"... to sit in one of the plastic chairs she’d arranged in a circle. 'How is each of you feeling this morning?' she would ask.... One day, she cut to the chase: 'What is something that is making you really sad right now?'... [O]ne boy began mumbling.... 'All of a sudden, he just started bawling. And he was like, "I think that my dad hates me. And he yells at me all the time"'.... Another girl announced that her parents had divorced and burst into tears. Another said she was worried about the man her mother was dating. Within minutes, half of the kids were sobbing. It was time for the math lesson, but no one wanted to do it. It was just so sad, thinking that the boy’s dad hated him. What if their dads hated them, too?.... A second mom at the school confirmed to me that word spread throughout the school about the AA meeting–style breakdown. Except this AA meeting featured elementary school kids who then ran to tell their friends what everyone else had shared...."
Writes Abigail Shrier, in "How Bad Therapy Hijacked Our Nation’s Schools/Forget the Pledge of Allegiance. Today’s teachers are more likely to start the school day with an ‘emotions check-in.’ Abigail Shrier on the rise of ‘trauma-informed’ education" (The Free Press).
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Shut up and teach!
"Hi. My name is Emma, and I eat my boogers."
"Oh, and Jane is a poop-head."
On a different level, this reminds me of those b****s who wore fright masks and terrorized the shit out of a room full of day care kids.
Horse whipping.
Feelings. The left's obsession.
A good distraction from feelings?... Education. Reading, writing, Math, science, art, history.
Teachers cannot control what goes on at home.
(If a child is experiencing actual abuse at home - they should have an outlet for reporting it in a safe and private manner.)( not a group setting. geez.)
Just about every well-intended leftist idea is a shit show.
Teaching math is hard.
Feral children raised by feral parents. It cannot continue for a third generation, as our economy requires adults (or at least teenagers) to make tough decisions.
Following a hedonistic and atheistic 50-year-period, this is the rebirth of Sunday School or religious school or Holy Confessions. Clearly many need basic platitudes and simple instructions on how to live. Don't fight nature, as you will lose.
Jesus H. Christ on a popsicle stick. You're not the kids' counselor, you're a teacher. Shut the fuck up and teach them how to read and write. You know- the job you're being paid to do?
That's not what an AA meeting looks like.
Compelling kids to take part in "emotions check-in" is just creepy.
"Shut up and teach" is exactly correct. But how to get there...
The earlier post regarding marriage lamented more men not pursuing a career as professional educators.
The institution is captured and rotten.
School Choice is needed.
Creepy. Sick. Government teachers have no business poking around in kid’s families.
"It was time for the math lesson, but no one wanted to do it."
Meanwhile, in China...
The kid is right, his Dad hates him. His Mom too. Otherwise, they would not send him to Hell every day.
Our all-wise betters have bestowed on us mere mortals days and weeks of abject and compulsory gratitude to teachers. As usual, Quaestor objects and scorns all such easy gestures of formulaic indebtedness. All things considered, civilization owes as much to plumbers as to teachers, but that vocation gets no official respect. When you flush your next loaf, do so in reverence.
Given current trends, a national Abuse a Teacher Day is well and truly overdue.
Sister Mary John, the principal, or teacher Sister Mary Camilla (aka "Camilla The Gorilla") hosting such an emotion-sharing event is something my brain cannot begin to imagine. And even the saintly first grade teacher Sister Mary Concilia used her ruler on knuckles, for real or supposed misbehavior, much more often than she ever asked us about our feelz.
It was a revelation the day we first graders discovered Sister Mary Concilia had hair under her bandeau, veil and wimple. RED hair. We were all amazed. Sit us down for emotional sharing? Hahahahahahaha.
struggle sessions in the second grade..coming soon to a school near you..approved by Dr Jill..
Teachers seem to embrace any crazy theory they hear about to the exclusion of time-tested instruction on core topics that kids need to know as they grow up. I hope this is just what we hear about and not in any way representative of what is actually going on in most classrooms.
But one never knows these days.
The Matriarchy ruins everything
Like so much, 'social-emotional learning,' a vast expansion of public school power into areas for which they aren't authorized or qualified, occurred with no notice or debate.
Like DEI and racializing children, it's just there, and we face a messy, probably futile task of removing it.
Does know one recall the McMartin Preschool case?
Children encouraged by adults made up tales.
A lot of people have a misconception of what an AA meeting is.
It seems to me that people - from young children to fully grown adults - are systematically conditioned to use their emotions to process their surrounding world, instead of their intellects. This is a case in point, in the schools. If a child is emotionally disturbed, there is little benefit getting them to vent in front of other children; this kind of venting often contributes to a contagion, as others have mentioned. A disturbed child should be taken aside and queried until the problem is understood. As for adults, one has to simply review the news items online or in the media. The stories often use emotive content to drive the story. 'Residents are alarmed and frightened by the blah blah blah' None of it drives understanding, none of it triggers thinking and intellectual analysis. It's all about reacting on an emotional level - usually fear. Now, why would a healthy society use fear and upset as its main avenue of communication?
Grammar school teachers are not licensed therapists and should stop pretending to be therapists.
After "Feelings and Sobbing Hour" lets all go to the library and read Rainbow dildos, trans -confusion, and age inappropriate gay sex-ed for first graders. Those evil right wingers want to ban it.
It was just so sad, thinking that the boy’s dad hated him. What if their dads hated them, too?
