August 18, 2025

"Actually, this season has led me to suspect these once tight-knit friends all hate one another and are doomed to stay in each other’s lives out of habit."

Writes Bindu Bansinath, in "And Just Like That …’s Finale Was Perfect, Actually" (NY Magazine).

Sitcoms put together characters that quite specifically do not belong together. The longer the show goes on, the more absurd it becomes. The "tight-knit" group was always a plot device. Each episode required conflict, and yet the group needed to stay together. That was the show. That is always the show. Why didn't Wally Cleaver tell Eddie Haskell to get lost? Why didn't Seinfeld lock Kramer out? It might as well be "No Exit":
Three damned souls, Joseph Garcin, Inèz Serrano, and Estelle Rigault, are brought to the same room in Hell and locked inside by a mysterious valet. They had all expected torture devices to punish them for eternity, but instead, find a plain room.... Garcin says that he was executed for being an outspoken pacifist, while Estelle insists that a mistake has been made; Inèz... realizes that they have been placed together to make each other miserable.... [SPOILER ALERT] This causes Garcin to abruptly attempt an escape. After he repeatedly tries to open the door, it suddenly and inexplicably opens, but he is unable to bring himself to leave. The others remain as well. He says that he will not be saved until he can convince Inèz that he is not cowardly. She refuses to be persuaded, observing that he is obviously a coward and promising to make him miserable forever. Garcin concludes that... "hell is other people."

22 comments:

Political Junkie said...

My wife, 55YO staunch Democrat, who loved the original series, never watched this one because, in her own words, "It was too woke".

Wince said...

…damned souls… are brought to the same room in Hell and locked inside by a mysterious valet… Garcin concludes that... "hell is other people."

Reminds me of Althouse and this comment community.

Ann Althouse said...

I'll bet that during any revival of "No Exit," members of the audience are thinking about exiting, looking at their watch, and keeping their ear tuned for the line "Hell is other people," so they can get the "hell" out.

rehajm said...

…sounds derivative…anyways, not to poop on anyone’s fun but sounds like they went out like an aged out sports star what wrecks his afterlife by staying in the game far too late. I like SJP, especially the one where she lives in Tuxedo Park or wherever it was…

Lloyd W. Robertson said...

It's an old joke that you're stuck with your family. Of course in the modern world there are choices, perhaps culminating in the lonely apartment in the city.

Tina Trent said...

The first big academic feminist theory was that novels were oppressive because they framed women's lives as beginning and ending with the mating ritual of marriage, ie. Jane Austen.

That the men's stories effectively ended in the same way in novels like that didn't seem to occur to anyone.

Or, one's nose fell off from syphillis.

And for something like 40 years, that was the story of Sex and the City: aging women asking themselves "should I submit to marriage and lose my future, or keep my girlhood dreams and keep courting (and hope my nose doesn't fall off from syphyllis)?"

The answer is in. They cancelled the answer.

rehajm said...

…having lived with those women in NYC a bit before the four were a thing…most of the girls what were there are now single, so I hear. A couple are real life crazy cat ladies like the story goes. None sound content. Maybe it’s just sour from the messenger, maybe just the way it goes…

Iman said...

MadTV showed all the respect this enterprise deserved with their bending the show’s characters over tables in funny parodies several years ago. Worth a watch on YouTube…

The Vault Dweller said...

If I recall correctly Seinfeld ended with all four of them locked in a jail cell together.

Iman said...

…tables, hot dog carts, bank counters, lol…

https://youtu.be/X4qh7loNISY

michaele said...

Makes me think how so many in the press gaggle would love to be locked in a room with Trump as long as there was a camera and their "exclusive" could be released to the world.

tim maguire said...

Political Junkie, my 55 yo spouse identifies as a freethinking moderate, but has never in her life voted for a Republican. She hate-watches the new series and was relieved to hear it was cancelled because that’s the only way she’d stop watching it.

Iman said...

Where’s the gabagool!?”

https://youtu.be/9RFdg4CHBgg

Temujin said...

I never watched a minute of the original show when it was in its heyday. Well...maybe a minute. That's all it took.
And if I recall, it was surrounded on HBO by other shows I did watch. It might have been shows like Oz, or The Larry Sanders Show, or even The Sopranos that came on before, or after, Sex and the City, but either way, the show was pap compared to those surrounding it.
I was untouched by the entire thing. But seeing how Cynthia Nixon turned out in real life, I suspect that the show appealed to that sort of woman mostly. Though I did know more than a few guys who loved the show and I could never figure out if they loved it because they were feminine guys or because they were trying to get close with a woman who wanted to watch it.

Still...so many of these shows come and go and if you don't watch them at all you're happily untouched by the crap they issue out weekly. Or appropriately as a finale.

Ann Althouse said...

"…sounds derivative…anyways, not to poop on anyone’s fun..."

Are you saying "poop" because you watched the finale? I'm told there's a plot point about a clogged toilet and shots — closeups?? — of the overloaded toilet.

How did the show end up there — in the toilet?

Lawnerd said...

Hate-watching. I love it. I hate-listen to NPR on the car radio.

Ann Althouse said...

"But seeing how Cynthia Nixon turned out in real life, I suspect that the show appealed to that sort of woman mostly...."

14 years before "Sex and the City" began, we got introduced to Cynthia Nixon in "Amadeus." I watched that recently by chance, and it never occurred to me that she was the maid Salieri sent to keep watch of Mozart.

Rory said...

"Sitcoms put together characters that quite specifically do not belong together."

Two and a Half Men has a scene where the dysfunctional brothers are watching The Odd Couple on TV, and talking about what a ridiculous premise it is.

Political Junkie said...

Wow - Cynthia was one of the maids from Amadeaus. Did not realize that. Thank you hostess.
Cynthia has fallen.

Bob Boyd said...

This damned soul walks into a bar in Hell. The bartender says, "Why the long face?"

Jeff said...

The American remake of "No Exit," called "The Good Place," was far superior to the original. Of course, it also had Kristen Bell.

Tina Trent said...

Thanks a lot Wince. I find you to be good company.

On an actually serious note, Evan Handler, who plays Charlotte's husband, survived leukemia (AML) as a young man, was not expected to survive, and beat his way back to life by educating himself, then not letting anyone else make any decision for him, through utterly brutal treatments and relapses. He fought like hell, and in his book, Time on Fire, he relays it with humor. His point is that you have to educate yourself thoroughly, then watch every treatment, and constantly question everyone. When you come eyeball to eyeball with death itself, read this book. And try to forget that Sex in the City got you to it.

Now I see he has a new book about life after cancer: It's Only Temporary: the Good News and the Bad News About Being Alive. A fitting ending for the best character in the show, and perhaps a repudiation of the entire production.

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