Which would you pick? If it would be completely absurd to buy your current house today, does that mean you should move?
January 31, 2006
A perspective on moving.
If you faced the question today whether you would buy the house you live in now at its current market price or that other place you're thinking of:
Which would you pick? If it would be completely absurd to buy your current house today, does that mean you should move?
Which would you pick? If it would be completely absurd to buy your current house today, does that mean you should move?
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The questions you've posed seem a little off-kilter!
And, really, the choice of house vs. condo is something only you can answer -- especially given the difference in living experiences between a (semi) suburban house and a downtown condo. If you have just grown tired of maintaining a house, then a high-rise condo certainly removes the hassle.
But it strikes me the real question should be, does the reason you bought the house in the first place -- or, later, hung onto it -- still make sense? If so, keep it. Otherwise...
In order to get me to move, there has to be some sort of otherworldly force that comes in and hits me in the face. A flood. A fire. An earthquake. Drugs and prostitution outside my window. Noise. Those are all signs from up above telling me to get out.
Short of that, nothing can make me move. Certainly not real property market values----that would not move me.
If it ain't broke.....etc etc.
Peace, Maxine
To quote my husband, "I'd rather take a good ass kickin' than move."
Robert: It's not the normal way to look at the question, and it shouldn't be. It's offered as a perspective, a challenge, to think about the problem in a new way, because the resistance to moving is so great.
Aeolus: My current house is in an old-style neighborhood with small lots. I don't have much distance from my neighbors at all. And the new building has very thick walls and floors and is the sort of luxury place that would tend to bring in relatively quiet people who are respectful of their neighbors' comfort. I know several people who live in the building and love it.
Some random comments:
1. Live in a place that reflects the present you, and not the past you. You'll find your creativity and enjoyment of life soaring in a place that mirrors your present attitudes and feelings about life.
2. Don't overblow the difficulty of moving. Once you get into it, things (downsizing, selling or giving stuff to charity, hiring a mover, etc) move quickly. And you'd be surprised how many people will be willing to help you.
3. Don't be completely complacent about "the boom" in real estate. The high prices of today may not stay that way, at the same level, forever. If you're serious about moving, this is a good time to take the profit out of a home. At the same time, be cautious about what you're getting into. Condos (traditionally) don't hold their value as well as detached homes. They are the last to soar in a boom, and the first to crash. I'm not trying to be a "doom and gloom" person here, but I'm old enough to have lived through three housing busts (in Hawaii, Colorado, Texas) and prices DO come down. If the equity in the house is meant to be part of your retirement bundle, this is a good time to take it out and save it.
4. As I wrote on a previous blog, you have many options. You can bank the money from the house, and rent for a year to see if you like condo living. You can move to another town, another state, another country. You can run for Congress, or go to Florence and study art. Part of your "process" during this phase of considering a move, should be to decide "Who am I today, and what would make me really, really happy?" So don't feel constrained by just evaluating one or two alternatives. Open your heart, and all the rest will follow.
"If it would be completely absurd to buy your current house today, does that mean you should move?"
No, not necessarily. But if you are unwilling to move, then you need to shift the value of your house from your net worth to the net worth of your heirs, presumably your sons. The house by becoming unchangeably yours, actually becomes theirs. If you aren't willing to capitalize it, it's no longer your capital.
I hadn't realized that your current house is on a small lot, with close neighbors. For me, that would definitely urge a move -- but it would be in the direction of another house on a larger, more secluded lot.
My wife and I live in a Milwaukee suburb in a smallish 1950s ranch house on half an acre, about half of which is wooded. This is very much by choice, as we're birders and "nature enjoyers" rather than urbanites.
So -- tastes differ.
But in regard to the actual hassles of moving, if you're as lazy as I am, it always seems far more agonizing in prospect than it does in the rear-view mirror. Clearing out closets and the basement is definitely difficult; people who keep lots of stuff tend to be the same ones who are emotionally ambushed by long-lost artifacts surfacing as you prepare for a move.
The hardest point in the move, I think, is when you put down the first empty box and start to pack it. That's the moment in which the life of the old house ends, while the new one hasn't yet begun. In a way, it's good that the job of moving is so exhausting -- the physical effort helps carry you though the dead time when you can no longer call either place home.
One piece of advice you always hear: jettison things ruthlessly before the move. Actually, that's not a really good idea. We've usually found that furniture that was basement stuffing before the move suddenly develops new usefulness in the new space.
Good luck!
I always make column lists when I am facing a hard and life changing decision. Generally three columns. What is good, what is bad and what makes no difference but seems to be important to me. Make a balance sheet.
For example. Good---no yard work if you move to a condo. Bad....no private yard to enjoy. Good... no time to do yard work condo so is good. Bad....I like to do yard work and look at garden catalogues and might miss it. And so on.
That is how I make a decision. That's what I did when I decided to become divorced. :-) I'm just an analytical person.
Maybe you need to flip a coin????
Ann wrote:
(The question is) offered as a perspective, a challenge, to think about the problem in a new way, because the resistance to moving is so great."
If the resistance to moving is so great, perhaps you shouldn't move. But, Ann, please, you've already made up your mind. Surely you can you see that.
1. Moving is a pain. An expensive one, too.
2. Even though you own the place, you still have to pay "rent" (assoc. fees).
3. You share walls with people you are not related to, nor have any control over. Things going thump-thump-thump in the night are not titalating unless you are making the noise.
