Right and left: my sad experience
I don't know if you've noticed, but I'm a political moderate. More than any ideology, I care about rational discourse. In the year that I've been blogging I've taken a lot of different positions, some left and some right. What I've noticed, over and over, is that the bloggers on the right link to you when they agree and ignore the disagreements, and the bloggers on the left link only for the things they disagree with, to denounce you with short posts saying you're evil/stupid/crazy, and don't even seem to notice all the times you've written posts that take their side. Why is this happening? I find it terribly, terribly sad.
UPDATE: My colleague Nina, a self-confessed "lefty," writes that she has been slammed from the right. And I'm reminded that I should say, I don't think all the irrational blogging is on the left. I'm just saying that I'm struck by the way the right perceives me as a potential ally and uses positive reinforcement and the left doesn't see me as anything but an opponent -- doesn't even try to engage me with reasoned argument. Maybe the left feels beleaguered these days, but how do they expect to make any progress if they don't see the ways they can include the people in the middle? If you look around and only see opponents and curl up with your little group of insiders, you are putting your efforts into insuring that you remain a political minority. I also want to add that the many lefties I live and work around in Madison are perfectly friendly to me. I get email saying, it must be terrible for you there, you must be the target of so much hostility. I always write back and say it's not like that at all.
But do read Nina's whole post. She goes on to agree with me about the problems of blogging in general. Here's an excerpt:
ANOTHER UPDATE: Poliblog weighs in on the subject. And here are two different emailers who say something very similar (and quite provocative):
I have noticed that a good portion of people on the left proceed on the theory that they are the good people. Of course, there's a segment on the right that does that too. I have a big problem with all of them. Even if you are the good people, the policies you propose might still be bad. But politics should be about communication and convincing people with the quality of your ideas, not claiming to be a good person and demanding that others join you or they are not good. I steer clear of cultish people like that!
YET MORE: A reader emails: "I've heard it said that the Right is looking for converts and the Left is looking for heretics." Actually, it's probably more fun to be a heretic ... in a free country, at least.
AND MORE: Right Wing News weighs in here.
EVEN MORE: Baseball Crank responds. Here's a key insight:
AND YET STILL EVEN MORE: Sissy Willis responds. She thinks there is something inherent in left and right positions that produces this different behavior. I am trying to reach out to the left and say: Behave better! Engage me! But I read her as telling me that's hopeless.
UPDATE: My colleague Nina, a self-confessed "lefty," writes that she has been slammed from the right. And I'm reminded that I should say, I don't think all the irrational blogging is on the left. I'm just saying that I'm struck by the way the right perceives me as a potential ally and uses positive reinforcement and the left doesn't see me as anything but an opponent -- doesn't even try to engage me with reasoned argument. Maybe the left feels beleaguered these days, but how do they expect to make any progress if they don't see the ways they can include the people in the middle? If you look around and only see opponents and curl up with your little group of insiders, you are putting your efforts into insuring that you remain a political minority. I also want to add that the many lefties I live and work around in Madison are perfectly friendly to me. I get email saying, it must be terrible for you there, you must be the target of so much hostility. I always write back and say it's not like that at all.
But do read Nina's whole post. She goes on to agree with me about the problems of blogging in general. Here's an excerpt:
I, too, am saddened by so much of what I read in blogs, and comment threads are even worse. It's as if writers are grabbing the mike and running to the stage without having once practiced the song they are about to force onto the audience. At first it seems funny and then it just seems sad, desperate, irresponsible.
The blog is a stage and unfortunately anyone can grab the mike. And I admit, sometimes, in fascination, I log on and listen, mesmerized by the lack of restraint, a demonic pleasure derived from seeing someone so exposed, so childishly out of control. But the experience always leaves me feeling empty. Writing and ranting that is neither clever nor funny hardly qualifies as banter. And most often, it pushes the boundaries of meanness.
ANOTHER UPDATE: Poliblog weighs in on the subject. And here are two different emailers who say something very similar (and quite provocative):
As someone who made the move from liberal to conservative in his mid to late twenties, what I found is that conservatives were much more tolerant of me as a liberal, than liberals are now tolerant of me as a conservative. I'm speaking as a whole not to a person. Conservatives always wanted to reason with me, talk me out of it. Liberals question my intentions and decency. Out here in Hollywood when I would come out of the conservative closet, liberals were shocked because "I'm such a sweet guy" they had no idea. Those people remain nice to me but something changes. It's like having sex with a friend. You can't go back. And it's all awkward now. A shame really. Never had that problem with conservatives. And it's not that liberals are beleaguered. This was happening before the Republican take-over in 94.
[DIFFERENT EMAILER] I think that certain there is a certain type of "leftishness" that predicates its view of the world on some special insight into reality which one can only share or not. I think, for example, this was the principle informing such sixties talk as "raising one's consciousness," or such notions that one is "good" by virtue of mere sincerity or proper beliefs, regardless of one's actions. If one shares the insight or subscribes to it, one is part of the virtuous elect; if not, one is evil. Civil discourse by contrast, presupposes that one can communicate, persuade, and, importantly,be persuaded, which in turn requires at least some degree of modesty in insisting that one is right, that there is a possibility that one is wrong. This of course can appear on the right, but does not do so as much because, I believe, the presuppositions of civil discourse accord more closely with "rightish" values.
I have noticed that a good portion of people on the left proceed on the theory that they are the good people. Of course, there's a segment on the right that does that too. I have a big problem with all of them. Even if you are the good people, the policies you propose might still be bad. But politics should be about communication and convincing people with the quality of your ideas, not claiming to be a good person and demanding that others join you or they are not good. I steer clear of cultish people like that!
YET MORE: A reader emails: "I've heard it said that the Right is looking for converts and the Left is looking for heretics." Actually, it's probably more fun to be a heretic ... in a free country, at least.
AND MORE: Right Wing News weighs in here.
EVEN MORE: Baseball Crank responds. Here's a key insight:
I think a lot of liberals, particularly the more vocal ones on the internet who grew up in blue-state cities and went to blue-state colleges and got into blue-state occupations like the law or academia, just don't have the same formative experience of having had to reconcile themselves to political disagreements with people they otherwise like or respect, and it shows.
AND YET STILL EVEN MORE: Sissy Willis responds. She thinks there is something inherent in left and right positions that produces this different behavior. I am trying to reach out to the left and say: Behave better! Engage me! But I read her as telling me that's hopeless.
