October 2, 2024

"In contrast to the various septuagenarians on the national stage, [Doug Emhoff is] a youthful, keenly focussed guy who says 'awesome' a lot."

"I spoke with Tricia Gronnevik, a forty-four-year-old credit-union marketing analyst who attended the San Antonio rally. 'Doug just blew me away with how real he is,' she said. 'It doesn’t seem fake or forced, like good old J. D. Vance.' Gronnevik is a fifth-generation Texan—she grew up on a ranch—and she thought Emhoff would be a worthy First Gentleman. 'We need a new version of masculinity represented,' she said. 'I’m really tired of the alpha-male toxic bullshit. Being a South Texas country girl... I grew up in deer camps listening to a lot of misogynistic shit. It’s refreshing that we have men here who are supportive and not punching down, being bullies.' Emhoff’s 'super-cool' musical taste 'is making me love him even more,' she added. 'I’m a big New Order fan, too. The Cure is my favorite band of all time, so if he’s a Cure fan I’m gonna die.'"

Writes Sarah Larson, in "Doug Emhoff Takes His Gen X Energy on the Road/On the trail, Emhoff has made loving music, and his wife, look like a campaign in itself. 'If he’s a Cure fan, I’m gonna die,' one rallygoer said" (The New Yorker).

I asked Google what's the most famous Cure song. I got this:

Now, there's your nontoxic masculinity. Aim higher younger-than-boomer guys. I saw JD Vance's fuchsia tie at the debate last night, but there are miles ahead on the road to detoxification.

68 comments:

Gusty Winds said...

Did nontoxic Robert Smith ever knock up the nanny?

J2 said...

Breaking today: Doug Emhoff slapped girlfriend at Valet stand at Cannes festival.

https://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-13898791/Kamala-Harris-husband-Doug-Emhoff-accused-ex-girlfriend-slap.html

Kai Akker said...

--- "that’s where I feel like we’re at now. We need hope. We need stability. We need good governance."

If by horrible chance or chicanery they get this, they will experience their first serious disillusionment. Many younger groupings do lean Democratic. Does the country have to get nuked and/or go bankrupt before they understand how poor that leadership has been?

Big Mike said...

”punching down”

So Tricia Gronnevik admits that in her eyes women are the lesser sex? If a man makes a wise crack about women, he’s not joking about his equals, he’s getting cheap laughs at the expense of the weaker half of h. sapiens? Good to understand her perspective.

RideSpaceMountain said...

If 5 Klonipin-addled Invega-injected Broadmoor inmates started a band, that's what they'd look like.

Martha said...

Look, non-toxic masculinity Doug Emhoff has been just been credibly accused of forcefully slapping his lawyer girlfriend after a Cannes Film Festival event in 2012 AND causing the miscarriage of his mistress nanny he impregnated in 2008. Jen Psaki’s calls that redefining masculinity.

Martha said...

October is Domestic Violence Awareness Month

mikee said...

I, for one, appreciate the humor in redefining masculinity away from toxic behavior such as leadership, honor, integrity, and towards the more respectable and healthy behavior of collectivism, dishonesty, lack of any moral standards.

We had a chance in 1996 to stop this type of BS journalism about elected officials personalities in 1996 when Bill Clinton and Newt Gingrich were asked (in separate incidents) about their underwear choices. Clinton waggishly answered, Gingrich reamed the idiot who asked for wasting the opportunity to ask a government leader a real question. In retrospect, who was more toxic there?

Kate said...

Just don't call him a Boomer. 1964 is the new gen-x energy.

Sally327 said...

Doug Emhoff, what a sexy beast. Geesh, who buys this bullsh*t? That's actually not meant to demean him because I don't think he's the one pushing this, he's just along for the ride. If masculinity means knowing where to put it, he certainly passes that test.

Skeptical Voter said...

Bob Dylan, a Minnesota native, wrote a song "Knocking on Heaven's Door". We can repurpose the lyrics for potential "First Gentleman" Emhoff. "Knock, knock, knocking on Nanny's door". Which musta worked for Doug considering he knocked her up. Whatta man! You have to be brain dead to want to embrace that version of masculinity. The first rule in any workplace-- in words that the young lady from South Texas might understand, is, "Don't ride the working stock."

Temujin said...

Here's some of Doug Emhoff's GenX energy.
Doug Emhoff accused of slapping around ex-girlfriend.
This, after he impregnated his kids nanny in his first marriage.

He's a slug. He's dirt. And our media cannot push him on us enough.

narciso said...