I could see a young child incorrectly thinking that their parents hated him because one or both of them had yelled at them. I could also see a young child whose parents yelled at him but previously didn't think they hated him latch onto the idea that his parents hate him because he heard another kid draw a similar conclusion from their own experience without that conclusion being refuted by others. For the past couple generations there has been a strong social trend to treat every emotion as valid, and every worry as something that needs to be expressed. Also, for the past couple generations anxiety levels have risen in the young. There appears to be a direct correlation between the amount of therapy people get in society and the levels of anxiety people feel in society. Maybe the increased levels of therapy aren't solely a response to the increasing levels of anxiety but a cause in its self. Women appreciate the strong silent type men because they makes them feel safe and less anxious themselves.
I read the excerpt thinking (a) this is horrible and cruel to the children and (b) the author thinks this is good and healthy.
I was reassured to reach the headline at the bottom and see that I was wrong about (b).
Our Daughter had gotten her first teaching job teaching the 2cnd grade in a school predominated by "at risk kids" The state defines that by the number kid getting free and reduced meals.
Towards the end of year, after she gotten over the early jitters and had gained confidence in her own performance, I asked her what the most surprising thing she had learned? What thing left a lasting impression.
She replied she was amazed at the number of her students that did know they were loved.
Repeatedly we see evidence that our family structure is abysmal and likely the core problem facing an increasingly dysfunctional society.
The reason for the family decline can be laid at the feet of our kindly Uncle Sam tossing money at single parent households. Incentivizing absentee fathers.
As far as probing for bad feelz. It is no big surprise that you get more of what you push.
The teacher should be promoting a positive uplifting atmosphere.
Here's the deal, lots of families are not in the best shape. Some Kids are not getting the emotional support they need. BUT Government Schools are not the solution. Government involvement in being their life coaches, is worse than kids running ferrel for 10 hours a day. That's part of the problem Teachers openly telling students to ignore their parents, and come to the teachers those "tough" questions, they won't talk to their parents about.
I know that was the message I got in High School, back in 70's.
So the teacher started a delicate, highly public conversation without the skills to manage it or end it with affirmation. Sigh. WTF. Do they still have counselors in elementary school?
And here I thought I was going to school to escape the stuff at home.
School was my safe place from home. Teachers were my comfort. I didn't have to talk about parents or feelings.
"As for adults, one has to simply review the news items online or in the media. The stories often use emotive content to drive the story. 'Residents are alarmed and frightened by the blah blah blah' None of it drives understanding, none of it triggers thinking and intellectual analysis. It's all about reacting on an emotional level - usually fear. Now, why would a healthy society use fear and upset as its main avenue of communication?"
50 years ago I read a short story. A TV reporter interviews the distraught mother of a murder victim (or some similar crime). Pretty typical, even by today's standards. At the end, he turns to the camera and ... reluctantly, intones "As required by law, XXXNEWS discloses that the emotions of the interviewee were artificially enhanced for this interview."
What the author didn't foresee was the non-necessity for artificial enhancement.
If you must send your children to public school, stay vigilant and involved in their scholarly life. Many teachers believe it is their duty to turn your progeny against you and immerse them in the latest social contagion the left has conjured. Public school teachers are largely the new Stasi.
Trauma-informed education
The kids will feel the need to compete for most traumatized. They will come believe their own stories. Even adults often do.
I'm with Mike MJB Wolf. The group setting and lack of training is crazy. But if these particular kids are that close to falling apart, it works not surprise me if their ability to learn is impaired, and they may even be disruptive in class. The school would be better off with more guidance counselors.
My kids' school nods to SEL, but they approach it more as promoting calm and offering ways to stop yourself for getting angry and pitching a fit. No discussions of feelings beyond "keep your shit together."
Abigail Christ is interviewed on Joe Rogan today. It is nice that Rogan's podcasts are available on iTunes again.
Didn't the Stasi do this?
It looks like public school systems are always on the look out for something new to focus on — anything to avoid providing a decent education.
"anything to avoid providing a decent education."
Self-imposed heaping of more on their plate is a deflection to explain why the schools continue to insist they need more money. Pity they never explain why they're taking on more work when they are already failing at their assigned task- providing a decent education.
Who the fuck do these busybody teachers think they are? They were employed by the taxpayers to teach scholastic subjects to children. They are not psychologists, psychiatrists, or counselors. They are not cops or doctors or ministers. They weren't hired to probe the psyches of their young charges, or indoctrinate them into leftist politics, or violate the privacy rights of the kids or their families.
They are SCHOOLMARMS. Mere hired help. And they better not fucking forget it. The parents and taxpayers of America are fucking sick and tired of their shit.
I spent most of my school years pretending to be a normal, happy kid. That's how civilization works. We all pretend to be civilized....Book a cruise down the River Denial. It's not the only way to travel, but it's not the worst journey either. School teachers should facilitate passage on these cruises.
I appreciated and will remember the quote in the link: "They're watering the weeds, they're not watering the flowers"
Or something like that.
"The parents and taxpayers of America are fucking sick and tired of their shit."
Which is why they are trying, so very hard, to keep their shit hidden from the people who are paying their salaries and pensions- who would never have suspected a thing but for their insistence on remote teaching during covid, because actually going to work was too much like... well, work.
Education is a gut major and teachers should have real degrees—math, history, literature.
As others have noticed, this is a struggle session.
Once you break them, you can Manchurian Candidate grade school.
"Invisible Serfs Collar" blog, while a bit hard to read, has a ton of research on this.
Quaestor
Somewhere on YouTube is a Norm McDonald video of him just reaming a teacher a new one. There's a reason he was one of the best stand up comics ever.
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