February 11, 2023

Policing the "overcalculated playfulness" of actors wearing fashions that might not align with their sexual orientation.

I'm reading "Is Celebrity ‘Queer Baiting’ Really Such a Crime? Even as gender and masculinity are more fluid than ever, it can still rankle when male stars co-opt traditionally gay codes and styles" by Mark Harris (NYT Style Magazine).

[Q]ueer baiting... is a celebrity culture term referring to performers and artists who slyly imply, whether by action, remark or passing behavior, that they might not be a hundred percent heterosexual in order to court an L.G.B.T.Q. audience, but are actually either straight or, at the very least, determined not to get specific. 
For those who make the accusation of queer baiting, the argument against opportunism is simple: How dare you reach into our pockets and take our money when you’re only pretending to be one of us (or, in any case, when you’re not telling us who you are)?... 
Overcalculated playfulness about the subject can come off as a kind of self-marketing....

This sounds like vigilance about who gets to make money off of sexual orientation, but generally, in life, the money doesn't flow to the artists who are the most authentic exemplars of the experience that is the subject matter of their expression. Actors can be rather blank and empty individuals who go into the profession precisely because they need roles to fill them up. Don't be jealous of them when the role they play is something that you believe you really are. If you object to the money they make, playing the character who you really are, you don't understand performance. Or — admit it! — you want their money.

The article author, Mark Harris, goes on to examine the discrepancy between the criticism of "queer baiting" and the Gen Z view of sexuality that (supposedly!) asserts: “You can be anything you want to be.”

Today, younger people who use “L.G.B.T.” or its longer variants do so primarily as shorthand for a range of options, from asexual to pansexual to questioning to intersex to trans-masc to bi-curious, among theoretically limitless other possibilities, the embrace of any one of which does not have to be a permanent thing....

Notice how subtly Harris seems to acknowledge gender-reassignment surgery. The "embrace" of an "option" is permanent. But this is in the NYT fashion magazine. A great thing about fashion is that it's not permanent. You put things on and you take them off. You experiment. You laugh at mistakes and throw them away. You may not be an actor, but you get to play a role.

You can try on an identity, and maybe someone will say what you're wearing is "so you." Maybe you'll think of yourself in a new way because of that color, that style.

Maybe you'll feel braver. Or maybe you'll feel intimidated at the thought of some sour-faced creature who will sneer at you and mutter something along the lines of: "The clothing of my people is not a costume! We cannot put it on and take it off as a whimsical experiment! Your jacket is a microaggression!"

Harris writes that the Gen Z position is "Nothing matters more than authenticity. There is no qualification for an artist greater than lived experience."

Is that really their position? I don't know. But if it is, I'll stand back. These are kids, and they need to grow up. They need some time to question their own authenticity and the slipperiness of the demand for authenticity. They need to enrich their "lived experience" with the experience of the work of great artists and to see that the artists are not talking about life they have specifically lived — lived authentically. They are imagining far more life than they can personally live.

Back to Harris:

What we know about an artist’s personal identity can be interesting and even illuminating; what we are entitled to know is … nothing, basically.

I agree. And maybe we're better off knowing nothing, nothing other than the art.

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By the way, before I undertook to read this article and based solely on the headline, I searched the page for "Rolling Stones" and "Mick Jagger." Nothing! (No Prince either.) Where's the historical perspective? These kids today! 

29 comments:

Assistant Village Idiot said...

It never ends, does it? This is because no set goal that be accomplished will make advocacy-types content. What they want is for you to listen to them again. Today. Paying attention to them, front and center, is the whole point, not you understanding and finally getting it right what they feel is respectful. They will always find you disrespectful somehow.

Jim said...

I guess no one ever has ever heard of Glam Rock. We had Bowie, Mott the Hoople, and Sweet, to name a few.

Wilbur said...

I have a lot of non-lived experience.

Ficta said...

Ctrl-F "Bowie". 0/0 WTF?!

Ice Nine said...

>By the way, before I undertook to read this article and based solely on the headline, I searched the page for "Rolling Stones" and "Mick Jagger." Nothing! (No Prince either.) Where's the historical perspective? These kids today! <

Now do Rock Hudson.

Michael said...

Fluid. Used in a sentence. Excellent

Tom T. said...

Harris is recognizing that being sought-after means that you're no longer oppressed, and he's not happy about that.

iowan2 said...

Actors can be rather blank and empty individuals who go into the profession precisely because they need roles to fill them up.

I was going to say, 'Actors are actors for reason.'

That's why write the best blog on the web, and I'm schlub scrolling the internet Saturday morning.

John henry said...

"who are we this Time?" starring a very young Christopher Walken and Susan Sarandon.

From the vonnegut story of the same name.

Explores the idea that actors only really exist their characters.

Excellent and available on youtube

John Henry

n.n said...

Transgender or trans-social?

Lem Vibe Bandit said...

I may have posted to the wrong post again. Sorry if I did.

Lem Vibe Bandit said...

Here it is again, just in case I posted to the wrong post.

The "overcalculated playfulness" or... "a good fake"

Saint Croix said...

