October 10, 2024

Goodbye to Ethel Kennedy.

From RFK Jr.'s "American Values: Lessons I Learned from My Family" (commission earned):
After my father fell for my mother, they embarked on what Arthur Schlesinger described as “one of the great love stories of all time.” My dad loved Ethel Skakel’s fiery spirit, and was intensely proud of her reckless competitiveness and athleticism, her self-confidence, her humor, and her peculiar blend of deep religious faith and mischievous irreverence. Her fearless, fun-loving, outgoing personality perfectly complemented my father, providing encouragement to a man who was inherently quiet, vulnerable, and shy. Her devotion to him became a platform for his growth as a public leader. Where Jack was detached and deliberative, my father burned with passion. She fueled those flames. 
My parents were so affectionate with each other that they often appeared pasted together, arms draped over each other’s shoulders, kissing and calling each other “sweetheart,” “darling,” and “honey.” I had an early allergy to corniness, and these antics would have put me in anaphylactic shock had they not been so casual and adorable. They held hands when they ice-skated or walked on the beach. On river trips they lay against each other beside the campfire. He proudly introduced her at his speeches, and she always took the front row and hung on every word, even after hearing the same stump speech a hundred times. Her disciplined attention to his talks always impressed me. I thought, “She must have learned that in Catholic school, where they rapped your knuckles for wavering attention.” She sat behind him in the motorcades, and he would look around whenever he lost track of her. He told reporters that his greatest achievement was “marrying Ethel.”

40 comments:

Iman said...

RIP.

Odysseus said...

Charming, and disarming excerpt from RFK Jr.

Kate said...

How poignant. A great love that was cut short over 50 years ago, and now finally Ethel can go home.

Aggie said...

RIP. I don't like a lot of what I've seen from the Kennedy family over the years, but she's one of those matriarchs to which none of it applies, as far as I can tell.

Yancey Ward said...

4......3.......2......1........The stroke will be blamed on the son for endorsing Trump.

mccullough said...

11 kids

One Fine Day said...

Now I am intrigued. Was Bobby that much of an opposite from Jack?

Political Junkie said...

Ponder the sympathy RFK Jr would be receiving if he was the D nominee for President. This would be the lead story. It really would.

n.n said...

Equal and complementary in love, life, and liberty. Fair winds and following seas, lovely lady.

mccullough said...

He was shorter and didn’t have pain-pill problems.

PM said...

Nice clip, thanks.

Humperdink said...

Very touching.

rhhardin said...

"Tie Ethel's Tubes - 60s bumper sticker

n.n said...

And eleven for Posterity. Wow. Love you, mom. Sweet.

Mikey NTH said...

That was a lovely tribute.

MadisonMan said...

That's a long life. Now she gets her reward.

Eva Marie said...

96 but still sad. RIP

traditionalguy said...

It’s been 60+ years but I still remember liking her very much. Hell of a woman.

Ralph L said...

It's good to read some balance to what I've heard. She comes off badly in the chapter of Ask Not about the Martha Moxley murder by her nephew, writing (or signing) an awful letter to the judge before sentencing. Perhaps they were like Ron and Nancy--so wrapped up in each other, the kids went wild. Raising 11 children on your own would be hard enough even when rich, but Kennedys?

Lazarus said...

Somebody (an ambitious social climber) who knew the family said that Ethel still had conversations with Bobby 20 years after his death. That struck me as weird and creepy at the time, but I understand it now. Still, I've gotten very cynical about politicians and their marriages, and wonder what their relationship was really like.

n.n said...

She scored an 11 in Posterity. An inspiration for Muskism. BLM

Megthered said...

Robert Kennedy had to clean up a lot of JFKs messes, including Marilyn Monroe. He might have been devoted to Ethel but he was a Kennedy, so he was a slimy horn dog like his brothers.

The rule of Lemnity said...

Seeing her grandson endorsing Trump gave her a stroke from which she never recovered. Expect a Trump mugshot with a caption: "This man killed the last Kennedy matriarch"

The rule of Lemnity said...

Wait a minute. RFK jr was Ethel's son... NEVERMIND.

SweatBee said...

When you know that Bobby was a flirt and a cheater just like his brothers, these glowing PDA descriptions sound more creepy than sweet.

Aggie said...

Second son syndrome.

William said...

