tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6329595.post5523376577760154400..comments2024-03-28T16:15:48.072-05:00Comments on Althouse: "Thirteen years ago, I happened to be at my folks for New Year's."Ann Althousehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/01630636239933008807noreply@blogger.comBlogger38125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6329595.post-64867816587547293172013-01-02T07:40:42.580-06:002013-01-02T07:40:42.580-06:00Thanks to all for your comments! I did not mentio...Thanks to all for your comments! I did not mention this on Althouse to brag, but her post on resolutions actually made me realize how long I have been doing this (and how long Mom has been gone).<br /><br />Thirteen years of consciously doing something every day just struck me. I thought other people might like to give it a try.<br /><br />There were days when I was stuck in bed with the flu and had no opportunity, but you would be surprised, if you make the effort, how easy it is to find something good to do or say.<br /><br />Maybe I just shop in crappy grocery stores, but there sure seems to be a lot of people that can't find the horseradish.Anne in Rockwall, TXhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00171076259617071023noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6329595.post-22701405560745127562013-01-01T15:36:35.620-06:002013-01-01T15:36:35.620-06:00Okay, just did my good deed for the day. I am tot...Okay, just did my good deed for the day. I am totally on board. Called my mom and told her how awesome she was. <br /><br />I know, she's family. You're supposed to be nice to your mom! Anyway, small steps. Tomorrow I'll be nice to my brother.<br /><br />What's awesome about this good deed program, is that it makes me feel happy. <br /><br />My resolution to do more sit-ups is out the window. I hate doing things I hate to do. I suck at it. I can make myself do things, but not for long periods. Not for a year. My new year's resolutions are like a jail sentence. <br /><br />But this new year's resolution is fun. I can do this. <br /><br />Awesome, Anne, you rock. Bonus triple points for you.Saint Croixhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17876368500159112781noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6329595.post-20818242461391692582013-01-01T14:58:38.709-06:002013-01-01T14:58:38.709-06:00Anne gets a negative pride point for bragging abou...Anne gets a negative pride point for bragging about her good deeds in public. On the other hand, 13 years of daily good deeds works out to 1,749 good deeds. I have not kept tally, but I suspect I'm way behind. So I say she gets good deed points for putting the good deed challenge out there. And making me feel the good deed competitive heat. <br /><br />Also, bonus points for pointing out that we should focus on other people and not ourselves. <br /><br />My New Year's resolutions actually involve more sex, more money, and sex again.<br /><br />See? Even the charitable nature of her resolution is morally superior to my goals for selfish self-improvement. Which I usually fail to accomplish anyway because I'm so damn lazy. <br /><br />So, kudos to Anne for adding to the blog (point!), and having a really charitable and noble sense of self-improvment (point!), and a minor brickbat for bragging (point off!), leaving her definitely up one for the day.Saint Croixhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17876368500159112781noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6329595.post-78208379677940195872013-01-01T14:37:12.293-06:002013-01-01T14:37:12.293-06:00Oh, I'm totally calling one of these Althouse ...Oh, I'm totally calling one of these Althouse posts a good deed. It's free labor! Nobody's paying me. It's time and mental labor and, arguably anyway, it benefits humanity. There you go. I'm in.Saint Croixhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17876368500159112781noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6329595.post-14424612451649670092013-01-01T14:26:42.702-06:002013-01-01T14:26:42.702-06:00I do these little good deeds regularly not because...<i>I do these little good deeds regularly not because of some resolution, but because that is the person I'm trying to be.</i><br /><br />Yeah, but that's vague.<br /><br />Doing a good deed every day is a very specific goal. You have to keep track. You have to have the opportunity to do a good deed. And if you don't have the opportunity, you have to make the opportunity. <br /><br />I've only got 9 hours left, for instance, and I haven't done a good deed yet. <br /><br />Although I did refrain from calling Ritmo an idiot. Does that count? <br /><br />Also, you can't brag about your good deeds. So I just ruined that one. If that was one. Damn it! <br /><br />Oh, crap, I just cursed. Now I'm adding evil to the world. <br /><br /><i>It could be as simple as letting someone ahead of us in traffic, helping a person find the right aisle in the grocery or even being nice to a telemarketer.</i><br /><br />I do all those. But that's not a daily deed. How often do people get lost in a grocery store, anyway. <br /><br />Now I'm worried I'm going to be too aggressive in my helping. "Are you lost? Can I help you? You look lost."<br /><br />I'm not going to be able to drive anywhere. "No, no, you go ahead."<br /><br />I'm going to slide a dollar under my neighbor's door. And they're going to yank the door open and give me a look. "What is wrong with you?" <br /><br />Uh, random act of kindness, I only had nine hours left, sorry.<br /><br />I don't know, it's a lot of pressure. Maybe tomorrow.Saint Croixhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17876368500159112781noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6329595.post-54502555236104798912013-01-01T08:14:09.455-06:002013-01-01T08:14:09.455-06:00Do a good deed every day. They taught us that in ...Do a good deed every day. They taught us that in Boy Scouts.<br /><br />They also taught us to be polite to everyone. But they never taught us what to do when your kindness is taken for submission, for example, when you hold the door for someone who ignores your presence completely.<br /><br />That's one of those things you have to teach yourself, eventually.Eric the Fruit Bathttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11003976042428037836noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6329595.post-34743534877692737972013-01-01T08:10:53.193-06:002013-01-01T08:10:53.193-06:00@Anne -- quality, not quantity.
