Hunyo 6, 2026

"Arthur Miller described the voluptuous yet fragile woman he wed as 'a poet on a street corner trying to recite to a crowd pulling at her clothes.'"

"When Miller left out his journal open to a page saying that she had embarrassed him in front of his intellectual peers and Marilyn read it, she wrote, 'I guess I have always been deeply terrified to really be someone’s wife since I know from life one cannot love another, ever, really.' Like everyone else, Miller was mesmerized by his wife’s power of enchantment. 'Glamour is a bird that for dark and largely unknowable reasons decides to light on this branch rather than another,' he once wrote...."

From Maureen Dowd's new column, "Norma Jeane’s Still Got It!" (NYT).

You know what's embarrassing? 1. Writing down that your wife is embarrassing — can't you just remember it and squirm silently in your dark and unknowable mind? — and leaving your journal open to the page where she'll see it, 2. Writing "Glamour is a bird that for dark and largely unknowable reasons decides to light on this branch rather than another." Birds don't have dark reasons.

IN THE COMMENTS: Bob Boyd provides this:
"A friggin' bird will swoop down from a bough and peck your eyes out as you lie helpless and half frozen in the snow without ever having felt sorry for you." 
— Thought to be an early, rough draft of 'Self-Pity' scribbled in the margin of A Field Guide to the Dark Thoughts of North American Birds found in D.H. Lawrence's library after his death.

BY THE WAY: When I was writing this post, I wanted an illustration and asked Grok to give me an image of "a bird that for dark and largely unknowable reasons decides to light on this branch." I didn't say Arthur Miller wrote those words.

Grok gave me an image that was too dull to use, but it also added this ridiculous caption: "A solitary bird, wings half-folded in that decisive instant of landing, perches on a gnarled, ancient branch silhouetted against a brooding twilight sky. The air feels heavy with unspoken intent—shadows pool beneath the feathers like secrets, and the bird’s eye catches a glint of something ancient and unknowable. Dark pines loom in the distance, mist curls low, and the branch itself seems to have been waiting for this exact, inscrutable visitor."

So I was all: "Yeah it's purple prose isn't it? I got it from Arthur Miller."

76 (na) komento:

john mosby ayon kay ...

I think birds have nothing but dark reasons. Kind of like the insect politics thing. CC, JSM

Aggie ayon kay ...

If he thinks she was bad, just imagine being married to a pterodactyl.

Arthur Miller was in many ways a preening fraud with a modicum of literary talent, and terrible moral values.

Original Mike ayon kay ...

Bird's goal in life is to poop all over everything.
They're pretty good at it.

cassandralite ayon kay ...

Best part is that she didn't embarrass him in front of his friends. His male friends were thinking, "Geezus, he gets to boink that amazing creature every night. I'd give 30 IQ points to do it once." And his female friends were thinking, "Damn, I hate her."

Achilles ayon kay ...

If he was saying she acted dumb and embarrassed him that is one thing.

If he said she emasculated him in front of his friends and embarrassed him that is another.

I am not clear on which one that is from this context and if it was the second it might explain the page left open.

narciso ayon kay ...

Thats probably closer to the truth

narciso ayon kay ...

She waa a luminous beauty (maybe miller missed the point)

narciso ayon kay ...
Naalis ng may-ari ang komentong ito.
Lazarus ayon kay ...

IIRC, Miller locked up his mentally-deficient son in a facility and never visited. He's something of an icon of cold intellectuality, ambition, and unquestioning self-righteousness. The Death of a Salesman was a great play, but The Crucible, which became a staple of high school drama programs, seems to me to reflect those characteristics. Maybe I'm too harsh: After the Fall was supposed to be a deep, self-questioning examination of the Miller-like protagonist and what one critic called the great issues of the day: Communism, the Bomb, and Marilyn Monroe.

Lazarus ayon kay ...

The Price, a lesser-known work, was produced for television in the 70s with George C. Scott in the lead role and made a big impression on me.

Playwrights in the great age of American drama were plagued by critics pointing out that they weren't Sophocles or Shakespeare, but then, who was?

narciso ayon kay ...