Today, younger people who use “L.G.B.T.” or its longer variants do so primarily as shorthand for a range of options, from asexual to pansexual to questioning to intersex to trans-masc to bi-curious, among theoretically limitless other possibilities, the embrace of any one of which does not have to be a permanent thing....

2022: Castrating your child? In!

2024: Castrating your child? Out!

Dr. Fuckwit: "It doesn't have to be permanent! Limitless possibilities!"

(checks notes)

Dr. Fuckwit: "It's possible you might not have a baby."

I'm not saying sue the shit out of medical doctors, but lawyers might want to pay attention. The Hippocratic Oath is out the window. Basic biology and human sexuality is out the window, too.

In that environment, mistakes will be made. If I was chasing an ambulance, I'd pay attention to the ones coming from abortion clinics and sex-reassignment centers.

As they say in the medical schools, "Oops."

n.n said...

pay attention to the ones coming from abortion clinics and sex-reassignment centers.

Some will be sent to clinics for novel experimentation, while others will be sent to chambers to facilitate "burden" relief. A narcissistic flare of personal affirmation. A Choice in DIEversity that is equitable and inclusive. Deja vu.

Joe Smith said...

So white folks can be black and Native American but straight folks can't be gay?

WTF?

William said...

If you dress up as one of the Village People, who exactly are you culturally appropriating?

Ampersand said...

Some cultural and political movements have no end point. Such movements are dangerous because no amount of "progress" lessens the force of the movement. Even if we waved the magic wand and, say, achieved perfect equality, the movement for equality would persist for at least two reasons. First, vast parts of the population would believe that equality hadn't been achieved. Second, even the people who thought equality had been achieved would notice that it was unstable, here today and gone tomorrow. These movements are built upon mirages, and place their proponents upon hamster wheels.

ALP said...

I like to think that my brief stint wearing a skinny tie (as a woman) during the Eurythmics - Annie Lennox era gave me some insight on what it's like to wear one to work every day.

Iman said...

Narcissism 3.0

The Vault Dweller said...

Reminds of Megan Mullally, who played Karen Walker on the show "Will & Grace". I think in the early 2000's or maybe even late 90's she said she might be a lesbian, which was widely panned as blatant attempt at pandering. Whenever people attach value to any sort of group identity there will be people who try to co-opt that identity to try and gain value.

bobby said...

I wonder if he eats tacos? Just another cultural appropriator.

dbp said...

"queer baiting" used to mean something like, teasing a gay man until he takes a swing at you, so that you'll be justified in beating him up.

I think that current pop-stars are doing is trying to signal that they're, maybe one of you or at least some sort of ally. I don't see the problem. Would it be better if completely straight acting performers, make content which is only for and about other straight people? The inevitable complaint would be of exclusion.

Michelle Dulak Thomson said...

Ms. Althouse (I've been warned off calling you "Ann"),

Actors can be rather blank and empty individuals who go into the profession precisely because they need roles to fill them up.

There is a terrific parable on this subject (it is only a few paragraphs long) by Borges. In Labyrinths, it is translated as "Everything and Nothing." It's silly to talk of spoilers in respect of a piece this short, but I'd advise you just to go and read it.

Here. This is a different translation than the one I first read.

Andrew said...

These people are clueless, it's all been done before. Everything they think is avant-garde became garde decades ago.

Gahrie said...

Ms. Althouse (I've been warned off calling you "Ann"),

Long ago she stated she wished to be referred to as "Althouse".

Gahrie said...

Some cultural and political movements have no end point.

None of them ever do. It's why "trans" became a thing after Obergefell... the fight must always go on.

Look at the March of Dimes. It was founded to fight Polio. Once we finally beat Polio, did they congratulate themselves and fold up shop? Of course not, they merely shifted targets. Now they fight birth defects and premature birth, which is perfect because there will always be birth defects and premature births to fight.

I challenge anyone to name a governmental program or office did its job and then folded up shop and went away.

Jamie said...

Everybody just STAY IN YOUR LANE!

If you dress up as one of the Village People, who exactly are you culturally appropriating?

This made me literally LOL, here in my nice comfy suburban bed.

Bunkypotatohead said...

So are the drag queens authentic or not by these rules?

Michelle Dulak Thomson said...

Gahrie,

I challenge anyone to name a governmental program or office did its job and then folded up shop and went away.

Hmmm. Presumably some of FDR's "alphabet agencies," but I am certain that their jobs (and budgets) were just redefined. I mean, the CCC doesn't exist any more, but everything the CCC did is still being done, right? Ditto the WPA and pretty much everything FDR started.

Who administered the GI Bill? The Bill itself is dead as an 80-year-old doornail, but I'd bet that whatever agency undertook the distribution of funds (and other things) is still around. So, of course, are the people behind Medicare and SS and Medicaid. Which is but one reason that those programs will never die, and not even the biggest one.

I am honestly unable to think of an "expired" government program. Some must exist, somewhere, but whatever-it-is must be over a century old. Everything else has been subtly renamed, so as to disguise the otherwise-blatant continuity. And once anything gets its roots into the Government, digging it out is practically impossible. Exhibit One: the Dept. of Education. How many Presidents have vowed to get of that thing? And yet it keeps growing.