I read the NYT obit. It was complimentary and she does seem to have been a remarkable woman. The photo editor did her no favors though. Some rather harsh photos were used for illustration. She wasn't as good looking as Jackie, but she looked more animated and friendlier. As a widow, she was more faithful to the departed, but she doesn't seem to have had Jackie's success as a mother. Two of her kids died young and for foolish reasons......One of the secrets of a happy marriage is early widowhood.

Skeptical Voter said...

For a lot of us the success or failure of that first really major decision in one's life has a tremendous impact on final outcomes. I've got fraternity brothers and high school friends who are now on their third wife. The "champ" in that regard has been married five times and divorced four times. Then there are the fortunate ones who got it right the first time. 59 years down the road I know I made the right choice. Not wisdom--just plain luck.

rhhardin said...

I remember Buckley's obit of Hubert Humphrey, the anecdote being a flight to London when the captain asked Buckley if he'd like to sit in the cockpit jump seat for the landing, and Humphrey insisted on going up there too. Friendly fellow but always f*cks things up a little through some sort of social ineptness.

Lucien said...

Aggie: Third son, I believe.

Hassayamper said...

The Kennedy men do not deserve the Kennedy women.

MadTownGuy said...

There was a photo of the two of them - RFK and Ethel - in Mad Magazine. RFK had a lapel button, I forget what was on it, but Ethel's lapel button said, "The Pill, Please." This was sometime before RFK was assassinated.

GRW3 said...

Would it be possible for the MSM (and maybe his family) to not be dicks to RFK, Jr. during this time period? When he's interviewed about his mother, don't ask stupid gotcha questions about the Presidential race.

Who do you think the first non-family member to call RFK, Jr. was? I have a suspicion.

Dixcus said...

Asked about Ted Kennedy swimming away from a drowning girl in the back of his car, Ethel Kennedy replied: "No comment."

Kennedy returned drunk to the party he'd gotten drunk at. Got two lawyers, went back to the scene while they plotted. He then swam to Edgartown to his hotel room to dry out. Went to breakfast the next day with his buddies.

Then reported to the cops that there might be a dead girl in his car which he ran off the bridge. By then, of course, the cops had already found her and started the cover-up.

They are ALL heathens. To the last one of them.

Dixcus said...

I forgot to add my condolences to the memory of Mary Jo Kopechne, who I have no doubt is currently laughing while Ethel burns in hell.

The Godfather said...

I never met Ethel K., but members of my family did when they attended functions at the Kennedy estate in northern Virginia. They said Ethel was gracious and friendly.
Pigeonholing the Kennedys politically is hard. Bobby, a liberal civil rights icon while Attorney General, earlier worked on Joe McCarthy's staff hunting Reds. Jack, bought into the stupid CIA plan to overthrow Castro, which ended at the Bay of Pigs. Yet, not long after that he faced down Khrushchev in the Cuban missile crisis. But he's the one that got us into Viet Nam. Teddy seems to have been the only one of them that was irredeemably awful, and of course he lived and served in office forever.

Dixcus said...

"Pain pill" is what they used to call them when the press was covering up drug use by the Kennedy's.

JFK was addicted to methamphetamine. He was a literal meth head. Which is why the CIA murdered him in broad daylight in front of God and everybody else.

Dixcus said...

According to Joe DiMaggio ... RFK also was banging Marilyn Monroe.

Dixcus said...

JFK literally gifted White House interns and urged them to blow RFK in the White House swimming pool.

Eva Marie said...

From the NYT obit:
1. “Her 11th and last child was born after her husband’s assassination in 1968 in Los Angeles, as he campaigned for the Democratic presidential nomination.”
2. [Her home] “Her place was a beehive, where Washington kingmakers, Hollywood stars, Nobel Prize winners and neighborhood children swarmed — not to mention a bustling menagerie that once included a sea lion in the swimming pool.”
3. “After George C. Wallace, the segregationist governor of Alabama, was shot in 1972, Mrs. Kennedy visited him in the hospital, arriving on crutches while recovering from a skiing accident.”
4. “On July 4, 1951, Mrs. Kennedy gave birth to Kathleen, her first child. She sent a dozen roses to her mother-in-law, Rose Kennedy, and would again after the birth of each of her children. “
5. 11 children in the space of 17 years.
6. 34 grandchildren, 24 great grandchildren (is that a sign of the times?)