April 12, 2018

"You don’t know if your friends are taking advantage of you because you have money. But a dom is like, I am taking advantage of you, and you’re going to like it."

"There’s that honesty that’s not there in your typical interactions with people," says Bratty Nikki, quoted in a Washington Post article "Meet the dominatrixes who control men where it really hurts: Their wallets."
“I think it’s the ultimate loss of control,” says financial dominatrix Bratty Nikki. “A lot of men are judged on how successful they are, and that is a good portion of what makes up their sense of self. When they say, ‘Hey, I’ve earned all this, and this is what I’ve worked for, this is a huge chunk of what makes me me, and I’m willing to give that up for you.’ I think they really enjoy that loss of power.”
The highest-rated comments all make the analogy to marriage, which is best summed up in the joke attributed to Willie Nelson and quoted in one of the comments: "Why get married? Just find a woman who hates you and buy her a house."

21 comments:

MadisonMan said...

Isn't the plural of dominatrix 'dominatrices' ?

rhhardin said...

The named hurricanes after women because they start hot and wild and when they're gone you have no car and no house.

EDH said...

My editorix says I've been a bad boy, as she slowly takes out her red pen.

pdug said...

The funniest thing to me is the "woke" hashtag #giveyourmoneytowomen (which was supposed to be about how women deserve reparations for patriarchy, their emotional labor, and their housework or something has become totally dominated by FinDom dominatoresses

Ignorance is Bliss said...

The cruelest financial dominatrix is the federal government.

traditionalguy said...

But if these men never grew up, then it's statutory rape.

pdug said...

FWIW the lady in the article is not very pretty. She a sort of vapid brain damaged look. maybe makes the fetish work better

mccullough said...

Nice advertisements for these prostitutes. “Rarely” is their physical contact or nudity? Great advertising. These women will fuck you for a price. This is Backpsge.com in the “news section.” Bezos charged these women and the pimp husband $50,000 each for their “stories.”

Henry said...

For a cheaper surrender, rent a Dom Deluise movie.

Larry J said...

Q: What does a fire, flood, earthquake, tornado, hurricane, and a wife have in common?

A: Sooner or later, one of them is going to get your house.

the 4chan Guy who reads Althouse said...

I think I get it: rich dudes want to be dominated by dominatrix chicks because with other chicks they have all the power, because they got the money, so if the dude says he wants anal the chick gives him anal, because then she gets, like, a new Gucci bag or some shit. And he probably didn't even really want the anal, he just wanted to show that he could get it if he wanted it, even if he really wasn't wanting it much.

So the dominatrix flips this around on him, and he gets to be with a chick who treats him like the pathetic asshole he was before he made the big money and became a pathetic asshole who's rich.

But he still knows he's in control: he's paying her, she isn't doing this for free. So he might get a bruise here or there, but, like, he isn't with some meth chick who'll slice him with a kitchen knife because she wants to see all the tiny spiders come out, he's got a safe-word and shit.

And the dude's actually still pathetic, because what these guys really want most of all is for a chick to peg them and pee on them, but they don't have the balls to ask for that, so they go with the whips-and-chains shit instead, and sublimate the wanting-to-be-peed-on and pegged shit.

Because they want to be more than dominated: they want to be degraded. But they don't have the confidence it takes to ask to be degraded. Because being dominated gives the illusion of giving up power, so they can work out their mother-problems shit, but being degraded is too much like that time when they were eleven with Uncle Jack in the back bedroom while everyone else was in the kitchen looking at sister's new baby. And being fucked in the ass by Uncle Jack was bad enough, but the memory of him then pissing on you -- you can't really forget that.

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Carol said...

"dudes" and "chicks"

Jesus is it still 1968?

Kyzer SoSay said...

WTF did I just read? I don't understand why someone would pay someone else for the privilege of . . . what? Being blackmailed? Being set up for embarrassment? Paying money for the privilege to pay more money? These guys are so cucked they don't even need another man to steal their wife and indirectly their money - they just give it away. The mindset that leads to this kind of submission is either an indicator of mental illness or psychopathy, and I can't decide which.

Fernandistien said...

mccullough said...
Nice advertisements for these prostitutes.


Yup.

Deep-State Reformer said...

First-world problems.

Bill Peschel said...

I understand there are high-powered women who enter into dom-sub relationships for the same reason. They just want someone they trust to make the decisions for them.

Unknown said...

I'm pretty sure the "buy her a house" quote is from Lewis Grizzard, though googling finds several slightly different versions all attributed to him, and I haven't seen a specific reference to one of his books or routines..

Krumhorn said...

So the dominatrix flips this around on him, and he gets to be with a chick who treats him like the pathetic asshole he was before he made the big money and became a pathetic asshole who's rich.

But he still knows he's in control: he's paying her, she isn't doing this for free. So he might get a bruise here or there, but, like, he isn't with some meth chick who'll slice him with a kitchen knife because she wants to see all the tiny spiders come out, he's got a safe-word and shit.


OMG! That is some funny shit right there!!

Mr. Spatula lives again. Meth chicks...tiny spiders...THAT is priceless.

- Krumhorn

mikee said...

Willie's first album, Red Headed Stranger, should be required listening for all feminists. If you want some appropriate lyrics regarding male/female relationships, that album has quite a few.

Bay Area Guy said...

I had a girlfriend once who was a domineering Fellatrix. Does that count?

Michael K said...


Blogger mikee said...
Willie's first album, Red Headed Stranger, should be required listening for all feminists.


I like his line from "Rhinestone Cowboy" where he says he is going to find a girl who can suck the chrome off a 2 inch trailer hitch and settle down.