Robert Smith, still alive ok

tim maguire said...

Doug just blew me away with how real he is,' she said. 'It doesn’t seem fake or forced, like good old J. D. Vance

"Reality doesn't matter," says woman who likes to let the media tell her what to think. "It's all about vibes and The View tells me Doug Emhoff has good vibes."

RideSpaceMountain said...

Here's a thought, maybe when American women start behaving more like women instead of awful facsimiles of men the men will reduce the well-deserved "misogyny" directed at the imposters trying to poorly imitate them.

Until then, we will continue to have as many opinions about those that don't share our genitalia and lifestyles as they do about about those that don't have theirs. Stay in your lane you intrusive ninnies.

Narayanan said...

amazing receipts flaunted by DailyMail to taunt fact-checkers futile or foolish venture - this is goldplate journalism

ga6 said...

Greg goes for the body on the far right...

wendybar said...

Emhoff is an abuser of Women, so of course the Progressives LOVE him...
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https://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-13898791/Kamala-Harris-husband-Doug-Emhoff-accused-ex-girlfriend-slap.html

One Fine Day said...

Of course this Gronnevik chick is a Democrat. She prefers New Order to Joy Division? Poser.

Democratic Paychecks for Perks/ Dems for Demolition of Democracy/ fake-cares 4-U said...

How to get people to ignore who you are as a corrupt and horrible lying politician - and focus on things that do not matter. 101.

Rocco said...

Gusty Winds said...
Did nontoxic Robert Smith ever knock up the nanny?

No, but he did defeat the Mecha-Streisand. Although, that could be considered a display of toxic masculinity by some.

Scott M said...

I know this is a controversial take and might get me banned from this blog, but In Between Days is by far and away the best The Cure song, followed very closely by Pictures of You and Just Like Heaven.

n.n said...

Men, women, and our Posterity are from Earth. Feminists are from Venus. Masculinists are from Mars. Social progressives are from Uranus. War of the worlds. #HateLovesAbortion #HateTrumpsLove #DiversityEquivocationIndoctrination #AmericanCivilLibertiesUnburdened

Christopher B said...

Remind me what office he's running for again? I've been told that nothing you do matters if your name isn't on the ballot.

traditionalguy said...

Dumb as rocks to ditch good warrior men.

Ice Nine said...

The fact that he attended the Cannes Film Festival was enough for me.

Virgil Hilts said...

Just Like Heaven is one of my favorite songs. I don't drink much anymore, but if you are ever home alone and have had a few drinks just put it on and dance to it by yourself.

mikee said...

Also, Texas may just go blue this election with Cruz perhaps losing his seat. The abortion issue has women in Texas seething. If that turns into votes, the Republicans are toast and their 30 year tenure running the state will end this election. If not, probably in 2026 or 2028, unless the state legislature stops tripping over themselves with social issues rather than helping workers and businesses. It took the Dems from the Depression to 1994 to lose Texas, the Republicans are accomplishing that in half the time!

Dave Begley said...

Why does the UK press do the job that the US press should be doing? Now I want to know if Doug has ever slapped Kamala around!

Bushman of the Kohlrabi said...

This aged well

Lazarus said...

People are more complicated than the images the media creates of them. Doug as enlightened, non-toxic, cuddly male and Doug as feckless, submissive beta male are two sides of the same coin, or else mirror images -- one good, the other bad. The real Doug can be more of a bastard than the simplistic image. That makes him worse than his fans think. And maybe better than those who run him down as a weakling? Or is that going too far?

The man who is willing to step aside and let his powerful wife have the spotlight isn't necessarily a saint or a wimp. Think Prince Philip, content to play second fiddle to Queen Elizabeth, but also capable of being a bastard and a bully when he could be or wanted to be.

Dave Begley said...

If Texas turns blue, it will be because of the illegal alien vote. This is my biggest fear. Federal law (Motor Voter) makes it super easy for illegals to register to vote and, per that 2013 SCOTUS case authored by Scalia, the states can't require proof of citizenship to vote. The GOPe in DC has failed us.

Yancey Ward said...

It's good to know that schtupping the nanny is the new and improved model of masculinity.

NorthOfTheOneOhOne said...

This, IMO, is the Cure's most famous song. I haven't met a late Boomer woman yet who didn't go nuts when it gets played.

https://youtu.be/Xmf5ct3rOSc?si=Pt0UBrZzUDNphWL-

One Fine Day said...

This is the truth.

RideSpaceMountain said...

If TX goes blue it will be because of the locusts fleeing there from the states they've denuded. If there had been an 11th plague that befell Egypt in the bible, it would have been Californians.