I did not know that about him

So he was more like willy loman then he would admit

Why do intellectuals disdain salesmen its not easy work

narciso ayon kay ...
Naalis ng may-ari ang komentong ito.
Iman ayon kay ...

Arrogant writers were always a dime a dozen, but inflation has had some impact.

narciso ayon kay ...

Yes communist dont exist but if thry did they are victims

narciso ayon kay ...
Naalis ng may-ari ang komentong ito.
William ayon kay ...

She definitely wasn't an Arthur Miller character. She should have married William Inge. She was great in Bus Stop and--no disrespect to Kim Novak--she would have been memorable in Picnic.....Truman Capote had her in mind for Breakfast at Tiffany's. It would have been a different picture, but she would have been great......She also attracted attention from Joyce Carol Oates and Norman Mailer. I don't think they were ever on the same page as her.....Her greatest creation was "Marilyn", but it was a corporate enterprise. Whatever her gaps and deficits, we filled them in. Nonetheless, she found a way to seductively package tragedy, myth and history in a way equaled only by Cleopatra.

William ayon kay ...

I read a bio of Joe DiMaggio. He hit her a few times. She cheated on him during their honeymoon......I wish God existed so that on Judgement Day, we could see who was right and who was wrong.

narciso ayon kay ...

That would have been interesting

There was also the one she did with gable

narciso ayon kay ...

Kind of like rita hayworth and her complicated relationshipd with welles and other characters

Josephbleau ayon kay ...

The freak party goes on.

bagoh20 ayon kay ...

Why did someone who called himself "the Great American Brain" need his wife to make him look smart in front of his peers? I'm sure Marylin's female friends weren't exactly impressed with his looks either. Truth is she did make him look good in front of everybody.

mccullough ayon kay ...

Miller wrote one good play. Dude thought he was Eugene O’Neill.

Quaestor ayon kay ...

Arthur Miller in toto: A showoff with a trophy wife.

narciso ayon kay ...

Poppy montgomery played her in the oates teleplay

Kate Coe ayon kay ...

He was a jerk—put his son in an institution.

Eva Marie ayon kay ...

Marilyn Monroe in Breakfast at Tiffanies. What a great movie that might have been. Not a reprise of Loreli but a small-town con artist. Maybe Steve McQueen instead of George Peppard. Different director too. I bet we're only months away from seeing the AI version. I’ll pay to see that.

John henry ayon kay ...

We read some of his plays in hs in the 60s including Death of Salesman" the only thing that stayed with me was the line about a shoeshime and a smile.

"He's a man way out there in the blue, riding on a smile and a shoeshine."

Perhaps because for 22 years I was an independent sales rep that line always sang to me. More consulting since 07 but still selling. Just selling myself instead of machinery now. Much harder.

John Henry

Bob Boyd ayon kay ...
Naalis ng may-ari ang komentong ito.
Eva Marie ayon kay ...

yikes, Tiffany’s. (bad spellcheck)

Gusty Winds ayon kay ...

I'm sure men were shitty to her. She was a victim of all of that. But for the men that married her (first boyfriend, DiMaggio, Miller) it must have been like trying to catch the wind.

Sad the Kennedy bros killed her.

Bob Boyd ayon kay ...

Birds don't have dark reasons.

You're so naive.

imTay ayon kay ...

"A showoff with a trophy wife."

I was going to write the same thing, but I doubt I could have been as pithy.

Bob Boyd ayon kay ...

Just selling myself instead of machinery now. Much harder.

Throw in a free hat.

Lee Moore ayon kay ...

Apparently Keynes's Bloomsbury Group pals found Lydia Lopokova hard to swallow. But Keynes himself wasn't embarrassed at all. Suggests he had a bit more self confidence than Miller. Indeed excessive self confidence was probably the root of his more obvious flaws. Like being horribly wrong about economics- but tragically persuasive.

RCOCEAN II ayon kay ...

It reminds of that Woody Allen movie where the Sydney Pollack character yells at his girlfriend " You embarrassed me in front my friends". Y'see she's a Yoga instructor and starts talking to the super-smarties about Astrology or something. So, of course Pollack goes back to his middle-aged smarty-wife.