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I am baffled by your characterizations of left, right and moderate. But let us take your characterizations as given, since this is your blog.
Perhaps the different emotional responses of left and right that you perceive are partly a function of power. The right, having all the reins, can afford a veneer of amiable argument that spills over into condescension if one's return argument hits home.
Secondly, your personal sample does not fit with the data presented in the last election that, in general, 'lefties' voted facts whereas 'righties' voted perceived character.
These and other little logical oddities in your persentation lead me to a number of conclusions about you and your political prejudices, none of which would place you in moderate territory. Like most Americans, I consider myself moderate. The notion of a nation of self-proclaimed moderates is in itself a liberal idea, conservatives keeping, or conserving, the categories that served in the past.
Your positions do not do me justice, nor others I know whose experience is so different from yours.
Wow - Sudi. Now I'm not going to get into a flame war. But your comments....
Secondly, your personal sample does not fit with the data presented in the last election that, in general, 'lefties' voted facts whereas 'righties' voted perceived character.
It's the left's perceived notion that the last election had nothing to do with charater, when everything about the results point to the fact that it did.
I'm a conservative and proud of it. For the 1st time I actually participated in the election process by volunteering for the Bush/Cheney campaign. I worked the phones during the 72 hours leading up to the election and I drove a van ferrying people back & forth.
I love my country and still believe it needs a strong two party system. Right now the Democrats are the “Party of NO!” - No ideas, just bash Bush 24hours 7 days a week. When the Democrats lost the power the mainstream media gave them over the decades – the game was over.
I will say this, the GOP leaders in Congress, bless them but for the most part they are inept. I know that. But still the Democrats cannot capitalize on it.......and they know it. Right now the Dems are being controlled by the Michael Moores' and that will never win you a national election.
OK - off the soapbox
I'm not sure sudi's notion of conservatives "conserving" categories that served in the past is accurate. Conservatives often advance policy positions and espouse ideology that is quite "radical"--that is, contrary to the status quo--and thus more than willing the embrace change if they believe it will lead to better results, and believe that it takes into account the real motivations and limitations of human beings and the institutions they create.
As a conservative, I did not vote based on character, which is difficult to know from such a great distance, but on policy. And, frankly, though Bush was not my favorite by a long shot, as many Republicans often aren't, I feel obligated to vote against the Democrats for a whole host of reasons, not the least of which is their tendency to focus on the negative and what they are against.
The idea that conservatives ignore facts and vote on comforting emotional ambiguities like character may have a kernel of truth to it, but is mostly a pleasing fiction to assuage those on the political left as the continue to lose. If we grant that those on the left voted on facts, then I would insist we accept the idea that those on the right did, as well. We simply reached different conclusions about what constituted the best policies for the country, and who would be the best people to execute those policies. In many states where character issues--i.e., gay marriage, the supposed bugaboo of conservatives everywhere--were on the ballot, the same people voting for Kerry and Democrats in droves voted against recognizing gay marriage. How, exactly, does that square with the left voting on facts while the right voted on character?
By the way, as a liberal-to-conservative convert myself, I have to echo the experience of Ann's email correspondent in that conservatives were much more tolerant of my liberalism than were liberals of my conservatism. While for several years I tried to remain a true believer, it was the hostility I encountered everytime I had (or I witnessed somebody having) a disagreement with a much more dedicated liberal that got me listening to talk radio, reading conservative writers, and questioning dogma I had previously just presumed to be true.
While one explanation of the political right's amiability may be the fact they are in power--the Republican's in congress were hardly amiable during the Clinton impeachment--it does not explain the general difference in willingness to engage in dialog I encountered with rank-and-file conservatives and, frankly, outright hostility from liberals, when I wandered off their reservation. It may be tough to tell the difference between Jerry Fallwell's depiction of Bill Clinton and Michael Moore's depiction of George Bush, but my experience on the ground has indicated a big difference in terms of how those on the left and those on the right treat people who not only disagree, but people who just have questions about the accepted ideological dogma.
I tend to believe that, indeed, it does have something to do with how each group views reality generally. Thomas Sowell refers to it as the difference between the "constrained" and "unconstrained" visions--and, if you're really interested in the issue, Thomas Sowell's books on the subject, like A Conflict of Visions and Visions of the Annointed would be excellent places to start.
I think a lot of the difference comes from how the political coalitions that make up the two parties are set up. The left is mainly a set of interest groups that have unrelated agendas that for the most part don't get in each other's way, but the unspoken rule of being in the party is that you support everyone else's agenda. Black supporters of affirmative action/civil rights laws, gay rights activists, environmentalists, feminists all coexist mainly because they primarily care about their own piece of the agenda, but they're willing to support everyone else's cause too.
There's no need to disagree with anyone else in the coalition because your causes are unrelated - so the left as a group has less need to tolerate diverging views on major issues, and in fact allowing that kind of disagreement can break up the coalition because the underlying rule of supporting everyone else is broken.
The right's coalition is organized differently - it's several groups of people who agree with each other on certain subjects but are polar opposites on other things.
Libertarianish conservatives coexist with religious conservatives. They may completely disagree with each other on social issues, but they share agreement on the role of the government. The same thing goes for neoconservatives - a lot of them disagree with social conservatives on social issues and libertarians on some economic issues, but they all agree on national security issues. It's a shakier coalition, and to keep it working they have to learn to be willing to say "I agree to work with you on X, but you have no clue on Y and I'll fight you on that." You can't ostracize someone on the right for disagreeing because you'd have no right if you did. The upshot is that disagreeing with your political allies is necessary to power on the right, and a threat to power on the left, and that shapes the way people interact with you on your blog.
It's so funny to me that you would post this today. Two days ago over at the Corner, Jonah Goldberg linked to a post by Brad DeLong where DeLong had nominated Jonah as "Stupidest Man Alive" for an off-the-cuff remark Jonah had made during a talk at UW.
DeLong's co-ideologists quickly descended on his comments section, offering their dittos. When a few of us conservative types tried -- generally in a fairly civil manner -- to engage these folks and defend the basic idea of what Jonah had said with facts, DeLong behaved like a typical lefty: He erased the offending comments and banned the conservatives from the board as "trolls."
It's not like DeLong is some pimple-faced teen in his basement -- he's a [i]professor[/i] at UC-Berkeley, home of the "Free Speech Movement."
Neither DeLong nor any of his minions had any interest at all in debating the substance behind Jonah's jocular remark. Jonah was an idiot because, well, because he just was, and there was no debate to be had. Smug self-righteousness was easy to maintain once all opposition had been silenced.