The Cracker Emcee Refulgent said...

Pictures of You by a mile. C'mon, maaaan...

Leland said...

“I took the one less traveled by, and that has made all the difference.”

RideSpaceMountain said...

Don't forget ignoring stripper-conceived grandchildren by crack-smoking sires. It screams Pater Familias and gets the ladies all hot and bothered.

One Fine Day said...

Cruz is currently ahead by 5 in RCP's average, most recent polls are LVs and show about similar (earlier, RVs showed a much bigger lead). Cruz beat Beato by 2.9 last go-round, so it doesn't look like Texas is going blue this time either.

But that's all despite not because of the feckless GOPe.

Howard said...

You ladies like your True Detective soap opera scandal gossiping. Way to embrace and lean into your inner toxic feminine Animus

Scott M said...

Followed VERY closely by Pictures Of You.

Scott M said...

Fascination Street is easily in my top five albums of all time and I listen to a LOT of different stuff (consequence of being a radio jock for years)

Aggie said...
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Leland said...

He spun her right around. Story vetted by 3 other women, who provided the place and time.

Rocco said...

Ann said…
Aim higher younger-than-boomer guys.

As a Gen-Xer, I can say that we definitely did aim higher when it came to masculinity than this Boomer band.

I was not a fan of The Cure, but they had a coolness vibe. But definitely not a masculine one.

MadTownGuy said...

From the post:

"Now, there's your nontoxic masculinity. Aim higher younger-than-boomer guys. I saw JD Vance's fuchsia tie at the debate last night, but there are miles ahead ahead on the road to detoxification."

...and miles to go before we sleep.

Re: The Cure photo. No "men in short dresses" tag?

Michael K said...

More "Non-Toxic masculinity"

Michael K said...

I learn much of what I know of US politics from UK press.

Scott M said...

We're supposed to believe all women, right?

J Scott said...

Contrast to Walz, America's Dad with a barely contained volvanic rage

Lilly, a dog said...

The Cure is a guilty pleasure. Like impregnating the nanny.

Kate said...

Whoa, I almost feel sorry for Kamala. She has terrible instincts about men.

mccullough said...

Doug is a Boomer. 1964. He cheated on his wife and knocked up the nanny. Bad example of masculinity.

Gusty Winds said...

It's amazing what liberal women will look past in men's behavior as long as you're pro-abortion up until the moment of birth.

Bob Boyd said...

Reshaping masculinity and women's faces, one slap at a time.

Disparity of Cult said...

Harris brings to mind "Jumping Someone Else’s Train"

mccullough said...

Very Stanley Kowalski

Bob Boyd said...

To be fair to Emhoff, the woman he slapped was a lawyer, so...
Before we jump all over the guy, I guess we need to know, which one was he slapping, the woman or the lawyer?

RideSpaceMountain said...

Nobody can say Doug's pimphand ain't strong when controlling his putas. Just ask his bottom biatch Kamala.

Eva Marie said...

According to the news account, this happened when Doug was drunk. So he has difficulty with alcohol. The hints are Kamala also has problems with alcohol. Sad.

Quayle said...

He's her swooner dreamboat lover boy!

Ampersand said...

Being married to California's AG, and then US Senator, and then US VP, has done wonders for Doug's career. If you happen to recall Selina Meyers' ex husband from the HBO series, Andrew Meyer, you'll have a sense of the energy Doug can avail himself of by virtue of his proximity to power. He doesn't need to be explicit about it. It's just there. Nobody wants to be on the wrong side of the Emperor's family,

RideSpaceMountain said...

"'We need a new version of masculinity represented,' she said. 'I’m really tired of the alpha-male toxic bullshit. Being a South Texas country girl... I grew up in deer camps listening to a lot of misogynistic shit. It’s refreshing that we have men here who are supportive and not punching down, being bullies."

Never fear ladies, Doug Emhoff's non-toxic flat-handed brand of masculinity is here!

Kevin said...

Whatever America's ailment, Doug Emhoff is not the cure.

Joe Bar said...

Why do these revelations always come from the British papers, and never our own? Hmmm.

holdfast said...

I'd call it a slap in the face to women everywhere.

But especially's Dougie's ex-girlfriend.

Maybe that's why Kamala can't speak in public? She's afraid of getting smacked if she gets out of line?

holdfast said...

@Ampersand - It doesn't hurt that Kamala's BFF is a top exec at Disney, and odd-on favorite to be the next CEO of the House of Mouse.