RCOCEAN II ayon kay ...

Birds put up a good front, but they're quite evil.

RCOCEAN II ayon kay ...

Anyway, thanks for reminding me of why I always disliked Arthur Miller. i don't think any major author made so much $$$ off his ex-wife.

It also reminds me of Miller's biggest flaw. He was always trying to be poetic - and failing.

RCOCEAN II ayon kay ...

Monroe's mother was crazy and had to be committed. As she got older Marilyn started "hearing voices" and got lots of pyschriatric care. Unfortunately, psychiatric care was still in the dark ages compared to the 21st century.

Jupiter ayon kay ...

Yeah Miller was definitely a dirtbag.

tcrosse ayon kay ...

A former boss told me something he learned while doing post-doc work in EE. If you're the smartest guy in the room, it's time to move on to someplace where you aren't. Otherwise you won't learn anything. This assumes you can accept not knowing it all.

n.n ayon kay ...

Dark birds have murderous resonance.

Original Mike ayon kay ...

If you're the smartest guy in the room, it's time to move on to someplace where you aren't. Otherwise you won't learn anything."

Most of the other faculty in my department were smarter than me (some way smarter). I learned a lot.

Original Mike ayon kay ...

"Marilyn Monroe in Breakfast at Tiffanies. What a great movie that might have been."

In place of Audrey Hepburn?
No. Just…no.

John henry ayon kay ...

Tried that, Bob. Not everyone is a pushover like you!

I think I still have some in a drawer. You want one?

John Henry

narciso ayon kay ...

In her bio ghosted by ben hecht she is very clear why women gave the gimlet eye and she didnt care

narciso ayon kay ...

The abuse allegations came from anthony summers goddess who is very sketchy on these matters

FullMoon ayon kay ...

Kate Coe said...
He was a jerk—put his son in an institution.

6/6/26, 2:04 PM

Rob Riener didn't.

Michael Fitzgerald ayon kay ...

"Throw in a free hat."
You get a free bowl of soup with that hat.

john mosby ayon kay ...

If birds don't have dark reasons, why is it called a murder of crows? CC, JSM

narciso ayon kay ...

Ana de armas the most recent marilyn is very attractive
But shes also a real lefty

Meade ayon kay ...

You know who has “dark reasons?” Maureen Dowd.

Bob Boyd ayon kay ...

@ John Henry

I'd love one!

RCOCEAN II ayon kay ...

"If he said she emasculated him in front of his friends and embarrassed him that is another."

Yeah, if she said Miller was a gutless dweeb he was perfectly justified in saying nothing, and then writing it in a diary, then leaving it for her to see.

That's how all macho men act. So, Miller certainly proved her wrong.

Meade ayon kay ...

“Sad the Kennedy bros killed her.”

Norma Jeanne’s first fatal mistake was becoming a Dumocrat. Her second fatal mistake was divorcing the only man who truly loved, cared for, and protected her, her first husband, Jimmie Dougherty.

effinayright ayon kay ...

Arthur Miller was in many ways a preening fraud with a modicum of literary talent, and terrible moral values.
***************

If there is anything this blog does NOT need, it's unsupported assertions offered as FACT. You insult our intelligence, sirrah,

narciso ayon kay ...

I think arthur miller is overpraised like many mid dentury playrights

RCOCEAN II ayon kay ...

The bird sings it song,
Yet behind it lies a dark soul.

A Robin, darkly bouncing on the lawn,
A sparrow, thinking of death, as it chirps at dawn,
A Gull, depressed at the Sea shore,

Meaningless Avian Life.

But keep up the mask.
Keep up the charade.
Join the flock, keep singing.
Despite the darkness inside.

RCOCEAN II ayon kay ...

I dunno, Joe Dimaggio loved her too. Her, and coffee.

Lucien ayon kay ...

I’m so fucking sick of Marilyn Monroe. Also sick of the people who dubbed themselves “The Greatest Generation”, but that’s a different rant.