Reading your post, it was almost as if you had used DeLong as your muse.
For some reason, I'm getting lots of hits for this old post linked here by Ann . . . Here's my latest response:
"I read her as telling me that's hopeless"
Sissy: It got linked here yesterday.
I think the interaction between conservatives and liberals is probably driven mostly by crass stereotypes of the "other." The left's image of conservatives is evil, selfish and greedy, while the right's image of liberals is naive and dumb. One might sympathize and attempt to enlighten a dumb person, but an evil person is irredeemable and just needs to be opposed. This interaction between the two tribes usually makes for better entertainment than erudition.
A possibly-related phenomenon: I run a news service that tries for a center-right perspective, but solicits writers from other viewpoints as well. It was very difficult for quite some time to find left-wing writers willing to participate - but once I had a few, additional writers have joined without any problem. I suspect that right-wing writers invited to post at a center-left site would have been a lot less hesitant and a lot more willing to be in a place where they aren't dominant.
Come on, Ann. You know very well there's no such thing as a "moderate"! If left and right are not clearly defined, how can "midway between" mean anything at all? I think "moderates" are really collectivist or individualist (the only real dichotomy), but they don't want to commit themselves. And that's not a position, it's an avoidance of reality. Life will, sooner or later, force you to choose.
Ann: And here today!
I think that a lot of the problem is that, for liberals, the organized right wing is so obviously corrupt and callous, that supporting them seems either irrational or corrupt and callous. If we had honest conservatives in power it would be different, but we don't and it isn't. The Democrats are also corrupt, of course, but they aren't so brazen about it as the likes of DeLay, Cheney & Bush.
Ben-
Your comments relate perfectly to a recent experience of mine. I had read the Bob (?) Fertik post at democrats.com, where he proposed that Karl Rove was going to unleash a terrorist attack (perhaps a small nuke-no kidding, he actually posited that!) in order to start the next war (with Iran), and thus distract the people from the "crimes" of the Bush adminstration. When I posted a reply saying I thought such lunatic paranoia was harming my party (yes, I am still a registered Democrat; I often wonder why, but no matter...) the invective, ad hominem attacks and viciousness was quite relentless. After I then replied to the attacks (all in a civil manner, I might add), I was banned from the site. The KosKidz mind-set just couldn't permit dissent in their midst. And that, in a nutshell, is the current state of the Left today.
Ben-
Your comments relate perfectly to a recent experience of mine. I had read the Bob (?) Fertik post at democrats.com, where he proposed that Karl Rove was going to unleash a terrorist attack (perhaps a small nuke-no kidding, he actually posited that!) in order to start the next war (with Iran, and thus distract the people from the "crimes" of the Bush adminstration. When I posted a reply saying I thought such lunatic paranoia was harming my party (yes, I am still a registered Democrat; I often wonder why, but no matter...) the investive, ad hominem attacks and viciousness was quite relentless. After I then replied to the attacks (all in a civil manner, I might add), I was banned from the site. The KosKidz mind-set just couldn't permit dissent in their midst. And that, in a nutshell, is the current state of the Left today.
Sorry for the double-post!
Well, neither of those reasons explain why i link you.
i only link you to mock you. ;)
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To Ms. Althouse and all who've commented so far - these are the best commentaries I've read in many many weeks. Thank you all!
My personal definition of a moderate of either party is one who will think for her or himself. One who searches for facts, evaluates them, and makes a determination to affect a political position on the given topic.
My personal dealings with liberals have been less than ideal. In any discussion of ideas, Liberals invariably attack my humanity, with never a thought to coherent, cogent counter-argument on the idea(s). I see them as idealistic and naive on some subjects, and dead-on on others. As fellow Americans they, and their concepts are worth the effort in continuing to engage them.
For bloggers who are not caucasian, male,heterosexual, or Christian, the hate mail from the left is even more vitriolic.
An atmosphere that engenders full exploration of any idea is sadly missing from the Democratic Party. But I think that party is waking up to that - a comment made earlier this week came from a Democratic leader who opined that the Nation was open to ideas and debate since 2001, and the Democrats instead focused on obstructing each of Bush's plans. Hopefully that opinion will turn into a full-fledged movement within the Democratic Party - America will the better for it.
I hope you continue blogging Ms. Althouse in spite of acid endemic of the Left and the extreme far right. And again, thank you for your post today.
Ockham's razor would suggest the explanation is you have a right-wing blog.
I teach at a small college in a blue state. I am stupid, lazy and ignorant, at least according to SOME of my liberal collegues. That said a reasonable fraction is willing to engage me in civil discussion and we find that we do agree on some things for the same reasons. Many of my students are all strips of conservative. All of them are respectful of my opinions even when we really, strongly disagree. Granted some may be a function of my relative position, but they come to my room to engage me.
At least at the blogs I read, the right is far more civil than the left, but I have to admit that there are some rightwing blogs I avoid as I don't like the bloggers tone.
Ann you must realize this defines you as a conservative:
"More than any ideology, I care about rational discourse."
On every political test I take I rank as a liberal, but I'm a conservative, too, because I feel the same way. This is why the left keeps losing elections. People who are otherwise liberal, but value rational discourse, are not voting for conservatives, but against the Kossites and their like.
It is counter intuitive but they are voting with their emotions, and they are voting based on character rather than issues, because they value rational discourse.
Lol.
I think it was Michael Totten who said it can all be explained with the theory that "Conservatives think that Liberals are wrong, while Liberals think that Conservatives are evil."
Much is explained by this theory, including Ann's experiences, the Left's willingness to slash tires to keep people from voting for Bush, and so on...
MHarrington - Wow, I'd never thought of it that way, but I think you may be on to something. I do tend to think of lefties as naive or dumb, though I suppose to be fair I also think there are a number who are evil (or, at least, borderline traitorious).
Alandownunder - That's quite amusing. In an attempt to contradict her post, you instead provide evidence to support it.
Ann, as you know, I'm a long time reader/commenter here and on other blogs. How anyone who reads you regularly, can try to classify you as anything other than a political moderate isn't reading/comprehending. They are taking their own preformed conclusions and projecting them on you.
I'm a red stater and try to be openminded when discussing points of view. People on the left are quicker to dismiss one as irrelevant unless you agree with them. It's very difficult to open a discussion with many of them. There are those on the right who are just as closed minded, but not near in the same ratios as those on the left. Toughen that hide and keep doing what you do best - BLOG!
