September 4, 2018

"Brennan-Jobs is a deeply gifted writer. Before I read her book, I wondered if it had been ghostwritten..."

"... like many such books. But from the striking opening — in which Lisa is drifting around her father’s house when he is dying of cancer, snubbed by everyone and pinching trifles from different rooms to appease her sense of exclusion — it is clear that this is a work of uncanny intimacy. Her inner landscape is depicted in such exquisitely granular detail that it feels as if no one else could possibly have written it. Indeed, it has that defining aspect of a literary work: the stamp of a singular sensibility. In the fallen world of kiss-and-tell celebrity memoirs, this may be the most beautiful, literary and devastating one ever written.... When Lisa is in high school, she persuades Steve and Laurene to accompany her to her psychiatrist for a meeting, where she confesses: 'I’m feeling terribly alone.' Then she bursts into tears, which she hoped 'would soften them.' Laurene finally breaks the silence. 'We’re just cold people'..."

From "The Father of Personal Computing Who Was Also a Terrible Dad," Melanie Thernstrom's review of the Lisa Brennan-Jobs memoir "Small Fry."

I'm a little interested in "Small Fry," but I don't trust Thernstrom's opinion of the quality of the writing because when I read "Lisa is drifting around her father’s house when he is dying of cancer, snubbed by everyone and pinching trifles from different rooms to appease her sense of exclusion," I was drifting around wondering who was pinching trifles — Lisa or Steve? I assume it was Lisa and she was stealing inconsequential items, but I was distracted picturing Steve squeezing little sponge cakes. I have a feeling Thernstrom and Brennan-Jobs share a form of humorless poeticizing that leaves me, like Laurene, cold.

19 comments:

rehajm said...

Your dad was an asshole to lots of people. You're not special. Suck it up, buttercup.

I'm also cold people.

Earnest Prole said...

If you want to test-drive the book, an excerpt (which includes the pilfering incident) was published in last month's Vanity Fair and no doubt is available somewhere online for free.

The pilfering made me think of Dr. Johnson: "If he does really think that there is no distinction between virtue and vice, why, sir, when he leaves our houses let us count our spoons."

SeanF said...

Her inner landscape is depicted in such exquisitely granular detail that it feels as if no one else could possibly have written it.

That makes no sense to me. The author may have exquisitely detailed an inner landscape, but I'm not sure how the reviewer knows that it was necessarily Ms. Jobs' inner landscape.

YoungHegelian said...

There are all these Apple fanboys & -girls in the general & IT press who thought Apple & Steve Jobs could do no wrong. No one who ever had to deal with Apple corporate to corporate or as a channel partner ended up thinking that in the end.

Apple is a roaring success now. But, its market is now to consumers -- iPhones & iTunes mostly, both of which are just cash cows. As a computer company, it failed,& did so repeatedly. There is serious talk of Apple divesting or ending its Mac line of products. Its continued presence in the corporate world stems from the fact that it has a user base that love their Macs & insist that their IT staff integrate them at corporate expense into the corporate network. No one involved ---Mac user or IT staff --- gets much love from Apple in order to make things happen.

stephen cooper said...

If this young woman is related to Mona Simpson, a very gifted writer - which I think she is , I think she is her niece - then the odds are she has got a lot of the genetic skills that help make us good writers.

Taking stuff from people's houses - I spent some time thinking of a good writer who would do such a thing.

Cather, Wharton, Anita Loos, Hemingway, Fitzgerald, Poe, I could see it, although only under similar circumstances.

Laura Ingalls WIlder, Louisa May Alcott, Herman Melville, Nathaniel Hawthorne, Mark Twain - no, I can't imagine it.

This is my once a year internet comment that shows that I really like American literature. Next year I might reflect on the books that W.C. Fields read in the last 10 years of his life.

wild chicken said...

I never think anyone wildly successful like that is also a great parent, like Andy of Mayberry. Actually I assume not. You need such manic focus...and who can serve two masters equally well?

Rob said...

Lisa had the bad luck to be born to an asshole of a father and a nutjob of a mother. The wealth that she enjoys as a result of her father's success may not be a substitute for the caring parents every child deserves, but it does salve the wound. And she herself seems to be just a bit of an asshole and nutjob herself; the apple doesn't fall far from the tree.

buwaya said...

"it has a user base that love their Macs & insist that their IT staff integrate them at corporate expense"

True. Seen that.

On the other hand, Mac has always been an upmarket brand oriented to various niches that can damn the expense for the sake of whatever they see in Macs, often simply the cachet of it.

The most telling problem with Mac is that its been largely dumped by hardcore gamers. I have contacts in that world. Whatever the 20-something tech guys like is what wins.

YoungHegelian said...

@BP,

The most telling problem with Mac is that its been largely dumped by hardcore gamers.

It has also lost a lot of its share of the graphic design market, a market that not that long ago it owned by an enormous margin over the WinTel competition.

William said...