RCOCEAN II ayon kay ...

"Arthur Miller was in many ways a preening fraud with a modicum of literary talent, and terrible moral values."

Well, he was a communist. And an asshole to Marilyn. And a pompous twit.

OTOH, he wrote "Death of a Salesman" which some people (Not me) like. So there's that.

Meade ayon kay ...

Goodbye, Maureen Dowd
I wish I never read you at all
You had the nerve to hold yourself
Beyond and above us all
You crawl out of the woodwork
And you whisper in our brain
They set you up at the New York Times and
Take our president’s name in vain

And it seems to me live your life
Like a Canada Goose full of wind

RCOCEAN II ayon kay ...

Actually, the whole James Dean- Marilyn Monroe-Elvis thing has died down a lot in the last 10 years. The world moves on.

RCOCEAN II ayon kay ...

Bravo Meade. Dowd is truly the wind behind our wings.

Bob Boyd ayon kay ...

"A friggin' bird will swoop down from a bough and peck your eyes out as you lie helpless and half frozen in the snow without ever having felt sorry for you."
- Thought to be an early, rough draft of 'Self-Pity' scribbled in the margin of A Field Guide to the Dark Thoughts of North American Birds found in D.H. Lawrence's library after his death.

Meade ayon kay ...

A well an everybody's hoyd about the boyd
B-b-b boyd, boyd, boyd the boyd is the woyd

YoungHegelian ayon kay ...

Well, who hasn't been sitting around the table with your buds enjoying some brewskis reading Pindar in the original Greek, when the bitter half wanders by and says somethin' like "I've always had trouble with the Ionic dialect" when we all know it's Doric!

Beeyatch, you better be glad you is such a hot piece of ass or so help me God.....

Marcus Bressler ayon kay ...

Recently, my daughter was in the Palm Beach DramaWorks production of The Crucible. In a Facebook post in the opening week of the production, one of the producers (a woman) opined, without a hint of irony, that the play "certainly still resonates in light of what is going on today". I wanted to scream at this AWFL that the Biden administration was the Salem Witch Trials of false accusations against anything Trump. I kept my mouth shut because it would be a waste of time and would reflect poorly on my daughter (though her stage name is different than my last name) if it came to light who I was.

grimson ayon kay ...

"dark and largely unknowable reasons"
If Althouse thinks they are not dark, she could enlighten us about their reasons about which she knows.
Grok fails to help her understand Miller's meaning of "dark" is elaborated upon by "unknowable reasons."

Smilin' Jack ayon kay ...

I think Miller was just using “dark” as a synonym for “unknown” or “mysterious”. Nothing sinister intended. And birds just do what they do; they don’t need reasons.

RCOCEAN II ayon kay ...

Arthur miller - bird pyschologist.

RCOCEAN II ayon kay ...

My Golden Retriever
Moved herself to a new sleeping spot
For Dark reasons.

JAORE ayon kay ...

"Birds don't have dark reasons." Buzzards are birds.... Picking bits off of rotting corpses seems fairly dark to me.

tcrosse ayon kay ...

Why did the chicken cross the road? For some dark reason?

WWPaulKlee ayon kay ...

On topic, the Brits are trying to dismantle the 3500 year old wild ponies of Dartmoor Island. Simultaneously halting the culling/suppressing the crow/raven population countrywide. The emboldened birds are pecking out the eyes of lambs. Linked at Instapundit. Even in the 1980s Eric Hoffer warned us the zeitgeist favored the wild and savage over civilization.

n.n ayon kay ...

Mmm. Raisins. Golden.

Mary Beth ayon kay ...



Why did the chicken cross the road? For some dark reason?
6/7/26, 2:33 AM


Since the answer is to achieve death (get to the other side), I'd say that's pretty dark.

Glamour is a bird that for dark and largely unknowable reasons decides to light on this branch

I think that Miller's bird's "dark reason" is not necessarily bad/evil, just hard to see, like something in the dark. Dark and unknowable echo the same idea. It gives balance to "light on a branch". Words that could be opposites in another context but aren't in this is just fun wordplay.

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