Thank you!
I think the problem is that you're looking at the issue from the wrong direction.
I don't think that there is something inherent in leftism that causes churlish, self-important behavior. I think that churlish, self-important people are attracted to leftism.
The most committed, die-hard leftists I know invariably have two things in common:
1) a privileged upbringing that has sheltered them from the realities of what they champion.
2) very little-to-no religious affiliation, thus instilling in them the notion that the self is the end-all, be-all.
Do the math as to why such people are loathe to allow opposing worldviews any quarter.
I'm with Sissy (and others) on this topic. Liberals and conservatives are just different.
In my opinion, and speaking IN GENERAL, conservatives want to discuss specific issues. They like to engage people who are interested in the same issue, whether or not they agree on what to do about the issue. Thus, conservatives like radio programs like Rush Limbaugh, where there is give and take on specific issues. The people who listen may vary from day-to-day as the topic of the day changes, but the common ingredient is that there is an issue-of-the-day.
Liberals are also interested in reaching out to other people, but instead of discussing specific issues they focus more on common goals. Websites like DailyKos allow liberals to touch base with like-minded individuals who reinforce their beliefs on specific issues. Much like an army that must act in concert or risk defeat, liberals know they can't reach their common goals unless they march together on every issue. Issues don't matter when compared to the importance of the common goals.
I believe that it is a fundamental problem of coherence. Those on the left occasionaly take indivudal positions that are defensible, even superior, to what is offered by many conservatives on particular issues. But, as a world view, deconstructed, multicultural, identity politics is incoherent. You are talking about a philosophy based on conclusions derived by people who deny the very existence of facts. It is impossible to reason your way from fact based rationality to the modern political left. They know it. We know it. And all they can do in response to any infidel, or worse yet, apostate is to shun her with all the rhetorical venom they can muster.
Conservatives, on the other hand, are dismayed at the sight of needless decay in the institutions that have inexpertly and unevenly but inexorably led to a more free, more just, more sane, more prosperous world. They celebrate recognition from those of a different political stripe that any of their ideas have merit. They take as a matter of faith that liberals (although porbably not leftists) are well intentioned. Conservatives strive to demonstrate that their ideas will effect the result to which liberals profess to aspire. It is not that liberals are bad nearly so much as that liberals are wrong more often than not. On the other hand, when a liberal voices a conservative thought, they do it so terribly, poetically, marvelously well that we can only stand and applaud.
Blogging and commeting like grabbing a mike? I didn't know how apt that comparison was until after I listened to Radio America for a few days. It just leaves you sick and empty.
I read blogs, but I do not write a public one. This is partly because I'm not a very articulate writer and partly because I don't have a lot of original material to add to The Argument. But if I were a blogger, I'd probably link to those posts which relate to and support my views.
If I believed lefties to be nasty, I'd link to some liberal vitreol to illustrate my point. Why link to a sweetie pie if my point is that 99% of them are creepy verbal thugs?
So, I'm wondering here if that might be the case for everyone who links to you. It's valuable to present both sides, but a lot of people blog because they don't feel that their personal side is being represented already. They aren't trying to offer all the reasoning behind multiple viewpoints--just their own to correct this perceived imbalance.
As to why some are snarky about differing viewpoints, well, I can't speak to that, but you would have a better idea about who is nastier in your own comment section than I would anyway!
I'm not sure where the impetus comes from, but your post states what to me has been obvious for a long time.
I've also noticed, on a "spokesperson/national leader level", that when the left accuses someone of something, it almost INVARIABLY applies to the speaker rather than the target. Sudi's example fits right in. She states that "lefties" vote facts.
after having researched issues for 35 years, i've come to the conclusion that "lefties" have few facts and multitudinous opinions, theories, myths and Murphyisms [ any complex issue will have at least one and often many simple Wrong solutions. ( the global warming "hockey stick" argument perhaps...] She also mentions that the right has "all the reins" - as if the 40 years of previous democratic party control didn't have exactly the same characteristics as those you have chronicled lately.( whether you were aware of them then or not ) - Look at the reasoned slow arguments of Hydek and the Chicago school finally bearing fruit after decades. I'd say the right has the facts.
The lefts refusal to converse, or to explore ideas may revolve around their turning to ideology as a replacement for the faith that they seem to enjoy trashing.
somewhere in here is the need to not be judged, to want simple answers, to give up rigorous approaches. sort of an extended childhood replete with the emotional responses to issues that every parent has experienced.
the emotional response i know this will engender doesn't make the observation any less true. nor does it make republicans
"Parents", - to me it makes conservatives a bit more mature (?)perhaps. In the Navy, we had a saying " there's 10% who never get the word..." i'm sure the emotional 10% from the conservative side will be trotted out now and in the future, but that sort of ad hominem doesnt' change the reality that the conservatives now are argueing ideas and the liberals are pointing at people....
"Democrats are also corrupt, of course, but they aren't so brazen about it as the likes of DeLay, Cheney & Bush."
Hear the guffaws? They're coming from Hudson County, New Jersey. Oh, some chortles from Louisiana as well...
I think that Ann does seem to fall in the middle. I do know several self described "moderates" who think Ralph Nader is too right wing.
I consider myself a conservative, in that I want to conserve american institutions and effect change through them. I differ from conservatives on a number of policy points, and may even be quite radical in some (I think we should invest heavily in enculturating latin america - they are most like us , and our demographic destiny lies there. I'd rather do it on American terms that Chavez')
I think there is a difference between policy, party, and principle, even if there is a lot of overlap. I think a lot of people lose sight of that, on both sides.
I am a systems engineer, so I think of things as systems. America is a big system. Anything like laws or policies are forcing functions on that system, but it is way too large for that law or policy to have the exact stated effect. I review policies based on what I think will happen, not what it says or what the pol says it will do.
I have a lot of democrat friends. Anecdotaly, It seems to me that most (or at least more) of the left thinks of themselves as "democrats" and the right thinks of themselves as "conservatives". I think a lot of democrats believe their party stands for what they believe, (even if its fairly"conservative").
I think this hurts the democrats, because, as a system, they have lost the infrastructure for communicating and analyzing the effects of policy. While some may fall into the "we're good and you're evil" routine, I think that is a noisy minority. I think that the brain trust of the right is better suited to propose policy than that of the left - not that there arent "left" issues that couldnt use a healthy new proposal, it just seem like the democrats are set up to discover one.