My parents didn't excel at the sport of parenting either. I had to pony up money for their funerals. I'm sure I would be far more forgiving of their imperfections if they had left me a few million........The child's revenge memoir is a major literary genre. Eugene O'Neil wrote the only true masterpiece. Marley Dietrich's daughter is said to have written a good book about her mother, but I haven't read it. Anway. Jobs' daughter had the good sense to wait until after the will was probated to grace us with her memories. I understand Bing Crosby's son and Bette Davis's daughter were left out of the will.

holdfast said...

Macs, unlike many PC brands, don’t come stuffed to the gills with pre-installed crap-ware. And so long as you don’t want to exceed Apple’s basic parameters, they will work, That’s enough.

holdfast said...

Having one bad parent is survivable. Having two incompatible lunatics is awful. And in her case the custodial parent was also an incompetent moron.

Robert Cook said...

I have a 2007 Mac Pro that is still going strong. I can't update to the latest operating systems, which is occasionally inconvenient, but it works and it isn't slow or buggy as shit, as a Windows PC will inevitably be after only 3 or 4 years of use.

I do need to get a new computer, and I've been waiting to hear of updated Mac Minis. Supposedly, this is going to happen soon. Hurrah!!

Even as an Apple fan who found Jobs' presentations compelling in a way none of the post-Jobs presentations have ever been, I knew he was an asshole.

stephen cooper said...

holdfast - I had two really really bad parents, and five older siblings, none of them very kind. The rest of this comment is not directed to you, but directed to people who wonder what it is like to have really really bad parents.

I basically knew what evil was before I could talk.

The only reason I have had a good life is that somewhere when I was young I understood the simple faith that those of us who are cursed with the real cold poverty that I knew - cold-hearted parents, mocking siblings - I understood the simple faith that one has when one knows that Jesus suffered for us, that he too had friends who had experienced hardship when young, and that God loves us all, and wants us all to have a better life someday.

It is hard to explain. Seriously, I remember being about 4 year old and expecting people - expecting every - not almost every, but every - new person I met - to be nasty and rude and unkind to me. Can you imagine?

But God loves us all. There is no prayer that you can pray that God will hear and think: I am not going to help out the person who prayed that prayer. Believe me or not - like I said, I knew what evil people were capable of before I could talk ---- believe me or not, God loves us all. You don't have to pray harder, you just have to ask to be able to pray. If you are someone who has been mistreated, long ago before you could defend yourself, by selfish or just plain uncaring people, just ask God that one small thing - that He will help you pray - and God's help will redeem it all, every good and pure thing one could want, as a child of God - will be granted (I will restore the years the locusts have eaten, said the Lord to the prophet Joel).

Leslie Graves said...

I guess I'm in a bad mood because all it ever does out here in Spring Green is rain, but it bugs me to no end that Thernstrom claims that the fact that the book is a "work of uncanny intimacy" that depicts the inner life of Brennan-Jobs in "exquisitely granular detail" means, perforce, that the book wasn't written by a ghostwriter. No, it doesn't. If anything, those literary qualities would indicate that it was written by a ghostwriter because they know how to create those effects. For the record, I don't think a ghostwriter was involved (although what do I know?) but this line of reasoning is offensively stupid.

YoungHegelian said...

@Stephen Cooper,

You very well may be among God's Elect, Coop. If I was a betting man, I'd wager on it.

stephen cooper said...

Thanks. I am actually a below average person (for the last few years - I like to think it is 2 or 3 years, but it is 5 years or more) I have been too lazy to clear out a storage garage which I pay a couple hundred bucks a month for.

And I of all people know how much that couple of hundred bucks a month would mean to someone else.



God loves us all but loves us too much to let us stay that way. So many times I have said something like that (in English, Spanish, and even in Russian) and seen a look of pure recognition. And if you saw me on the street, or at my office, you would think ---- hey, he looks a lot like that panhandler I gave a buck to last week!

Thanks for the kind words, actually I am always well dressed, but even well dressed people appreciate kind words.





Ingachuck'stoothlessARM said...

matthew 5:3

The Crack Emcee said...

Steve Jobs Was A Snarling Brute Who Humiliated People Just To Do It, Says Paul Allen

Yoga, meditation, homeopathy, and organics. Anybody seen "Pirates of Silicon Valley"? It's got a great cult scene in it. "[It] predates that global success: it was made before the iPod, before the iPhone, before Jobs adopted his famous black turtleneck uniform and cult leader status."

You know what that means - More:

"Pirates" is focused on recounting events rather than getting into the heads of its characters, so there's not a great deal of insight into their motivations. But the film doesn't shrink from the darker side of Jobs' character when depicting his transformation from bearded hippie to bow tie-wearing multimillionaire. A college drop-out with a fascination for mind-expanding drugs and zen philosophy, Jobs could be paradoxically obnoxious, cold and vindictive, in both his personal and professional lives.

His capricious temper is shown here as he crushes employees -- which one-time Apple marketing chief Mike Murray called "management by character assassination" -- or destroys a potential hire by demanding "Are you a virgin?", a question he startled people with on more than one occasion in real life. His callousness is seen as he shuts out his friends, who had helped him build Apple, from the stock issue that made him vastly wealthy. And most damningly, he's shown denying he's the father of his daughter from a relationship with a fictional version of Jobs' real-life girlfriend, Crissan Brennan.


Deliberately ignoring how this is happening is not helping.