August 28, 2025

"In place of stability, many Millennials came to prize adventure; travel became not just a simple luxury but an alternative source of meaning and identity."

"One 2024 Vox Media poll found that 76 percent of the Zoomers and Millennials surveyed agreed that travel says 'a lot about who they are'; 88 percent said it had spurred their personal growth. 'For previous generations, travel was a status symbol,' Jennie Germann Molz, a College of the Holy Cross sociologist, told me. 'For the Millennial generation it’s more about self-improvement or self-actualization.' As more and more Millennials have started families, many of them are determined to pass down those globe-trotting values—to share the joy of journeying but also to shape their kids into adaptable, savvy people. Sometimes they’re spending money they don’t have; frequently, they’re sacrificing tranquility they may already be short on...."

From "The New Millennial Parenting Anxiety/For those determined to pass down their globe-trotting values, vacations have become ever more ambitious and goal-oriented—and exhausting" (The Atlantic)(gift link).

But: "What kids tend to love most about traveling, anyway, can be found without going far at all. Parents can just keep an eye out for... 'micro-adventures': taking the bus to a free museum, driving two hours to a relative’s home, playing in the woods. Kids need novelty, yes—but when you’re new to existence, everything is new to you.... [One couple anguished over a day of flight delays then] realized that their toddler was having the time of his life: going up and down the escalator, watching the planes take off, marveling at how cool it is that people get to fly in the sky. You have it right, she felt like telling him. I am grumpy. I have forgotten the beauty of the world."

24 comments:

mccullough said...

Travel as an expensive habit.

Big Mike said...

Take it from a former Eagle Scout. Young children should not play unsupervised in the woods.

Mike (MJB Wolf) said...

Globe trotting is stupid and wasteful IMO. I have met many people who have been to cool foreign cities but knew next to nothing about the wonders in their own county and state.

Michael said...

Rich people problems.

RideSpaceMountain said...

The world has cool places, definitely, but also lots that are not so cool, along with an increasing smattering of 'meh'. The number of places I've been that are truly worth returning to regularly can be counted on one hand, and that number used to be higher. Add to that those places that weren't once, but now are, hostile to Americans and it defies logic that modern inconveniences associated with travel generally are worth the aggravation at all.

I'm glad I got it while the getting was good, but the getting just isn't that good anymore.

Michael said...


Travel is still a status symbol. Many Gen Z act as if that seeing the Eiffel Tower is less important than posting a selfie in front of the Eiffel Tower.

rehajm said...

The twenty and thirty somethings in our family are finding their own way on this. The soon to be newly betrothed couple well, he’s a pilot so recreational travel on standby is essentially free so they go everywhere. the older one did some travel, thought he wanted to live in the ‘big’ city or Hawaii but ended up back in his tiny town buying a house…I guess it’s fun to shyte on the youngsters traveling so I’ll participate- the airplane is not your home so don’t let your kids use it like they do the playroom back home…

Randomizer said...

'micro-adventures': taking the bus to a free museum,

Micro-adventures like that could prompt children to ask some uncomfortable questions, like, "Mom, are we poor?"



rehajm said...

…the interesting thing is they’re all in a good place financially. Maybe they rejected the lack of financial strategy of their peers or maybe they listened to us. Dunno…

Enigma said...

I want to compare the size of the investment/retirement accounts for globetrotters versus the homebodies. Also, show me their credit card balances. Some "personal growth" activities make no financial sense unless you retire with a surplus of assets. This includes buying hobby or luxury cars, buying any boat, or spending on leisure travel. Simple lifecycle economics.

Now, a retiree with life-long discipline, a habit of deferred gratification, and adequate savings may struggle to spend all the $$$$$$$$ they have saved. Let 'em fly first class and cruise in luxury cabins, but eat your veggies before you gorge on dessert.

donald said...

California has all the travel stuff you need to see. It’s magnificent.

RideSpaceMountain said...