I have mentioned that dems are usually better at international agreements that rep's, but the current framework is outdated. (the geneva convention was based on 19th century concepts of nation and application of force - it didn't directly protect POW's, it picked who COULD have POW's because it knew they would generally treat them better). But it usually falls on deaf ears.
For the good of the republic , I hope we get a competant opposition party soon.
30 years ago, I'd be called a liberal. Today you'd call me a conservative. But mostly, I believe in rationality. I believe that people respond to incentives. I believe that social engineering is a far more complex undertaking than we realize.
I've lived in a very blue state area for decades and I tend to avoid stating my views unless I have a great deal of time, an audience willing to spend the time needed for rational discussion, and most importantly, a respect for the search for the truth through the application of rationality and the scientific method.
It amazes me when I hear people from the left claiming to not have a voice, to not have the microphone so to speak. For most people on the right, they constantly find themselves listening on the radio, watching TV, or movies and hearing only one side. And this is when they could easily rebut what is being stated or portrayed, but it almost never happens. So they sit there in silence wondering how many other people can see the same thing.
The people who cannot be reasoned with are the ones who don't believe in the efficacy of reason. That includes those who think that one's perception of reality is dependent on one's race, class, culture, etc; and those who believe that one's perception of reality depends on one's faith, or lack thereof. As far as they are concerned, you are either part of the group/one of the faithful, or you are not. If you are not, there's no point in carrying on a discourse with you, because you simply won't get it. It's an X thing, you wouldn't understand. If you show up on their radar, then you're a target that needs to be shouted down or brow-beaten into retreat.
Ann,
I think the answer to your question is quite simple - your "moderate" views are a lot closer to the right than to the left, and hence your base assumption that your views are so centrist that you should expect equal treatment from both sides is simply incorrect. The fact that your regular readers, judging from your comment section, lean about 80% republican and like to discuss their personal experiences with "these strange lefties" might have alerted you to that fact.
Giving that you are essentially a conservative, folks on the right don't mind engaging you as much as folks on the left. Oh, and the faux "I am the centrist and hence everyone who disagrees with me is a radical and therefore wrong" attitude of yours is pretty annoying, and certainly more so for people whose views are more different from yours.
I'd like to second Kevin Willis's recommendation of Thomas Sowell's A Conflict of Visions. For me at least, it explains fairly well the dynamic you're seeing here between the left and the right.
This is an excellent discussion.
I think the observations about liberals making personal moral attacks on those who disagree versus conservatives instead trying reasoned argument are correct.
I think this comes out of different views as to why people behave good or bad. As Charles Krauthammer put it (and Thomas Sowell makes a similar point in his book Conflict of Visions), liberals think that conservatives are mean, whereas conservatives think liberals are foolish.
I have noticed a change, though, in the last decade or so among a large portion of conservatives -- for instance, Rush Limbaugh. Joe Bidden was interviewed on NPR a couple of days ago and he said that the Senate became far more partisan starting in 1994 when a bunch of hard-core conservatives came in and began making personal attacks.
I think the conservative movement has gotten more strident because they have realized that reason argument has failed. Conservatives are still only about 35%-40% of the electorate, not enough to carry out their agenda, and that proportion has not gone up in decades. The largest group is moderates.
Hacker and Pierson's book Off Center has an excellent discussion of this and how the conservatives have tried to get their agenda enacted inspite of their minority status. One thing the conservatives have done is work to make public discussion more extreme to try to squeeze out the middle, since with it gone the conservatives are left fighting the liberals, whom the conservatives outnumber.
--Les Brunswick
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I don't know, I think Ann is pretty moderate. She's with the left on many social issues, for example. What, just because she supported the war in Iraq makes her a right-winger?
But leaving that aside, I think your claim still falls on deaf ears. Look at how the Kossacks and the Air America crowd treat self-avowed liberals who disagree with them on one or two positions. For example, pro-life Democrats, or Democrats who favor the war in Iraq.
Also, even if Ann is more to the Right, then wouldn't it behoove the Left to convince her she's wrong rather than just tell her how evil/stupid/dishonest she is? I mean, they're trying to win elections and the battle for ideas, aren't they? Look at the discussion a couple of days ago on here about the Muslim cartoon controversy where Ann disagreed with the "Right"-wing position of republishing the cartoons consequences-be-damned. Most of the people who were on the Right disagreed with her, but were quite respectful.
Even if Ann were Barry Goldwater incarnate, wouldn't it be a good idea to try to convince her otherwise? I guess I'm not understanding your point.
This is like anything else in nature. There is a ying, and there a yang. There is a plus and there is a minus. There is a cause and there is an event.
Folks are waking up. Irrational and intolerant behavior like burning, pillaging, and calling for death/destruction/demise etc are passé.
Such behavior is becoming looked down upon.
Just my rambling comments,
bt
For what it's worth, as a liberal turned centrist conservative (which means, translated to the mad, mad politics of the academy, if you are center right and a law professor, at least at my school, that places you in the minds of the faculty somewhere around facist) it seems like this. The conservative bloggers, despite having somewhat more than half the country with them, still feel, in any intellectual endeavor, like a counter-culture. If you're part of a counter culture, you get tired of always feeling like the counter culture. So you seek validation for your views. Your instinct is, gee, it's nice when someone agrees with me, because I'm not used to it.
If you are part of the left, you are used to being the folks who dominate in all these discussions - and you are terribly worried that you are losing your intellectual hegemony. Your instinct is not to seek validation - why, when you already have it? - but instead to maintain hegemony, de-legitimizing and stigmatizing counter-hegemonic views. Eventually that process has to seem, to frustrated liberals forever characterizing everyone who disagrees with them as wicked and/or stupid, as a little like herding cats, and I assume that ratchets up the invective.
Ann, are you really a "moderate?" Moderate seems more like a temperament than a political stance, and while I also think of myself as neither left nor right, I reject the term "moderate," because it connotes that I try to seek middle ground, compromise positions between the two poles. I don't. My positions are strongly held. Some of them would be called conservative, some would be called liberal, and some fit in neither category.
The real divide on the blogosphere is between fanatical Democratic and Republican loyalists. These are arbitrary formations based on the interest groups that drive both parties' policies and fundraising. And, as someone here has said, if you're within the circle, it's assumed you'll support the unrelated agendas of everyone else in the circle. That's why bloggers like DeLong erase comments from those he calls "trolls." He wouldn't invite a Republican to his Democratic strategy meeting, and he doesn't want their opinions, well-reasoned or not, on his blog. It's his party and, you know, he can cry if he wants to.