4. You are sharing a building with people who's trash/sewer/firebug habits/kids you cannot control.
5. Will the commute be any better/worse?
6. What's the difference in insurance?
I gather going back several months that cleaning out the old house is a big obstacle. A move forces the issue. A pain, but you'll feel better when it over. Financially I suspect you won't be making a bad decision as many do when they sell a house that has appreciated in value. I say move and enjoy the change.
If you are really hesitant to sell the existing house, make it a rental and hold onto it for awhile.
tcd said..."BTW, love the decor of your house (from what I can see in the pic)."
That's the model of the condo, not my house, but I do think they did a nice job.
jeff: The commute will become a 1 mile walk down a street I throughly enjoy, with lots of cafes, shops, and restaurants. This is the single best reason for moving as I see it. My current commute is a very easy 1.3 mile drive, so it isn't a problem, but the walk would be really nice. Healthy too.
stever: Yes, I am interested in editing down all the clutter that's grown up around me in 20 years. The incentive to put things in rational order is a positive. On being a landlord: that's something I totally don't want to do.
I know this is a real decision, and not an easy one. But I hope you can hear the question, "should I live in this magnificent place or the other one?" and feel like a lucky duck.
"On being a landlord: that's something I totally don't want to do."
I don't blame you. Some people turn it over to property management companies which do all the work. I'm not cut out for it either way but for those wanting to hold onto the investment it works.
"If it would be completely absurd to buy your current house today, does that mean you should move?"
No, it just means that housing-wise, you (and I) are quite lucky to have gotten in early.
As far as being a landlord, a friend of mine hired a management company, and they do it all: collect rent, fix things.
1. Don't assume you will really edit your clutter. When the time comes, Satan will appear to you to tempt you with how much easier it would be to just put it in storage. Many have succumbed....
2. Walking the length of
State Street in a Madison winter could get old fast.
I'll move in if you don't.
(so long as one of these doesn't adorn the lobby or any nearby courtyards)
(above link is both an attempt at humorously bridging this post and mine and gratuitous self-linking, ignore it at will, but really it's the sort of thing everyone should be aware of, and prevent from ever seeing the light of day)
I'd sooner levitate off the bed, have my head do a 360, and spew chunky vomitus on Max von Sydow before I'd consider moving.
You can always move to a condo but you'll never have that house again.
If you only live 1.3 miles from work now, why aren't you already walking to work?
Will decreasing your distance by ~25% make that much of a difference?
Jeff said it: There are too many things you have no control over in a condo, more so than a house.
Even the good things that you love now, the shops and cafes----you have no control over whether they close up or not.
I was taught very early, that property is something that you hold on to, no matter what. The people I know who've made it big in real estate (I'm not one of 'em--sniffle)......kept buying buying buying, and holding on to each acquisition.
Maybe you could rent out your home? But, definitely don't sell.
If you are lucky enough to own property, put it into a trust and hold onto it.
Peace, Maxine
Personally, the change from 1.3 miles to 1 mile hardly seems worth the effort and hassle.
Sure, the condo sounds fun, and it would be cool to be in a lively neighborhood and to be even closer to things you want to do.
Speaking from my own personal experience, though, as one who hates to move and who dreamed of life in my own house for many years before buying the one I have now, I'd stay put if I were you. But as Robert Burnham said, that's a question only you can answer. This is my first house, and I still have the enthusiasm of a new homeowner.
Much as I dislike the expense and the hassle of home maintenance (I'm due to have the outside painted soon and when will I ever resolve the hassles of my deck or the mess that is my yard), I love the privacy and the quietness of my house, and I'm looking forward to getting a dog or two one of these days.
I guess I've still got lots of dreams about my house and what I can do here. If you've done what you wanted with your house already, though, then perhaps it's time to move to a new place that will stir up new dreams for you.
On a related note, I read a great book last spring called The Little Locksmith by Katharine Butler Hathaway. It's a memoir which is largely focused around its author's decision to buy a house. I highly recommend it. (It probably won't help you answer the question, but it might give you a new perspective on the question.)
If your house has no yard--and you don't mind the horrendous process of moving!--then the condo sounds better. The ability to walk to work is a huge plus...a really big lifestyle improvement, IMO. I know you like to drive, but you're not getting much out of your commute now, obviously.
The idea of downsizing your life, scaling back on clutter and yard work and maintenance is appealing, especially to women. Having a great view and a better walking route is a bonus.
If you want a lifestyle that is low-maintenance and less expensive, go for it--but please know what you are giving up (freedom, privacy, yard, disorganization, space).
Good luck.
Regarding your original question, I would imagine that many people would say they would not buy their current home at the market price because it has gone up so much and it seems crazy to buy it at that high price but what is the alternative if everything is expensive. Even if you like it a lot and have the equity from your house, is it absurd to buy a condo that costs as much as these do? Regarding the specific condo you are thinking about and other similar ones in Madison, I think it is significantly over priced. Looking at MLS for units in the building it is crazy to pay the prices they are charging for these condos. They are very very nice but it seems too much and I think they will have trouble selling for those prices. I hate to say this but my perdiction is that they will have to drop the prices and they won't resell for much more or maybe less than people bought them for. Maybe your thinking is what does that matter since you plan to stay anyway. How many people in Madison WI can afford to pay $600K - $1 million for a condo?
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