Everest Base Camp is a perfect example of a cool place (pun intended) that is now decidedly uncool. Used to be quite the party 15-20 years ago, and is now just a colder version of burning man. The difficulty in just getting there was part of the adventure, an adventure now spoiled by yuppies taking a helo. Gone are the days of the ultralight pilgrim, replaced by armies of douchenozzles and beg-packers that A) won't clean up after themselves or B) worse, have sherpas do it for them. Then there are the throngs of climb groups filled with large-type assholes who're jerks going up the mountain and come back down just the same, doubly so if they don't summit. Nepal continually talks about moratoriums but gets lots of pullback because...money.

Go where the wealthy aren't. They have shit taste and worse personalities. Even annoying beg-packers are better.

gilbar said...

"but when you’re new to existence, everything is new to you.."

I remember the first time my dad let me go with him to a junk yard (to look for parts for our car)..
It was AWESOME! huge piles of cars.. Just piled up!
And you could just go up to one, and start wrenching an alternator (or such) right off of it. It was NEATO!

If you've never been anywhere.. Everywhere is SOMEWHERE!

gilbar said...

"The difficulty in just getting there was part of the adventure, an adventure now spoiled by yuppies taking a helo."

i travel.. a LOT, and what i've learnt is: getting there IS the fun.

Driving to california is an ADVENTURE..
Flying to california is an ordeal

The Vault Dweller said...

"Driving to california is an ADVENTURE..
Flying to california is an ordeal"

I think the family road trip is good for kids. Though, I think many hotels and motels have shut down their pools because of ADA regulations so parents miss out on that relatively accessible form of entertainment for children that also is physical enough to tucker them out. It is a much different experience to spend a few days in transit to a destination seeing different states along the way then step on a plane in the morning in your home city and then later that day step off in your destination city.

The Vault Dweller said...

"Michael said...
Rich people problems."

I suspect a lot of it is decent income people problems that wind up turning into didn't-save-enough-for-retirement people problems.

Michael said...

RideSpaceMountain said...
The world has cool places, definitely, but also lots that are not so cool, along with an increasing smattering of 'meh'.

There are a lot of undiscovered places if you just wander without a plan. There's also a lot of neat people in the world, but it often means getting away from the trendy spots. The French in Paris can be insufferable, but the farmers and shopkeepers in the countryside of France are wonderful.

Iman said...

“Globe trotting is stupid and wasteful IMO. I have met many people who have been to cool foreign cities but knew next to nothing about the wonders in their own county and state.”

Spot on!

Iman said...

So many places to visit and wonders to see in the Western USA. Just for example.

Enigma said...

@Michael: "There are a lot of undiscovered places if you just wander without a plan."

You don't need to wander far, and can use National Parks as a guide for cool places. The Parks are absolutely packed with Instagram selfie tourists and non-English speakers who must complete their bucket lists. The experience often requires horrific traffic jams worse than an urban commute (e.g., Yosemite; Shenandoah) too.

Once you've seen the "big attractions," the enviornment just outside the parks can be 99% the same but with 1% of the crowds. In the case of Yosemite, the experience IN the park but away from the Valley floor is a different (and peaceful) world.

Quaestor said...

Don't self-actualize at the expense of other selves.

Ann Althouse said...

I recommend state parks. Or just go walking anywhere with a child (or with a childlike frame of mind) and you'll find all sorts of things. I recommend observing the same area around all of the seasons. I see many different sunrises and observe the rise and fall of different types of flowers. Different animals are out and about. Today we saw a vole and a skunk and tiny toads and a goldfinch. That was cool even without a child, but of course to a child, all those things would be delightful. We have favorite dogs that we greet by name, and then there are all the things the dog finds interesting. The other day, I found it interesting that a whippet was interested in an extremely small caterpillar. I can't imagine that anything at the end of a day of plane travel would be more rewarding, and this is a stone's throw from where we live.

Oso Negro said...

I had a micro-adventure with my 18-month old daughter recently. We went to a movie. It was all good fun until the popcorn ran out

DJ99 said...

Many of the young adults traveling around is for status reasons, seen in the endless social media postings.

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