At the same time, conservatives aren't much better. The leading conservative sites that I respect all have the same policy: No comments. What is up with that? If the leftists unleash an obscene assault, those comments can be barred or removed. But why won't Hugh Hewitt or Michelle Malkin let people disagree with her?
You are not a partisan hack. You are a writer, so you don't have to play along with that game. I love your blog, and I see it as a place where truthful, authentic observations are provided, and quite stylishly. If either liberals or conservatives shun you, it's only because they can't topple reasoned arguments, and intellectual failure puts them in a bad mood. If they make fun of your writings about personal or pop-culture matters, it's just because they're jealous.
Hmmm.
Liberals think Conservatives are evil.
Conservatives think Liberals are crazy.
Frankly my biggest gripe with liberals is that they're so convinced and certain of the authority of their position that they don't make the effort to actually prove their asserted positions. It's as if the mere declaration of something dear to them should be responded to by instant applause followed by cries of "Wow am I wrong!" shouted by the now converted conservatives.
Liberals like Ann allied with the left to gain power in the middle of the last decade, first in an effort to beat the Depression, later to beat down the Bull Connors, and in their final act, to stop the Vietnam war and oust Nixon.
But history teaches that the left is not big on sharing power once gained. And so the liberals, some voluntarily, some kicking and screaming, have gradually allied, sometimes uneasily, often unwittingly, with the right.
This has led to general confusion, however, as the right continues to call their opponents "liberals" despite the liberals, like yes, our current president, having temporarily allied with them.
I have a friend who moved from Mpls to Madison in the early 90's. She and her hubby went to scout out the town before their move and to find a house. Someone while there were there said: You're going to love Madison, it's so liberal!
This without the slightest idea of whether my friend would like that sort of thing or not. Just a flat out assumption that it must be true.
Ann, the phenomenon you have noticed primarily with the left's behavior is one that most of us who consider ourselves either conservatives or classical liberals have long observed.
James Burnham, known as a radical in his youth and later as a conservative, wrote a book in which he explored this and other issues very perceptively: The Suicide of the West (Arlington House 1964). In a chapter titled Pas d'Ennemi a Gauche he describes the liberal's view of the right which you are experiencing: But those extremists over on the Right are a different breed, as the liberal feels them. There's no getting anywhere with them by reasonable methonds and compromise ... their goals are all wrong and even the intentions of many of them are obviously viscious. For that matter people on the Right are so full of reactionary prejudices and anti-intellectual bias that it's really pointless to try to work things out, so far as they are concerned, by discussion and negotiation. With them it's just a question of who is stronger (p 206)
And this was written more than 40 years ago! When most of us thought of ourselves as good liberals (well, I've always been more of a classical liberal....). The point, of course, is that to an ideological liberal, a conservative cannot really be taken seriously in terms of ideas which need to be engaged.
I've been on both sides of the aisle.
My experience is that, as the Right is always accused of being racist-sexist-homophobe, they tend to constantly self-check to ensure they are practicing tolerance.
The Left thinks it is immune to intolerance, and therefore blind to its own prejudicies and bigotry.
Your experience has been similar to mine. I went from being a left-leaning, self-described moderate to a right-leaning one gradually over the past 15 years or so. I have always cared about rational discourse, and I have always loathed it when extremists of either the right or the left resort to personal attacks rather than reasoned, well-informed arguments. But in the last five years, it seems to me, those on the left don't know how to make their case in any other way. And the closed-mindedness in their approach is both baffling and depressing.
I like the passage you've quoted from Baseball Crank above, and I think that's definitely true. But, to complicate matters further, many of today's bright, young conservatives grew up in the same environment and attended the same blue state colleges. But instead of assuming that everyone agreed with them (as most of their blue state brethren do), they learned how to make a case for their ideas in an environment where they were in the minority. Let's face it, even conservative Christians learn how to communicate persuasively with "liberal secularists" in order to proselytize.
Very few of those on the left ever learn these skills. Furthermore, they increasingly segregate themselves among like-minded people. When they assume and believe that all smart or decent people agree with them, they don't know what to do other than to fly into a rage that their cherished beliefs have been questioned.
I like this blog, along with others I read, because it's civil and makes one feel like his ideas are welcome. I don't expect to be agreed with or to agree with you all the time, but I can't read any lefty blogs because they're invariably full of profanity and name calling. There's no "It seems to me . . ." there. Only a bitter, hungry need for power.
If the Democrats ever want to get back in with the mainstream, they need to get over 2000 and George Bush and get rid of the attitude that everybody who didn't vote for them is a pinheaded, inbred hillbilly. It wouldn't hurt either if they could act like they give a hoot about the good of the country instead of just getting back into power. If someone thinks George Bush is more malevolent than Osama bin Laden, how can he be taken seriously?
I don't get many comments on my blog, but the critical ones basically try to insult me rather than make a point.
The most important lesson I've learned from political blogs is the group mentality that permeates conservative politics today. Conservatives will defend a Republican politician's worst mistakes as if their personal honor is on the line; in contrast, the rest of us tend to grudgingly accept the politicians who most closely represent our views, and even then, we are more than willing to admit their flaws.
When I used to try to participate in bulletin board debates (back when I thought the blogosphere was supposed to be about facilitating debate), I would post factual information in a bulletin board debate (say, a Dick Cheney quote about pre-war intelligence taken from "Meet the Press"), only to have it: 1) denied completely - as if I was lying - even though I would post the link to the mainstream/government source; or 2) rebutted with personal attacks against me, "the Democrats," or "THE LEFT" (why do conservatives love all caps so much?). When I would persist, and point out that the conservative bloggers had said absolutely nothing to contradict the evidence I had presented, they would just say something like "Well, the Democrats aren't going to convince anybody as long as they're running people like Kerry."
I can't understand this way of thinking at all. I don't support any politicians to point that I would lie for them on my blog - and most people I know wouldn't. I just don't have that "GO TEAM" mentality that conservatives have, where you pull for your team at all costs, and bitch at the refs for being "biased" whenever they call a foul. Moreover, I wouldn't try to counter a claim about a specific statement a politican made just by bitching about the other party. That doesn't accomplish anything, and it doesn't even constitute a response.