@Anne -- quality, not quantity. <br /><br />MadisonManhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01212179466758420208noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6329595.post-55720630452154390882013-01-01T05:30:35.707-06:002013-01-01T05:30:35.707-06:00Doing a good deed everyday is better than most res...Doing a good deed everyday is better than most resolutions, and as noted through the list of what counts as a good deed, it is more easily possible then it sounds at first.<br /><br />My only quibble is that being considerate and decent is not so much "a good deed" as it is a way of life. I do these little good deeds regularly not because of some resolution, but because that is the person I'm trying to be.tim maguirehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07717622436074043099noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6329595.post-22049717917858850062013-01-01T04:24:52.602-06:002013-01-01T04:24:52.602-06:00Wow, after years of reading Althouse, I finally co...Wow, after years of reading Althouse, I finally comment and it makes a post!<br /><br />Thank you Ann. <br /><br />Anne in Rockwall, TXhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00171076259617071023noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6329595.post-35961097263206975032013-01-01T00:57:30.400-06:002013-01-01T00:57:30.400-06:00I understand not liking telemarketers or political...I understand not liking telemarketers or political pollsters or bill collectors.<br /><br />I understand hanging up on them.<br /><br />The telemarketers work because polite people don't interrupt and wait for a break in the spiel to try to say "not interested."<br /><br />Just hang up.<br /><br />What I don't understand is the people who are abusive to you. It takes effort to be abusive to you. When I was calling before the election I got (very rarely) someone who screamed at the top of her lungs and some guy who swore and another who hit something on his phone that made a piercing shriek. The purpose, obviously, was to hurt me.<br /><br />Just hang up. Being a total dick to a real person isn't going to keep someone from calling again and again. They can't see your phone number, can't access a "list" to update your wishes, they're just trying to get paid and are doing the worst job possible. The worst thing that happened to you today was getting a nuisance phone call.<br /><br />So hang up.Synovahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01311191981918160095noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6329595.post-76007382048249016702013-01-01T00:25:47.316-06:002013-01-01T00:25:47.316-06:00Happy new year everybody.Happy new year everybody.Lem the artificially intelligent https://www.blogger.com/profile/03569712564034666751noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6329595.post-84078319827218321542013-01-01T00:24:07.084-06:002013-01-01T00:24:07.084-06:00I have done a good deed every day since, for the l...<i>I have done a good deed every day since, for the last thirteen years.</i><br /><br />George Will spoke of that uniquely American <a href="http://althouse.blogspot.com/2012/12/george-will-on-religion-and-politics.html" rel="nofollow">drive to do good</a> in his talk on Religion and Politics.Lem the artificially intelligent https://www.blogger.com/profile/03569712564034666751noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6329595.post-86361524964806579982012-12-31T23:55:09.278-06:002012-12-31T23:55:09.278-06:00I help by being someone you can do good deeds for....I help by being someone you can do good deeds for.<br />DADvocatehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04621021178600799126noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6329595.post-73377917576722766302012-12-31T23:48:26.281-06:002012-12-31T23:48:26.281-06:00When I was reading up on the Aftermath of the Duke...When I was reading up on the Aftermath of the Duke Lacrosse case, you can see how skewed things have become. One of the lawyers representing the Lacrosse players talked ab out his father, who fought for civil rights for blacks. Apparently, their family was in serious jeopardy from random acts of violence.<br /><br />That's what I call compassion, when you have real skin in the game. Today, everyone is like a chicken in "who has more skin in the game in a ham and eggs breakfast, the chicken or the pig."Dantehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07393170116669470751noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6329595.post-10472989465293633062012-12-31T23:46:11.092-06:002012-12-31T23:46:11.092-06:00I draw the line at telemarketers. They intrude int...I draw the line at telemarketers. They intrude into my time and my space. They are unwelcome, laws were passed that over half the population jumped to sign up on - the No Call Lists.<br />And many of the firms just go ahead and break the law.<br /><br />I understand the argument that the poor low level employees of the rich owners are just hapless low skilled people trying to put food on the table.<br />But so are union goons, poachers, and the poor people hooked up with a lawyer to get a cut of the action as slip and fall claimants.<br /><br />Just because they are poor does not warrant being nice to them as law breakers or odious intruders. Cedarfordhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00602418702398818596noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6329595.post-8830590593109856842012-12-31T23:23:29.233-06:002012-12-31T23:23:29.233-06:00Being nice to telemarketers is not a good deed. It...Being nice to telemarketers is not a good deed. It's like feeding rats...it encourages more of them.Smilin' Jackhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01501763605001379362noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6329595.post-20033044813056219722012-12-31T22:46:24.536-06:002012-12-31T22:46:24.536-06:00Rusty,
