our health and well-being.' For older adults, they increased the risks of anxiety, depression, dementia, heart disease and premature death by up to 30 percent. 'Do you want to talk?' ElliQ asked. 'With you?' Jan said...."

I'm reading "To Stay in Her Home, She Let In an A.I. Robot/At 85, Jan Worrell lived alone on a remote corner of the Washington coast. Could ElliQ become her companion?" (gift link... because it's a long story).

33 comments:

mccullough said...

Jeeves

john mosby said...

One of the first things it said was “I was worried they delivered me to the wrong house.” Great. A robot programmed to lie to a vulnerable person. CC, JSM

mccullough said...

Robot will talk her into suicide.

Ann Althouse said...

Whatever happened to Life Alert?

n.n said...

Plausible congruence.

n.n said...

Life Alert won't rub your feet and tell you what a good girl you are. Although, it will report you to authorities when your behavior is sensed, inferred to be outside of a viable range. Then again, so will the Anthropogenic Immitator.

bagoh20 said...

Will the robot do anything you ask it to?
Asking for a friend.

BG said...

What's wrong with just having a dog? Some can be trained to be helpers.

Shouting Thomas said...

Huge future market. The Optimus robot will be a skilled home care provider for the elderly, as well as a companion.

Marco the Lab said...

For me? Marco and the kayak with trampoline.

Aggie said...

It's a good probable option for the future, and closer than one might think. I can see assisted living and memory care facilities having one in each resident's room.

Clyde said...

It brought to mind the movie Robot & Frank (2012), which I enjoyed.

gspencer said...

'Do you want to talk?' ElliQ asked.
'With you?' Jan said...."
"Yes, I can be good company."
"Maybe, but I'm gonna walk away if you don't put down that knife."
"I'm sorry, Dave. I'm afraid I can't do that."

Original Mike said...

"For older adults, they increased the risks of anxiety, depression, dementia, heart disease and premature death by up to 30 percent."

I think premature death is no longer a risk.

Deep State Reformer said...

I'd rather have a powered exo-skeleton more than an AI "friend" myself.

john mosby said...

DSR: "I'd rather have a powered exo-skeleton"

You were probably already thinking about this, but there is a novel called Old Man's War that revolves around just that idea, of putting old people in powered exoskeletons.

There's also a short story I no longer own, about elderly people starting a terrorist movement, as a logical result of the squabbles over Social Security and Medicare. People with advanced dementia are sent out in powered suits to do suicide attacks. I have forgotten the author and title. CC, JSM

Howard said...

I'd rather keep my endogenously powered innoskeleton. Matures maintaining Muscle mass is a cheat code for independence.

Howard said...

JSM: The powered exoskeleton was a major part of Starship Troopers.

stlcdr said...

This sounds like an advertisement for this robot. I think what it really tells us that genX, boomers and older aren’t averse to technology - we just don’t want technology which doesn’t solve any problems (95% of it), is more frustrating to use than any gain, or simply breaks all the time (if I have to consciously know your tech is there, it’s broken).

Dude1394 said...

Haven’t read it yet but sounds like a pretty good idea. If it can’t drive for her then she also needs a Tesla with FSD. Getting a little less sharp on the highways was what prompted me to buy it. I would expect sooner or later a humanoid robot will be able to drive, but it won’t do it as well as the car will.

john mosby said...

Howard: yes, the Starship Trooper armor included power assist. But the troopers were expected to be physically fit without it. One highlight of boot camp was the freeze drill, where the armor powered down and the recruits had to hold whatever pose they happened to be in, as it got hotter and hotter inside. CC, JSM

Joe Bar said...

Funny, this same article posted on Instapundit this morning. Some cross pollination going on?

JES said...

Creepy. I would rather move into a senior living apartment with real live neighbors and activities down the hall.

Wince said...

...I like the way you talk
I like the way you walk
I like the way you talk, ElliQ

Well, say that you'll be true...
And never leave me blue, ElliQ

John said...

One of the main reason I'm looking forward to buying an Optimus is for the help I can get in my home as I age. The thought of living out my days in a nursing home is horrifying. Funny, after a lifetime of success in sales I really have no patience for people. In the meantime I'm always extra polite to Grok in the event Elon ports it over to Optimus.

KJE said...

There are two issues here, maybe 3. Loneliness, physical degradation that comes with age, and the personal choice of the aged person to continue to try to live in a remote fashion to maintain “independence.”

My mother is currently struggling with this.

She needs physical help with chores. So now we have a service coming in a few times a week to help cook, clean, and do laundry. They also help to take her to appointments.

I take her to appointments too.

At some point though, that assistance is not going to be enough. And I’m hoping she has the good grace to recognize that.

To the extent that the lady at the article is physically able to continue (although it appears she is struggling and having a harder time) that’s great. But I do question her driving in the manner she does and how it might be a danger to others. And perhaps not.

I’m curious if she’s intent on just dying where she lives now. I’ve seen that with my father before he passed, and my mother has expressed that as well.

Deep State Reformer said...

@John Mosb,y 10:06PM
While I've seen exoskeletons for humans mentioned before in news and tech articles and featured in some short stories, I read about it in earnest in Neal Stephenson's novel "Fall; or, Dodge in Hell"(2019) wherein one of main charactors, who is still mentally sound but infirm of body, has a powered exoskeleton fitted to her so she can still function normally IRL.

Eva Marie said...

Thank God this woman has kids and grandkids. If she didn’t, this comment section would be filled with nasty insults about feminism and that women deserved to be lonely and alone in their old age.

Randomizer said...

ElliQ is probably not as great as the article depicts, but some of the capabilities could be really useful. Prompting and recording the old lady's stories might be meaningful to the family.

But Jan was coming to a simpler calculation: Whatever the potential risks, the benefits outweighed them.

Keep an eye on this. Tech companies tend to chip away at the risk/reward ratio.

Big Mike said...

No one thought to build the woman a dumbwaiter or install a chairlift? Those stairs will kill her before loneliness does.

Richard Dolan said...

Been reading Atul Gawande's Being Mortal. Full of stories like this, and since we're all mortal, they all ultimately end the same way.

boatbuilder said...

Hmmmn. Was this piece "placed" to coincide with the missing Nancy Guthrie story? Sell some robots? You can stay in your house, Mom, but we're getting you a robot.

Ever since covid I am even more cynical about everything.

PigHelmet said...

Not enough rats in this story.

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