As for why more conservatives than liberals link to Althouse's site, one thing to consider is the fact that conservatives tend to be much more wrapped up in conspiracy theories about media bias than the rest of us are (notwithstanding numerous examples which demonstrate that the media is far from liberal, such as the NY Times' central role in hyping Chalabi's WMD claims). As a result, conservative blogs often tend to be much more geared towards commentary - whether that commentary is of a thoughtful nature, as Althouse's tend to be, or the usual whining about "THE LEFT."
I think you may be making an assumption that is not supported by the facts. Rationality is not a mental imperative equally distributed to all. Some people are less intellectually mature than others. In our quasi-welfare society (such as academia) and in politics, that needn't be a handicap.
Since we are free to migrate and since children are heavily influenced by their surroundings and parents, we have a developed a characteristic separation in our society along these lines. Witness the red-blue divide. It corresponds to population density. The more dense the population, the more specialized the workforce and the more likely it is that an individual will be able to eek out a living by fanciful means. Ahhh, to be young and on the dole!
Is there such a thing as a conservative street artist or a liberal realist? How do you account for your own contribution to society? I will wager it is not entirely the result of tangible goods, but also in intangible relationships not designed to be purely productive.
Viva le differrance! But lets also keep our heads about things. Fools and poets make poor kings, but they are invaluable members of the retinue on occassion.
Thad A, I think you have half a reasonable point -- conservatives like Powerline often defend Bush vehemently. But the Harriet Meiers disagreement shows it IS possible for conservatives to disagree; and many often do. Instapundit usually disagrees on stem cell research, for instance.
Your example of "some Dick Cheney quote" isn't fleshed out enough, but most conservatives are very familiar with "gotcha" quotes taken out of context and spun by Leftists. Most conservatives are familiar with their own words rephrased into straw man monstrosities.
But I usually try to look at the policies -- the good and the bad of the actual policy, as well as the alternative.
I do not see Leftists looking the policy alternatives. Nor are they willing to accept the bad consequences of their own policies, when the policies are followed.
The choice in Vietnam after 1968 was
hard. More war or letting the commies win. Being against the war logically meant favoring commie victory, and thus the Killing Fields.
What is so terrible is that Leftists think the only moral choice was leaving. {60s music was great though.}
Frankly my biggest gripe with liberals is that they're so convinced and certain of the authority of their position that they don't make the effort to actually prove their asserted positions.
Proving something based on flawed premises is very difficult.
It's as if the mere declaration of something dear to them should be responded to by instant applause followed by cries of "Wow am I wrong!" shouted by the now converted conservatives.
Yup. The notion that an assertion is self-evidently true is not confined to either the left or right... but it seems to be more prevalent on the left these days.
I suspect the generally left-leaning environment in education results in right-wingers being more accustomed to having their ideas challenged, and get more practice at defending those ideas, while the left-wing types don't.
Why do us moderates have to come out of the closet? At a party once, everyone was spewing vitrile on the Bush admin and I mentioned, casualy, that I wasn't a liberal. Shocked silence around the table. I mentioned I was a moderate but the damage was already done. Not a liberal = conservative! Us moderates should band together and form our own party.
Tom Grey -
I know that many Americans see opposition to any war as being the same as opposing all wars, and/or that one who opposes Iraq is somehow linked to the Vietnam protestors who spat on troops. A major reason for this is that the most active/visible critics of the Iraq war, at least for the first year or so, were the pacifist anti-war (and not just anti-this-war) crowd.
But I was born in 1977! It's just not fair - somehow I have to carry all the negative baggage that accompanies 60's Vietnam protesters, without getting any of the good things that era had to offer (most notably, things like catching Hendrix or Keith Moon play live, or getting to see Paul McCartney sing on TV without some hack from Lincoln Park drowning him out). Anyway, I can assure you that I would never, ever, ever spit on soldier, and even the most liberal people I know here in New York wouldn't do that.
Ann - Not sure if I should apologize or ask for a thank-you for driving all this traffic over here by linking to this old post to make a point over at RedState. I had no idea Glenn Reynolds was going to pick up the link as if it was a new post (and without so much as a hat tip!).
Hopefully, you haven't soured on us righties in the intervening year.
To paraphrase Justice Scalia: What is the moderate/centrist postition on the Constitution? Interpret it broadly half the time and originalist the rest?
It's been my experience that the deepest thinkers on the left - the sort who are open-minded enough to recognize that Clinton was to the right of Nixon and Ford on many issues - are less inclined to name calling. The opposite occurs on the right, where the most hard right people are most inclined to name calling.
You're documenting a very interesting watershed.
But is it fair to say you're being ignored when not overtly engaged (i.e., linked to, commented on, etc)? Aren't you still being read? Isn't that the first purpose of writing?
And (in my unbiased opinion ;-) you seem to be more carefully read by the right than the left, based on your description.
Huh. I'm a moderate, too. And yet the vast majority of my links from left-wingers are positive, and the vast majority of my links from right-wingers are negative. I almost never get positive links from the right. Weird.
Could it be that self-declarations of moderation are shaky starting points for this kind of argument about supposedly essential differences between right- and left-wingers?
Well, the instalanche here sure proves you've hit a nerve... at least with conservatives, who are eager to assure you that you are right! ;-)
The reason I'm adding anything to this marvelously thoughtful (and long!) thread is just that I was teaching a high school Philosophy class for homeschoolers on Monday night and spent ten minutes talking about exactly this sociological fact. If I had seen Anne's post I could have just passed it out and saved myself the time, since she said everything I had to say plus some.
My conclusions, for the benefit of my class, were (1) LISTEN to the people you talk to, (2) LOOK for areas of agreement and (3) the Democrats are probably doomed.
Thad,
I think you took Tom's Vietnam example off mark. His point was that in the "liberal" mind of 1968 the only moral choice was withdrawal, without any consideration of the deeper consequences. The only analogy that can logically be drawn with the Iraqi campaign is that, again, there are many on the left who position themselves as if the only moral position is withdrawal and damn not only th econsequences but also any who are not equally moral to see the truth. I saw no mention by him about "the Vietnam protestors who spat on troops" so I was somewhat confused that you seemed to take his general comment personally.
Perhaps such a tendency to internalize and view legitimate discussion as a personal attack is, itself, revealing to this topic. Might some of our friends on the left be misunderstanding what we offer as logical debate and answering with what they see as an in-kind response?
About the canard that the '04 election was about facts, not character: it was about both, of course.
And let us remember some good that came out of Napoleon's mouth: the moral is to the physical as three is to one.