I was thinking the exact same thing. I wond...Rusty,<br />I was thinking the exact same thing. I wondered if I can get credit for NOT saying things I think of.Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12418832032663751497noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6329595.post-66279975352946505542012-12-31T22:38:51.278-06:002012-12-31T22:38:51.278-06:00What a beautiful suggestion; a good deed each day....What a beautiful suggestion; a good deed each day.<br /><br />A great thing to ponder.<br />KCFleminghttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00124201866124646626noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6329595.post-68962214845794197252012-12-31T22:22:41.122-06:002012-12-31T22:22:41.122-06:00Sometimes, Althouse, it's enough just not to b...Sometimes, Althouse, it's enough just not to be a son of a bitch.Rustyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00938263272237104128noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6329595.post-45338872647734544082012-12-31T21:58:36.915-06:002012-12-31T21:58:36.915-06:00Happy New Year Ann! I am new to your blog by a few...Happy New Year Ann! I am new to your blog by a few months, and have thoroughly enjoyed reading. Love this thought and sentiment!<br />Peace and all good.elliehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00764357801293385173noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6329595.post-54338187105114237032012-12-31T21:56:02.933-06:002012-12-31T21:56:02.933-06:00I wonder if she voted for Obama before or after do...I wonder if she voted for Obama before or after doing her daily good deed. Maybe she considered that her good deed for the day.<br /><br /> After retiring I did a little volunteering and meals on wheels for a few years, there were some old women who look forward to their meals just to have a little visit with someone while it was a nuisance for others who tried it but didn't like it. Some of them seem to be in physical pain and it just aggravated them to be bothered.<br /><br />Also, I remember one day hearing the receptionist say something about her bosses taking their two hour lunches. I think working for a non profit is a lot like working for the government for you get paid with other people's money thus you're paid generously and you don't have to work too hard.dreamshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08758740197698814061noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6329595.post-5713746661705972132012-12-31T21:54:54.716-06:002012-12-31T21:54:54.716-06:00A wonderful thought and story. Thank you, Ann and...A wonderful thought and story. Thank you, Ann and Happy New Year!CWJhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03598487232861475833noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6329595.post-89177671967822348552012-12-31T21:22:12.165-06:002012-12-31T21:22:12.165-06:00"He has a long and cruel and odious life befo..."He has a long and cruel and odious life before him, but I will change that, for I have no feeling against him and am quite willing to do him a kindness. I think I shall get him burned."<br /><br />He had such strange notions of kindness! But angels are made so, and do not know any better. dvlfish13https://www.blogger.com/profile/15247885402523882287noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6329595.post-25540108405118771862012-12-31T21:01:36.197-06:002012-12-31T21:01:36.197-06:00Marvelous.
Happy New YearMarvelous.<br /><br />Happy New YearFleetUSAhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08027592116431211933noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6329595.post-25260748354988068972012-12-31T21:01:20.107-06:002012-12-31T21:01:20.107-06:00"Petting a dog is actually a form of blessing...<i>"Petting a dog is actually a form of blessing---and there is a return on the investment."</i><br /><br />Tell me about it. I was on vacation for a week and when I got back to work, everyone was sick. I took evasive action, and refused to go in anyone's office, or handle any papers from others. I had built a defensive perimeter and I was determined to make it through Friday without catching anything.<br /><br />I forgot something. I take three dogs to work every day, and they run free through the company. The first thing they do is run around and say good morning to every person, and then return to my office to bless me. I never even considered the canine vector until it was too late. Bless their hearts.bagoh20https://www.blogger.com/profile/10915174575358413637noreply@blogger.com