I try to be as irrational as I can be, but sometimes I fail at it.
I don't even pay attention to the Left any more. Too much like rubbernecking at a badly wrecked short bus. Seeing all of those little helmets there, on the ground, just makes me sad.
I have been a libertarian/conservative all my life and am sorry to say that I have, without exception, experienced liberals the way Ann and so many others describe.
My experience with the left is that emotional responses always trump rational ones, for example, calling the President a liar does not make it so. Saying that Republicans are nasty and hate the poor and minorities does not make it so. Saying that the CIA orchestrated 9/11 does not make it so. Saying that the war in Iraq is a failure does not make it so. Saying that Samuel Alito is will overturn R v W does not make it so. Because Paul Krugman says something in the NYT certainly doesn't make it so. Continuing to repeat that the NSA monitoring is 'spying on Americans" or 'illegal' does not make it so.
These kinds of unsupported statements are routinely put forth as facts by the Left which believes that because they say it loudly with the aid of the mainstream media, it is true (ipse dixit). These types of statements do not invite discussion, rather, they pronounce decidedly that discussion is over. They are in fact merely opinions (some bordering on conspiracy theories), and unsupported ones at that, which is fine as long as this is acknowledged, except that we cannot be governed by baseless opinion and intimidation.
At this point I was going to hop off my high horse and mention Thomas Sowell's Vision of the Annointed, but I see I've been beaten to it! It is required reading for any conservative who has never been a liberal and wishes to have a better understanding of liberal views.
"The people who cannot be reasoned with are the ones who don't believe in the efficacy of reason. That includes those who think that one's perception of reality is dependent on one's race, class, culture, etc; and those who believe that one's perception of reality depends on one's faith, or lack thereof. As far as they are concerned, you are either part of the group/one of the faithful, or you are not. If you are not, there's no point in carrying on a discourse with you, because you simply won't get it. It's an X thing, you wouldn't understand. If you show up on their radar, then you're a target that needs to be shouted down or brow-beaten into retreat."
Exactly. And the key problem is that the current "in power" conservatives have one single focused agenda, which includes insane nonsense like appointing a college drop out journalist major to NASA, to promote changes in their PR that promote a purely Christian religious agenda, while then turning around and claiming its atheist who are starting a war on Christians. Nope, its evangelicals and fundimentalist that think they can ignore 2,000 years of church history and proclaim that the Bible is literal, so everyone needs to either conform or shut up that are starting it. First shot in any PR war is to intentionally incite some conflict, claim the other side shot first, then continually expound on this lie over and over until even reasonable people start to think it might be true. That is the problem with the right, while it claims to be interested in discussion, it has a single core thread of ideology running through it, which lends itself to the old Soviet Russia tactic of appointing people to positions to make sure everyone follows the master plan, so they *can* ignore things they don't like.
The lefts problem is, as someone else pointed out, that anyone who is rightly scared of how easilly the right can get sidetracked into some variation of fascism only have really one direction to run in. They all head left. This leaves you with the exact reverse of the right, instead of a minority of nuts, who will lie and distort facts to get what they want, and a majority who can, if you push the right buttons, be duped into not seeing it, you have a majority of lunitics, none of who can necessarilly even agree on what color the sky is, with a smaller minority of reasoning people that are considered "less" credible because they refuse to believe in every crack pot theory. If someone ever successfully produced a third party dedicated to reason, and managed to keep some other ideological group from torpedoing it, both parties would implode over night.
As someone hated "equally" by the right *and* left for not kissing the feet of their god(s) or giving into every insane idea conspiracy they hold dear, I very much believe this is the case. There can't be 50% of the population so stupid to jump to the side Pat Robertson represents because they believe in the Bible and the other 50% all jumping to Michael Moore, because they are, in the words of one conservative idiot, all secretly atheists with materialist agendas. Most people are reasonably sane, if often handicapt by clueless idiots that teach ideology to them in schools, instead of facts. Unfortunately, even the term "fact" gets obfuscated by some people, like one side that likes to define "fact" as, "the religious experience I heard me aunts second cousin supposedly had that disproved gravity", while the other side has nuts that define it is, "what ever nonsense I can come up with about why we never landed on the moon, while ignoring half the evidence".
I am not impressed by "either" argument. The problems is, people get dragged into the lunacy of held by the more radical people on both sides, precisely because those people have power or position, which allows them to take kids, who don't know any better, feed them gibberish, then, worse, *teach them to never think about or challenge what they where told*. And if they do? There are 10,000 other nuts, with no qualification beyond already being brainwashed, who are selling books that sound reasonable to people that never learn the facts in the first place, ready to lead them merrilly down the path of conspiracy and happy fuzzy thoughts to make them feel good about their ignorance.
Sorry, bit of a rant there, but still.. We might have been better off if we never left the caves, at least local nuttery back then had a harder time migrating to every fool willing to spend five minutes justifying their own assumptions, who would never spend the hours, if not weeks needed to figure out why they are *still* wrong. Its like the sledge hammer method of car engine repair, if hitting it doesn't make it work, don't *learn* how it actually works, just abandon the car and find someone to sell you what they claim is a better one. Drives me nuts seeing this kinds of people show up on blogs, especially science based ones, from *both* sides. If one isn't claiming its impossible because the Bible doesn't say so (like the Bible describes 99% of anything we do in science), some other nut is claiming space aliens implanted computer code in our DNA to make tomatoe worms turn black instead of green when their eggs get colder than normal before hatching. I just want a party where the moment you mention some random idea X, doing so doesn't cause half the brains of half the people in the party to turn off and have them repeat some gibberish they picked up from the National Equirer or the 700 Club. Is that too much to ask?
for what it's worth: I am pro-gay marriage, pro-choice, pro-drug legalization. I support the war in Iraq and I support a vigorous US defense against terrorism. Therefore, to every self-described liberal to whom I've described my positions, I'm a conservative. It's just ridiculous.
People like myself, self-described moderates or centrists, have, on many many blogs and for several years now, pleaded for the Democratic party and liberals in general to address us in rational, respectful terms, to engage us in genuine conversation about important issues, to listen to us and not to assume that because we don't march in lockstep with them, we must be marching in lockstep with the right. To no avail. And when we try to point this out, liberals - like several commenters here - insist that we're not really moderates or centrists at all, just republicans in denial. Thereby proving our point with no hint of irony.
You know how, if everyone around you tells you that you're drunk, maybe you should sit down? The Democratic party passed out hours and hours ago.